Some guys are stuck in dating because they don’t know enough.
But many are stuck because they know too much — and still don’t go for what they want.
They’ve watched the videos, read the books, followed coaches.
They’re smart. Self-aware. Reflective.
But when it comes to dating, they’re still overthinking, second-guessing, or holding back.
This session is for men who feel like they’re circling the runway instead of getting their love life to take off.
Whether you’re always planning, always “working on yourself,” or stuck in perfectionism – we’ll take a look at why this happens and how to break free.
We’ll go through a powerful model called the Cycle of Creation.
It shows how everything we build – from a relationship to a new lifestyle – moves through phases.
When you’re strong in one phase but avoid the others, it creates imbalance.
And imbalance in life leads to stagnation in dating.
Maybe you’re addicted to inspiration (dopamine loops, YouTube rabbit holes).
Or you’re acting a lot—but never stopping to adjust.
Or you never take a break to tap into your own intuition.
You’ll walk away with a clear understanding of:
💡 The 4 phases of the creative cycle – and what each one demands from you
💡 Which phase you tend to overdo or avoid
💡 Why you might have trouble to follow one approach and stick to it
💡 How to finally build momentum toward real change – whether you want more dates, more confidence, or a deeper relationship
This is a practical, honest session. No spiritual bypassing, no cheesy techniques.
Just grounded insights and support to get moving in the right direction.
Mathias Rabe – Dating coach for men and recurring guest at the Conscious Relationship School – guides you through this cycle and helps you reconnect with your natural ability to create momentum. From stillness to inspiration, from clarity to action.
Agenda:
- Welcome (5 min.)
- Crash Course Creation Cycle (20 min.)
- 1:1 Coaching Session (15 min.)
- Q&A (10 min.)
There will be space for live coaching and real questions – so bring what’s currently blocking you. It is a great opportunity to gain clarity, have light bulb moments and save a lot of time and energy.
The Rules (yeah we Germans love them)
- This is an event for men, who act with respect and are willing to support each other.
- Be aware that you'll be expected to have your video on. See it as your first lesson in confidence.
- RSVP responsibly: If your plans change, update your RSVP status. We want to create an amazing experience for everyone, so make sure you’re not missing out!
