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What we’re about

Most of our members are locals from Chicago who are tired of the usual dating scene and are looking for something real. They're professionals in their late 20s to mid 40s who value honesty, kindness, and meaningful connections over casual hookups. Many have tried online dating and realized it leaves them wanting more something genuine, face to face, with people who share their intentions.

What really holds this group together is a shared belief in kindness, respect, and emotional honesty. We’re not about games or pretending to be someone you’re not. Instead, we focus on creating a safe space where people can show up as their true selves, listen deeply, and connect without pressure. Being 'kind' isn’t just in our name it’s how we treat each other, every single time we meet.

Our events are designed to spark real conversation, not awkward small talk. Think low key outings like coffee walks along the lakefront, small group dinners, museum tours, or volunteer days activities that give you something to talk about and enjoy together. There’s no forced mingling or cheesy icebreakers, just organic opportunities to get to know someone while doing things you already love.

If you’re ready to meet people who are as serious about building something meaningful as you are, this is the place. You’ll get to connect with like minded singles in a relaxed, judgment free setting where real relationships have room to grow. Come join us and see how a simple conversation over coffee or a walk in the park might lead to something truly special.

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