

What we’re about
If you're a lesbian or queer woman interested in having happier, healthier relationships, this Meetup is for you - whether you're currently single, healing from a breakup, dating, in love, or in a long-term relationship. Our classes and gatherings will help you learn the skills to find the right partner, BE the right partner, and create the relationship of your dreams.
We welcome all women who love women - or want to - whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, butch, boi, stud, femme, trans, same-gender-loving, or go by some other label or none at all. We love building community by helping growth-oriented lesbians and queer women connect with one another and support each other in learning how to date wisely and have conscious, healthy relationships.
Our approach blends science, psychology and spirit to help women love women - better. (Our backgrounds are in Neuroscience, Buddhism, Transpersonal Psychology and theology.) Our motto is: relationships don't have to be hard! But having an easy, joyful, fulfilling, lasting love does take having the right tools, and learning the right skills. Our Meetups will help.
Upcoming events (1)
See all- Network event9 attendees from 26 groups hostingComing Out & Coming Home Intensive for Late-in-Life, Late Bloomer LesbiansLink visible for attendees
C O M I N G O U T & C O M I N G H O M E
A 4 WEEK INTENSIVE FOR LATER IN LIFE LESBIANS & LATE BLOOMERS ~ YOUR LESBIAN 101 ORIENTATION AND SUPPORT GROUP
Thursdays, June 5, 12, 19 & 26
3:00-5:00 p.m. Pacific Time
Optional Group Coaching Add-On, 5:15-6:30 p.m.Are you a later-in-life lesbian, or someone who came out recently, or is in the process of coming out?
Learn about what we will cover in our 4 week Coming Out & Coming Home Intensive!
Please register at the link above, and make sure to convert to your local time zone, if different. A Meetup RSVP won't get you in.
https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com/coming-out-2025
Coming out can be challenging. But the Conscious Girlfriend Academy is here to help you live your most authentic life fully and wisely, in ways that are smart for your heart. We've got world-class programs on lesbian dating and relationship skills, both live and on-demand. Plus weekly coach-led skill-building labs, classes to feed your soul, and so much more. Our participants come from many parts of the world, and range in age from 20s to 80s. Whoever you are, you are welcome!
Tuition: $299 - Class Only
Class + Four Group Coaching Sessions: $399
Or Join The Academy And Get This Class Free
Is money a barrier? >Learn about scholarships here.Week 1:
Embrace Your True Self
Were you ever really straight? Are you pansexual, bisexual, queer or a lesbian -- and what if none of the labels fit?
Understand the true complexity of sexual and romantic desire, and tell your story in ways that honor your process.
The past you had, the past you didn't get to have, and how to live fully in the present and future.Week 2:
Lesbian Culture 101
Get up to speed on lesbian lingo and dating and mating conventions, including:
The whole "butch-femme" thing
Lesbian dating and mating conventions, herstory and community
Lesbian prejudices and fears, and how to handle them
Why "an army of ex-lovers cannot fail" -- or can it?
Becoming a culture creator in your new community.Week 3:
Lesbian Dating For Newbies
Lesbian dating is very, very different!
Avoid "lesbian sheep syndrome" and overcome shyness
Distinguish "friend dates" from "date dates" -- and what to do if you have romantic feelings for a friend
Why chemistry and connection can get you into trouble, and how to date in smart-for-your-heart ways
Why lesbian sexual inexperience can actually be an assetWeek 4:
Navigating The Rest Of The World- Public, private or need-to-know basis: how, whether and when to share your new life with others
- Courage and vulnerability as a bridge to a new world
- Transmuting fear into courage: sources of inspiration to support your coming out in politically oppressive times
The Conscious Girlfriend Academy is the leading global resource helping lesbians, queer women, and all women who love women -- or want to! -- to prevent heartbreak, date wisely, and love well. We also warmly welcome lesbian-adjacent non-binary people.
Many women who come out later in life wonder if they'll really feel welcome and accepted in the lesbian community. The truth is: you are the lesbian community, now! We are all culture creators. At this time in history, it's crucial for us to welcome ourselves -- and each other.
Want to get a better sense of the Academy? Start reading our Amazon bestselling book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love free right here.
We think you'll be amazed when you >check out our program and realize how much love, help, learning and support are here for you!
And if you'd rather start with a free 1:1 chat, >learn more about how to set that up right here.
Past events (306)
See all- Network event47 attendees from 26 groups hostingLate-In-Life Lesbians: WELCOME To The Community! And Story-SharingThis event has passed