Choose Your Spice

A fun and flirty community for committed couples who want to spice up their relationship, sex life, and social life!

Every relationship is unique yet many couples feel pressure to fit someone else’s definition of intimacy, romance, or sexuality. Choose Your Spice is a supportive atmosphere to explore these topics thoughtfully, respectfully, and without shame.

Careers? Kids? Pets? Life is stressful. How about dating your partner again while making new friends? Whether you’re looking to strengthen communication, rekindle emotional closeness, or develop a more authentic expression of intimacy together, you’ll find a supportive environment where curiosity is welcomed and every couple’s journey is honored.

These social events, workshops, and retreats are organized by Sovereign Ministries - combining sex-positive pastoral care with practical, evidence-informed relationship education. Our approach encourages couples to build intimacy through trust, communication, mutual respect, and intentional exploration within the commitments they have chosen together.

What you’ll find:

• Couples social events, date nights, workshops, and retreats
• Real conversations about building desire and intimacy
• A judgment-free atmosphere where questions are welcome
• A community that values privacy, dignity, and respect

Why do we need a group like this? Because you can’t have great sex unless you can talk about it. Healthy intimacy is built on consent, communication, trust, and mutual care.

If you’re ready to move beyond cultural expectations and intentionally create a relationship that reflects who you are as a couple, we’d love to welcome you to Choose Your Spice.