Why does being rejected hurt so much?

Studies show that rejection is one feeling that people avoid at all cost. Being rejected reinforces the belief that many people have. I’m not enough. And it reinforces the second belief that many people have. “If I’m not enough, I won’t be loved”.
Yet there are others who don’t allow this to hold them back. They seem to have an incredible confidence and carry themselves differently. They are dating regularly, enjoying life and having a blast!
When you went through your divorce or separation, how badly were you effected?
Deanna said, “Who would want me?” She was a single mum with 3 small children. When she saw in vision the man that she would marry using a coaching technique strategic visioning, her belief shifted. 6 months later she was in a relationship. Now, 8 years later she is happily remarried.
Darren said, “I was sitting on a bus and within 10 minutes I received a text message from all three of my ex-wives”. Well, Darren did not feel too happy at the time, and said that he was grateful for the coaching tools and the emotional mastery techniques. Darren chose poorly, and couldn’t seem to make a relationship last. After learning and applying coaching techniques, he created internal changes at a nervous system level, and met and married Deanna.
How does coaching help in a relationship.

1. Healing. You carry wounds. Rejection, guilt, regret, hurt and resentment. You must not project these negative emotions onto you current and future relationships every time you are unconsciously triggered. It is time for you to heal! Coaching will increase your belief in healing, and your ability to heal faster.
2. Reframe. You don’t always get it right. Often we react to our thoughts, not reality. Drawing conclusions, skepticism, being untrusting. These cause you to push others away and to sabotage your relationship sometimes even before the relationship begins. Coaching can help you change your beliefs, thoughts and reactions.
3. Attract the right person. Sick and tired of the dating the same person, with a different face and name. Coaching can help you to attract a different type of person into your life.
4. Love. There are 8 different types of love. Learn and know what you are after so that you can both clarity and success. Coaching is the best way to get clarity and create unconscious change.
   Joshua Roy is a seminar leader and life coach. During his 24 year career as a police officer, and police Sergeant he attended many Domestic Violence incidents. The mounting pressures of life, uncertainty and stress continues to put strain onto family relationships. During the last Decade Joshua Roy has ventured into the coaching space, and has worked with singles and couples extensively on the topic of relationships.
   Understanding love, developing coping strategies, being resilient and boundary setting are just some of the many topics he has explored, and taught others.
   Joshua failed in his first relationship. He felt the loss deeply. His family was divided and the adult children of his first marriage are all still struggling as a result.
   He has dedicated his life to helping people to attract the right type of person, and create a relationship filled with love and passion.
   He developed 4 relationship programs.
5. The chemistry of love.
6. Creating a relationship vision
7. Maintaining intimacy in your relationship
8. The pathway to passion
   He and his wife Rebecca live in Queensland Australia.