

What we’re about
Join growth-oriented women* who love women, or want to, for deep learning, connection and conscious exploration in the worlds of lesbian/queer dating, relationships and sex!
This group is part of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, the leading resource providing education, community and transformation to lesbians and queer women from all over the world. Do you want to find a deeply fulfilling, happy, healthy relationship, or keep your current relationship strong? Do you want more opportunities to connect with like-minded women? Do check out our offerings at the Academy! https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com,
Recent classes include:
- Sacred Lesbian/Queer Sexuality
- Five Keys to Finding -- And Being -- the Right Partner
- Fully Receiving, Appropriately Giving
- Rewriting Your Relationship Scripts
- Understanding and Embracing Your Erotic Self
- Lesbian Dating Deep Dive
- Find True Love Online
- Write A Great Online Dating Profile
- Breakup Recovery: How to Finally Heal and Move On
- Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love
- Emotional Self-Awareness
- Clean Speech, Clean Listening: Lesbian Communication That Really Works
- Secrets of Great Oral Sex
- Anatomy of a Lesbian Relationship: Why Heartbreak Happens (and How to Prevent It)
- Healing Push-Pull Relationship Dynamics
...and much more!
We welcome self-identified women who love women, or want to. Non-binary folx who love women are also welcome. Out for decades, newly exploring your attraction to women, a "gold star" lesbian, or queer, bi or pansexual? You'll meet friends and community here. Many of our members are in their 50s, 60s, 70s and beyond. It's never too late for happy, healthy lesbian love and deeply fulfilling sex! It's also never too early :)
Our classes are based on cutting-edge neuroscience, psychology and relationship research. Our community is warm, welcoming and compassionate. We're here to help you have the love and sex life you truly want.
https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com
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Upcoming events (2)
See all- Network event13 attendees from 25 groups hostingNEW: Weekly Coming Out Later In Life Empowerment GroupLink visible for attendees
COMING OUT & COMING HOME Ongoing Empowerment Group
Especially for those coming out in their 40s, 50s, 60s & 70sWhether you've known since you were a kid but blocked it out, are just now realizing you're attracted to women, or came out awhile ago and need help finding community... if you are a woman who loves women, or thinks you might want to, this group is here to help you build clarity, confidence, community and belonging.
Meetings are weekly and the fee is a very affordable $99/month. ***You must register and pay here on our website. (A Meetup RSVP alone won't get you in.)
Why The Coming Out & Coming Home Group Exists
.. Because coming out can be one of the biggest, hardest, bravest and most important things you'll ever do.
... Because being your authentic self is key to a life well-lived, but it's almost impossible to get there without support.
... Because you deserve help from a warm, compassionate global lesbian community.

...Because it's never, ever too late.
... Because there isn't just one way to come out, or one way to be a lesbian or a woman-loving-woman.
... Because everything you've lived through has led you to this moment, and your time is now.

... Because lesbian dating is very different, and knowing how to do it right is key to avoiding heartbreak.
... Because lesbian relationships are more intense, and require some very specific skills to stay afloat and connected.
... Because lesbian sex can be the most amazing sex on the planet, but it's also way more varied and nuanced, so it takes building confidence, attunement, and bedroom communication skills.

... Because you deserve an open-hearted refuge, a place where people "get" you, accept you, appreciate you and cheer you on.
... Because the lesbian community is diverse, full of its own history, cultures and customs, and this is a safe place to learn them.
... Because there's nothing better than finally being loved for all of you you are, and are becoming.... And, this group is offered by the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, the leading global resource helping lesbians and queer women prevent heartbreak, date wisely and love well. We wrote the book on lesbian dating -- literally! You can start reading our Amazon bestseller Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love right here.
"One month in this group helped me more than years of therapy." -- B., 65
"If it wasn't for this group, I wouldn't be coming out at all." -- T., 50
If this group speaks to you, come check us out! Meetings are weekly and the fee is a very affordable $99/month. ***You must register and pay here on our website. (A Meetup RSVP alone won't get you in.)
- Network event17 attendees from 26 groups hostingLesbian Sexual Compatibility: Keep The Spark Strong Or Get It BackLink visible for attendees
## Longtime Lesbian Or Newly Out, Single Or Coupled...This Sexual Compatibility Class Is For You
Learn what really makes sex vibrant between women, how to find, recognize and tend a great sexual relationship, and what to do if it feels like you've lost the spark.
This live-on-Zoom class is on sale for just $25 (normally $50!) You must >register and pay here on our website (a Meetup RSVP alone won't get you in.) It's taught by seasoned lesbian educator Ruth L. Schwartz, Ph.D., founder of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, the leading global resource helping lesbians and queer women prevent heartbreak, date wisely and love well.
Ruth says, "My own lesbian marriage ended because we couldn't keep our sex life alive. After my divorce, I studied sex coaching for three years at the Somatica Institute, with Jaiya Ma, and elsewhere, and I now have radical new ways of understanding what sex really is, how it actually works, why it can be hard to keep it alive, and what to do about it. I'll never know if my marriage could have survived if I'd known then what I know now, but I sure wish I'd had the chance to find out. That's why I'm so passionate about teaching this class!"
### What You'll Learn
- What sexual compatibility really means in women loving women relationships, and how to spot red flags and green lights early.
- Why Lesbian Bed Death (lesbian/queer couples who stop having sex) is so common, even when the sex was great in the beginning, and what to do about it.
- How to handle it when one partner in a long-term lesbian couple loses interest.
- The unique challenges and opportunities in lesbian or queer sexual connection.
- How to talk about sex and intimacy from the beginning of a lesbian relationship (and why you should)
- How to broach the topic and get help, even after years of hurt, confusion, anger or scar tissue buildup around absent or unsatisfying sex.
- How to keep sex strong even as aging or other life changes impact your body and desire.
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### Who This Class is For
- Lesbian or queer couples (or individual members of a couple) who feel their erotic energy or connection has faded, and want to bring it back.
- Lesbian or queer singles who've struggled with sexual compatibility in the past, and want tools to make sure that doesn't happen in the future.
- Lesbians or queer women (and adjacent non-binary people) who worry if there's something wrong with your libido or turn-ons, and want to feel more comfortable and confident.
- Women-loving-women who know you love sex and want to keep having it, but struggle with a body changing due to menopause, medications, aging or illness.
- Queer women who miss having great sex in your relationship, but aren't sure what to do.
### Expect laughter. Expect relief. Expect aha moments.
### Leave feeling more whole, because empowered sexuality is part of wholeness. Great for singles or couples.
This live-on-Zoom class is on sale for just $25 (normally $50!) You must >register and pay here on our website (a Meetup RSVP alone won't get you in.)
Past events (252)
See all- Network event14 attendees from 23 groups hostingWeekly Conscious Lesbians 60+ Support & ConnectionThis event has passed