Name: 💬 Charisma Workshop & Bookstore Social | ART OF GRACEFUL GOODBYES (THU)
Start: 2025-11-20T18:00:00-05:00
End: 2025-11-20T20:00:00-05:00
Location: Phoenix Books

**✨A people skills lab meets bookstore social. For thoughtful humans intentionally building community ✨**

☕ The art of conversation is the difference between an espresso with milk, and an artisanal latte.

🧠 Some reasons to learn it:

1. It's the most important adulting skill. Networking, persuasion, finding friends & partners - all are extensions of the art of conversation
2. It's a health imperative to have friends and be in community. The World Health Organization even considers humanity's [rising loneliness a public health threat](https://www.weforum.org/stories/2023/11/who-lonelines-health-priority-weekly-health-roundup/)
3. It's really fun :) contrary to the addictive joy of social media, hanging out with real people is waaaay more fun than parasocial YouTuber friends

🔥 Honestly? I’m tired of conversations shaped by TikTok debate culture—where being rude is thought to be clever, and where empathy gets lost in the scroll.

😊 I want to be with the kind of people who are thoughtful about how they show up in the world, who communicate with intention and care, and who are the kind of people I want to know and be.

👋 If you've read this far, I'm guessing that's you :) this event is for:

* Recovering awkward humans navigating a confusing world with many social rules (same)
* Adults navigating the odd world of making adult friends
* Socially awkward (or anxious\*) queens/kings 👑
* People-facing professionals sharpening their social talent
* Curious learners wanting to design their social presence

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**✨✨ What to Expect✨✨:**

*🎉 1. Charisma Workshop (60-90 mins)*

Led by ICF-Certified Authenticity Coach Amy Zhou (hi, that's me!) these workshops are all about designing a social presence that feels like you.

The focus can include powerful questions, boundaries, storytelling, and more.

💪 You’ll walk away with:

* **A warm-up icebreaker** to ease into connection and get comfortable
* **A bite-sized masterclass** tailored for the workshop, including a clear framework or group discussion to deepen understanding
* **An interactive workshop** where you get to try out new skills in a safe space and feel what it’s like to embody them
* **A live coaching demo** where you can experience your peers' growth and courage
* **A confidence boost** rooted in who you really are

🖊️ *Optional: Please bring a pen & paper!*

*📚 2. Bookstore Social (30-60 mins)*

The second half is slow and simple: connect with someone from the workshop, browse a book, or just sit in shared presence. No expectations—just human conversation and gentle community.

**💸 This is a Sliding Scale Event!**
A friend of mine used to host a Friendsgiving where you could either bring a dish or pitch in money ahead of time so the host could handle the store-bought food. These workshops work the same way — both options help make the gathering possible.

**1. [Reserved Seat Ticket](https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thecharismagiclab/1868323)[:](https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thecharismagiclab/1868317)**

* This is the “pitch in for dinner” option. When you purchase a ticket **[here](https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thecharismagiclab/1868323)**, your spot is guaranteed and you’ll receive:
* Your choice of seating (front, middle, or back)
* 25% off all bookstore purchases on the day of the event
* (Optional) Opportunity to pre-register for a free coaching session during the live demo

**2\. Tip\-Based RSVP:**

* This is the *“bring your own turkey”* option. A limited number of tip-based seats are available for guests who RSVP via Meetup and contribute a tip in person based on what you feel the event was worth.
* We suggest a **$10–$20 tip**, recognizing that we’re supporting this space together.
* Seating is first come, first served :)

🗓️ **When & Where**

* 🕕 Hosted twice a month from August to November on Thursdays 6–8PM & Sundays 2–4PM. New topic each month, new style each time.
* 📍 The Venue: Phoenix Books is a charming used bookstore in NDG that's so much more.
* 🗓️ Find my other events on Meetup & on my [calendar](https://linktr.ee/friendmeetcutes)

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**❤️ Your Host: Amy Zhou**

Amy is an [ICF-Certified Authenticity Coach](http://www.amyzhou.me/) who supports professionals, creatives, and entrepreneurs going from self-doubt to self-aligned. She's hosted Friend Meet Cutes around the world inspired by the search for our truest selves & closest friends, and believes friendship is a radical & needed act of care.

She’s also a newcomer to Montreal, she's lived in 6+ cities on 3+ continents & building new friend groups along the way, and a Swiftie who once nearly died getting to a Taylor Swift concert in Brazil. (True story.)

Follow me!

* [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/ames_zhou/)
* [LinkedIn](https://www.linkedin.com/in/amyzhou4/)
* [@FriendMeetCutes Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/friendmeetcutes/)
* [Friend Meet Cutes Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/people/Friend-Meet-Cutes-Montreal/61570060718724/)
* [Subscribe to future event announcements](https://linktr.ee/friendmeetcutes)

***📸 I sometimes take photos and short videos to capture the vibe of these gatherings for social media posts promoting the events.*** *I never post audio of attendees. If you'd rather not be in close-up shots, just let me know—I'm happy to honour that. While I do my best to be mindful, it might not be possible to exclude folks from wide group photos. Thanks so much for your understanding and presence. 💛*

Amy Zhou

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