What we’re about
Welcome to Chicks Who Eat, Drink, and Swear! This group was founded by 3 organizers because we wanted to meet chicks like us, i.e., down-to-earth women who won't judge for chowing down on greasy food, drinking too much, and dropping F bombs. The group transitioned to the current leadership a few years because we loved the community.
Women (by birth or identify) of all ages are welcome whether you're 25 or 55!
A few rules, because ya know, some just don't know how to act.
- Do not RSVP to events if you only have a casual interest. Only RSVP if you are genuinely planning to attend. Life happens and plans change. Remember to update your RSVP in a timely manner if you can’t attend. Do understand that for some events restaurants are booked and for some events, hosts arrive early to grab a large table. In every scenario, the event host requires an exact head count. By not showing up, not only you take the spot of someone in the waitlist but you also waste a table space in the restaurant for which the host might be fined by the restaurant. In casual settings, when you are a no-show, the host spends the entire time looking for you, instead of partaking in her event. We are tracking attendance in a rolling 6 month period of time. Cancellation within 48 hours prior to the start of the event will receive .5 points. A no show is 1 point. Earning 3 points is grounds for removal from the group.
- Even when you attend an event at a counter restaurant, you are required to order something. Do understand that table service restaurants issue a single check for the entire table. Splitting the check by running eight different credit cards on a table is extremely difficult for the staff. Plan to bring cash or pay via Venmo to the event host. And don’t hurry or fling your cash at the host while the host is splitting the check. Remember that hosts aren’t getting paid to organize events and aren't at your beck and call.
- Remember, waitstaff have to work harder to accommodate a large group. Have patience and be courteous. Don't be an asshole by skimming on the gratuity.
- This is a social group. Don’t peddle your services or products.
- Event hosts are not paid positions. We are all volunteers and like you, we do this because we want to get out and have fun. Sometimes events don’t go as planned and we need to be flexible. Please be courteous!
- I want to make this a fun environment! Feel free to make connections with others. The point of this is to develop friendships and you will do that by reaching out to individuals! After you meet someone, by all means, ask for their contact info and connect with them. But note, this is after you meet them in real life. Please don’t message people who you haven’t met in person.
- Not everyone will get along with everyone, but we are adults and can be civil . We aren't in high school. No Drama Llama!!!
- Lastly, have fun! That is the point of this group. Get out of the house and do exciting things and make wonderful friends!!!
And If you have ideas for activities, please let me know. Fresh ideas are always welcome!!!
I look forward to meeting you soon!
Thank you,
Jill, Marisa, Phing, and Carin
Upcoming events
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Tapas at Cascal
Cascal, 400 Castro Street Mountain View, CA 94041, Mountain View, CA, USLadies, let’s get together for a fun evening out at Cascal in Mountain View! This spot is known for its vibrant atmosphere, amazing tapas, and flavorful cocktails – the perfect setting for our group to laugh, eat, drink, and of course, swear a little.
Since Cascal does one check for the table, please plan ahead to Venmo me or bring cash so we can make it easy at the end of the night.
Parking is a challenge in Mountain View so I am planning to take an Uber. If you live near Willow Glen and want to share one, please text me 408-580-4930!
Looking forward to a night of good food and great company!
9 attendees
Thrill The World Flash Mob
Adira Dance and Costume Dancewear, 2038 Lincoln Ave, San Jose, CA, USUpdate! More info can be found about the event including step by step instructions (written and in video) can be found at ThrilltheWorld.
I am very bummed that I have a class on Wednesday that conflicts with the first 4 weeks of the instructions. I do plan to participate in the Flash Mob Halloween weekend. Anyone who is interested in participating, please attend all 8 weeks of dance instructions. I'd love to practice with you Thursday night following each of the classes and we can even coordinate our costumes.
The last weekend of October, we perform in Pruneyard, Downtown Campbell, and more locations (maybe even Levi Stadium???). The schedule of performances will be given out once everything has been confirmed. There is no obligation to perform. You can just attend classes. You can also pick and choose which performances you will attend. We perform Friday, Saturday, and Sunday! We even might have a performance the weekend before. Last year, we performed at a nursing home. We viewed it as our dress rehearsal.
Please note: I know that Michael Jackson can be controversial. It is a fun activity and Michael Jackson's estate makes no money off this. The organization has approval to play the music royalty free. As long as we dance to the extended album song (not the radio version), his estate lets us do it for free. And this is a huge boom for our local restaurants. People flock out to the restaurants to see us perform. Yes, we go into the restaurants in downtown Campbell to perform multiple times that night. And it is a sold out night for them!
The classes are held in the back parking lot of Adira Dance and Costume. There isn't a lot of street parking. If you want to carpool, let me know. I live just 10 minutes away. I plan to leave my house at 6:05. Text me and I'll send you my address. 408-580-4930
Don't worry if you aren't a great dancer. There are all ability levels there. As long as you are in zombie costume and keep moving, the crowds love it!
So again, I will not be there for the first 4 lessons, but I encourage you to attend so you can learn the dance. As soon as my class is over, I will let everyone know and start attending!
Jill (408) 580-4930
1 attendee
Campbell Oktoberfest: Volunteer & Festival Fun!
Campbell Farmers Market, Central and 2nd St., Campbell , CA, USLet’s get into the Oktoberfest spirit—Campbell style!
I’ll be volunteering at the beer booth from 9:45 AM to 2:00 PM, and I’d love for some of you to join me. It’s a fun way to be part of the action, meet great people, and kick off the day with some good vibes and community energy. Not into pouring brews? No problem—there are also volunteer spots available at the ticket booth, pretzel booth, and kids zone, so there’s something for everyone.
After the shift, we’ll head into the festival to enjoy the live music, browse the vendors, and grab a well-earned bite (and maybe a stein or two 🍻).
Whether you want to volunteer or just meet up later for the festivities, it’ll be a day full of fun, laughter, and local flavor. Let me know if you’d like to help out—I can point you in the right direction!
See you there! Jill 408-580-4930
Links:
Oktoberfest: Campbell Chamber Oktoberfest
Volunteer Signup: Campbell Oktoberfest 2025 | Volunteers3 attendeesThrill The World Flash Mob
Adira Dance and Costume Dancewear, 2038 Lincoln Ave, San Jose, CA, USUpdate! More info can be found about the event including step by step instructions (written and in video) can be found at ThrilltheWorld.
I am very bummed that I have a class on Wednesday that conflicts with the first 4 weeks of the instructions. I do plan to participate in the Flash Mob Halloween weekend. Anyone who is interested in participating, please attend all 8 weeks of dance instructions. I'd love to practice with you Thursday night following each of the classes and we can even coordinate our costumes.
The last weekend of October, we perform in Pruneyard, Downtown Campbell, and more locations (maybe even Levi Stadium???). The schedule of performances will be given out once everything has been confirmed. There is no obligation to perform. You can just attend classes. You can also pick and choose which performances you will attend. We perform Friday, Saturday, and Sunday! We even might have a performance the weekend before. Last year, we performed at a nursing home. We viewed it as our dress rehearsal.
Please note: I know that Michael Jackson can be controversial. It is a fun activity and Michael Jackson's estate makes no money off this. The organization has approval to play the music royalty free. As long as we dance to the extended album song (not the radio version), his estate lets us do it for free. And this is a huge boom for our local restaurants. People flock out to the restaurants to see us perform. Yes, we go into the restaurants in downtown Campbell to perform multiple times that night. And it is a sold out night for them!
The classes are held in the back parking lot of Adira Dance and Costume. There isn't a lot of street parking. If you want to carpool, let me know. I live just 10 minutes away. I plan to leave my house at 6:05. Text me and I'll send you my address. 408-580-4930
Don't worry if you aren't a great dancer. There are all ability levels there. As long as you are in zombie costume and keep moving, the crowds love it!
So again, I will not be there for the first 4 lessons, but I encourage you to attend so you can learn the dance. As soon as my class is over, I will let everyone know and start attending!
Jill (408) 580-4930
1 attendee
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