July Death Cafe - Christchurch

Hello death-talkers
You are invited to join us for the July Death Cafe.

This month we are using the private room at The Birdwood Cafe. More spacious, it accommodate up to 16. Its called 'The Deck' and its through the original restaurant, past the pizza counter. The heaters will be on before we arrive - so should be warm and cosy - but just in case wear an extra layer.

If you aim to be there by 9:30 so you can get settled order drinks etc,.. we will get started by 9:45am

Melanie

• WHAT HAPPENS AT OUR DEATH CAFE?
- It's a group-directed conversation about death and dying. Talking about death helps remind us of how precious life is.

- We talk about all sorts of interesting death-related things; aging parents, death doulas, books we've read, death in different cultures, assisted dying, near death experiences (NDEs), philosophy, the meaning of life, and our own personal experiences to name a few. Each meeting is different - a reflection of the ever-changing mix of people on the day. There are often gasps of wonder and bursts of laughter.

- We don't promote any particular conclusion, belief system or course of action. While we dont always agree with each other - we do aim to foster kindness and compassion.

- Death Cafe is not a grief support. It will not suit people who are recently bereaved or who are actively grieving. There are better support groups more suited to this.

• WHAT TO BRING
- An open mind, curiousity, and a willingness to join in the conversation.
- A koha towards the costs of running this site on Meetup is always appreciated. If cashless is easier - this is the account: Creatrix Limited 03-0830-0625413-000. Thankyou

• DEATH CAFE ETIQUETTE
Seats are limited and there is always a waiting list of people keen to come. If after booking in for any reason you arent able to make it, please come back to this Meetup event page and change your attendance status - this frees up your seat for the next person on the waiting list. many thanks :-)

• FACEBOOK GROUP
if you'd like to join our FB group - this is us: www.facebook.com/groups/ChristchurchDeathCafe

• FAVOURITE QUOTE
Still loving this quote by Kahlil Gibran:
"We live only to discover beauty,
All else is a form of waiting"