Lesbian Attachment & Communication Healing Intensive

Join this 5-part experiential intensive, not offered since 2024, because it is a heart saver! Join us to learn how to understand, heal from and prevent the leading cause of lesbian fights, breakups and pain.

An RSVP to this meetup group alone is not sufficient. Please click on this link to learn more and register for the 5 week course: [https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com/attachment-healing. ](https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com/attachment-healing)

This event is cross posted in 26 other meetup groups and will have over 100 attendees. It will be a space where you can do deep growth and learning in community with lesbian and queer community.

Do You Recognize Any Of These Crazy-Making Situations?
"She went from saying 'This is the love of a lifetime,' to saying she wasn't ready for a relationship a week later."
"I feel pressured by how much my GF needs me. I don't want to be her whole world."
"I just want daily contact and a quick response to my texts -- why is that so hard?"
"I don't want to have to fight for alone time. I love her, but I can't give her what she needs."
"We booked a romantic vacation, and when we got there she said didn't want me any more."
"We keep breaking up and then she reaches out again, and I just can't let go."
"When my GF travels for work, I panic. I can hardly sleep or eat. What's wrong with me?"
"My GF is insisting I stop seeing my friends and break off contact with my exes."
"When I start getting close to someone, I'm always afraid I'm going to fuck it up."
"If someone is too into me, I feel smothered, but if she's unavailable, I get obsessed."
"I don't know why, but sometimes I just fall 'out of love' really fast."
The Surprising Truth:
Attachment wounding explains ALL of this.
Attachment is your brain's unconscious blueprint for bonding and connection. No one chooses to be "anxious," "avoidant" or "disorganized," attachment-wise -- but the closer a relationship gets, the more most of us fall into those painful states.
These reactions are programmed into your nervous system -- and hers -- from experiences so early you probably don't even remember them. Yet your attachment wounds affect all of your thoughts, feelings, behaviors and outcomes in love, and they play out even more intensely in lesbian relationships.
Here's the kicker. Your attachment style also impacts who you're attracted to. Most of us feel the most chemistry and fall in love the hardest when our attachment systems are strongly opposed. This explains a lot about why the most intense, blissful connections end up shattering us.
Plus, once your attachment wounds take hold, you're almost doomed to do and say things that make it worse. Even (or especially!) when you really love someone, the attachment gremlins mess it up.
But, here's the good news. Both your attachment blueprint and your painful relationship patterns ("gremlins") are changeable. This course will teach you how.
In just five weeks, you'll learn how to:

1. Recognize and re-script the hidden repetition compulsion patterns in your attractions, so you can stop getting hooked on the wrong women.
2. Understand how attachment wounds are damaging your relationships, and how to interrupt the cycle to get back to connection.
3. When you lean anxious: use these magic phrases to communicate in ways that bring her closer, rather than making her defensive or pushing her away.
4. ***When you lean avoidant: ***use these magic phrases to help your GF calm down and feel connected, so you can take the space you need without having to shut down or break up.
5. ***No matter which way you lean: ***The key steps to take to cultivate secure attachment inside yourself, so you can have greater peace and well-being whether you're single or coupled.

Whether you're single, in a relationship but taking the class on your own,
or taking it as a couple, this class will give you a path forward.

An RSVP to this meetup group alone is not sufficient. Please click on this link to learn more and register for the 5 week course: [https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com/attachment-healing. ](https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com/attachment-healing)

Conscious Girlfriend Academy is the leading global resource supporting lesbians, sapphics, and other women-loving-women with the conscious dating and love tools we need... for the relationships we want and deserve. Learn more at www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com

If you'd like to book a free call to learn more about this class or our other offerings, you can set that up right here.