Women's Spiritual Journey discusses Fidelity

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Women's Spiritual Journey* randomly picks a different character trait to discuss each month. Discussions are freewheeling, guided by the interests of the group. Generally, we think about how the quality operates in our lives (or doesn't), what it looks like, what it produces, and how we can strengthen it. Diverse backgrounds and viewpoints are celebrated: we are enriched by it! This month we're discussing...

Fidelity
Fidelity is abiding by an agreement, treating it as a personal covenant. It is remaining true to a cherished ideal no matter what happens to thwart our purpose. Marriage thrives when we fulfill our promise to absolute faithfulness to each other. In each relationship we form, fidelity keeps us scrupulously loyal. We avoid backbiting and casting blame. We call on our courage to resolve differences face to face. We are devoted to our employment and keep faith with a standard of excellence. We continually aim to be trustworthy. Fidelity keeps us on the path of true integrity.

Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose. ~Helen Keller

The Practice of Fidelity
I honor my commitments.
I stay true to my partner.
I am loyal to those I love.
I work out problems directly.
I am meticulous in my work.
I walk my talk.

I am thankful for the gift of Fidelity. It is my firm foundation.

Thinking About Fidelity

1. What does a personal covenant mean to you?
2. Are there times when we should break an agreement?
3. When has it been especially difficult to be true to your ideals?
4. What does absolute faithfulness entail? Is it just about what you don’t do? Is it just about actions?
5. Should parts of an agreement remain even if the circumstances change and/or the relationship ends?
6. How do backbiting and casting blame relate to fidelity?
7. Why is it important to devote yourself to your work? Does it matter if you don’t have a paying job?
8. How do trustworthiness and integrity relate to fidelity?
9. Does your life involve what you consider worthy purposes? Does pursuing them bring you happiness?