Composed & Confident: A Private Gathering for Women Navigating Divorce
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## What to Expect
This is a curated 90-minute gathering designed for women navigating divorce or co-parenting who want to move through this season with composure, clarity, and strength.
This is not a venting circle.
This is a guided, intentional space focused on emotional regulation, self-leadership, and graceful communication.
### Evening Flow
Welcome + Connection
Arrive, settle in, light appetizers, and intentional introductions.
Grounded Leadership Framework
We’ll walk through practical anchors for navigating emotional triggers, difficult conversations, and changed relationship dynamics with stability instead of reaction.
Structured Conversation
Guided prompts and facilitated discussion focused on solutions, perspective shifts, and personal leadership — not blame or spiraling.
Personal Reflection Exercise
You’ll create your own “Leadership Code” — a written commitment to how you choose to show up in this next chapter.
Closing + Next Steps
Connection, integration, and optional continued community opportunities.
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## What to Bring
• An open mind
• A willingness to reflect
• A journal or notebook
• Respect for the privacy and experience of other women
Appetizers will be available. Drinks may be purchased separately from the venue.
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## How to Find Us
We will be meeting at 20Twenty Cheese & Wine Bar in Willow Glen (San Jose).
Upon arrival:
• Look for the reserved table under “Composed & Confident”
• I will be greeting guests at the entrance area 10 minutes before start time
• The event begins promptly at 6:30pm
You’ll receive a confirmation message the day before with any final details.
About Your Host:
Hi everyone,
I’m SC Cavali — your host for Composed & Confident. Some of you may also see my name online as Shradha Cripe. I’m currently in a personal rebrand and life transition, and both names represent chapters of my journey. You are allowed to have many chapters in your story. I certainly have.
A bit more about me than you'll find on my socials: I navigated the end of my marriage six years ago and finalized my divorce over three years ago. More recently, I completed what I would call the “emotional divorce” — the deeper internal separation that isn’t handled in court, but within ourselves.
While I had support in some areas, there were significant gaps. I spent years learning — through court navigation, co-parenting adjustments, support structures for my children, and understanding complex relational dynamics — what it truly takes to move forward with strength instead of just survival.
What I noticed was this:
Most of what’s publicly available focuses on the logistics of divorce. The paperwork. The financials. The legal strategy.
Very little addresses the internal leadership required to emotionally detach from an unhealthy dynamic and rebuild with composure.
That’s the space I care deeply about.
This gathering is the beginning of creating that space — one rooted in dignity, clarity, and self-leadership.
If you are here, know this:
- You are not alone.
- You are allowed to move forward.
- You are capable of navigating this chapter with more strength than you may currently feel.
I’m looking forward to meeting you.
— SC