What we’re about
Join growth-oriented women* who love women, or want to, for deep learning, connection and conscious exploration in the worlds of lesbian/queer dating, relationships and sex!
This group is part of the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, the leading resource providing education, community and transformation to lesbians and queer women from all over the world. Do you want to find a deeply fulfilling, happy, healthy relationship, or keep your current relationship strong? Do you want more opportunities to connect with like-minded women? Do check out our offerings at the Academy! https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com,
Recent classes include:
- Sacred Lesbian/Queer Sexuality
- Five Keys to Finding -- And Being -- the Right Partner
- Fully Receiving, Appropriately Giving
- Rewriting Your Relationship Scripts
- Understanding and Embracing Your Erotic Self
- Lesbian Dating Deep Dive
- Find True Love Online
- Write A Great Online Dating Profile
- Breakup Recovery: How to Finally Heal and Move On
- Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian Dating & Lasting Love
- Emotional Self-Awareness
- Clean Speech, Clean Listening: Lesbian Communication That Really Works
- Secrets of Great Oral Sex
- Anatomy of a Lesbian Relationship: Why Heartbreak Happens (and How to Prevent It)
- Healing Push-Pull Relationship Dynamics
...and much more!
We welcome self-identified women who love women, or want to. Non-binary folx who love women are also welcome. Out for decades, newly exploring your attraction to women, a "gold star" lesbian, or queer, bi or pansexual? You'll meet friends and community here. Many of our members are in their 50s, 60s, 70s and beyond. It's never too late for happy, healthy lesbian love and deeply fulfilling sex! It's also never too early :)
Our classes are based on cutting-edge neuroscience, psychology and relationship research. Our community is warm, welcoming and compassionate. We're here to help you have the love and sex life you truly want.
https://www.consciousgirlfriendacademy.com
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Upcoming events (4)
See all- Network event68 attendees from 26 groups hostingFound: the solution to lesbian relationship pain?! Join us live on June 15.Link visible for attendees
**Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy **is the answer to so many of our most painful experiences. If you've ever felt hopeless in a relationship, wrecked by disconnection when you're just trying to share your heart, you are not alone. And this class will help.
Here's the thing: lesbian communication is different. We love hard. Our bonding is intense, and our triggers are, too. In this unique class, you'll learn a lesbian-focused approach available nowhere else... to help you ask for what you want, in ways that help you get it. Help the woman you love feel heard. Keep your conversations from going off the rails. Say No when you need to without disconnecting from her, and more.
We all know how painful it is when communication goes bad. The wrong words can cause damage forever. Yet stuffing your emotions and staying silent causes damage, too. What to do? Empower yourself with the knowledge you need.
Free to all Academy members. Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? A Meetup RSVP won't get you in. You'll need to Sign up and pay here for only $19.
Please note, this class is being cross-posted to many groups around the world, so there will be many more attendees than you see here in your local group.
Join us live on June 15, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. PST, and/or get access to the replay, to learn:
- The #1 mistake you probably make when bringing up hard things, and what to do instead.
- How to recognize when a casual conversation has suddenly become a high-stakes emotional conversation instead, and paddle to shore fast.
- How your primary attachment state(s) impact your communication style, and why understanding the other person's state is crucial.
- Why lesbians are famous for hours of "processing" that drains us and makes things worse, and how to avoid this trap.
- How common truisms like "No is a complete sentence" get us into big trouble in important relationships, and how to communicate limits in ways that actually build connection.
- Why "asking for what you want" often makes the other person back away, and the approach that can change everything.
- How just "stating your truth" can cause disconnection, and how to speak so she can hear you and listen so she feels heard.
- Why the words you say matter less than the state you're in when you say them, and how to shift your state back to safety again.
Free to all Academy members. Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up here for only $19.
The class will be recorded, and we will make the replay available to everyone why purchases the class. But do come live for the best experience! Open to all self-identified woman and adjacent non-binary people.
Who are we, and how did we come to be offering this class? Based in the U.S., the Conscious Girlfriend Academy has become the leading global resource helping women and non-binary people create the lesbian love lives we want. Women from 25 countries have taken our classes! Visit our website to learn more and download the first four chapters of our Amazon bestselling book, Conscious Lesbian Dating and Love, free.
- Network event39 attendees from 26 groups hostingLesbian Communication for Emotional Intimacy: 3-Part ClassLink visible for attendees
Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy: A 3-Part Class
starting June 29 , July 6 and July 13, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. PST
(That start time is 11:00 MT, 12:00 CT, 1:00 ET, 18:00 GMT, and 3:00 a.m. Sunday AEDT) Please convert to your local time, if needed)Join us live for a 3-part class to learn:
"Why do our conversations get us into trouble so fast, even when I try hard to speak my truth?"
"Why has it gotten so hard for us to hear and understand each other?"
"I'm bad at boundaries, but when I set them, she just gets hurt and mad."
"It's so hard for me to ask for what I want, but when I do, it pushes her away."Class Only: Free For Basic Academy Members
Class + Coaching Free For Deep Dive Members.
Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up for an ala carte class here.Saturday, June 29, 10:00-12:00 PT (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Communication for Emotional Intimacy:
Turning Conflict Into Connection- Five Steps To Turn Conflict Into Connection
Saturday, July 6, 10:00-12:00 PT (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy: Boundaries And Requests- How To Ask For What You Want (In Ways That Increase The Chance That You’ll Actually Get It)
- How To Say No When You Need To (In Ways That Build Closeness, Not Distance)
Saturday, July 13, 10:00-12:00 (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Communication For Emotional Intimacy: Repair- REPAIR: The Powerful 4-Step Formula For Healing Hurt Between People
- Learn How To Feel Closer Again, Without Abandoning Your Own Needs
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Class Only: Free For Basic Academy Members
Class + Coaching Free For Deep Dive Members.
Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up for an ala carte class here.The class will be recorded, and we will make the replay available (technology willing), but do come live for the best experience! Open to all self-identified woman and adjacent non-binary people.
Who are we, and how did we come to be offering this class? Based in the U.S., the Conscious Girlfriend Academy has become the leading global resource helping women and non-binary people create the lesbian love lives we want. Women from 25 countries have taken our classes! Visit our website to learn more and download the first four chapters of our Amazon bestselling book, Conscious Lesbian Dating and Love, free.
- Network event9 attendees from 26 groups hostingHeal Your Lesbian Heart From A Breakup or Toxic RelationshipLink visible for attendees
Heal Your Lesbian Heart From A Breakup Or Toxic Relationship
July 20, 2024, 10:00 am.-12:00 p.m. Pacific Time
(That start time is 11:00 MT, 12:00 CT, 1:00 ET, 18:00 GMT, and 3:00 a.m. Sunday AEDT) Please convert to your local time, if needed.Lesbian breakups can be shattering, even if the relationship was brief, painful, or both. Often, we make our own pain even worse because Breakup Healing Hygiene is counterintuitive.
Painful breakups can happen even when the relationship wasn't toxic. But lesbians are especially vulnerable to toxic relationships, which make the healing process far harder.
Empower yourself with the knowledge you need.Free to all Academy members. Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up here for only $19.
Join us live on July 20, 10:00-12:00 PST, to learn:- The three kinds of breakups that hurt the most, and the keys to Breakup Healing Hygiene that will actually help you feel better, faster.
- Was (or is) your relationship toxic? How to know.
- How your primary attachment state(s) determine your breakup style, and can also help you identify your best path toward healing.
- The five reasons why lesbians are vulnerable to getting into, and staying in, a toxic relationship, and how to protect yourself.
- Why toxic relationships happen, and the difference between a toxic person and a toxic dynamic.
- Can you get her back, and should you try? How to know.
- Did she break up with you after a time of increased closeness, like a vacation or talk about living together? Why this happens.
- Did she get into a new relationship right away? Why people do this, and how to deal with the pain.
- Did she pursue you and seem "all in," but then say she wasn't ready for a relationship, and just wants to be friends? Why this happens.
- Did she push you away and then want you back, then push you away again when you started to trust, then want you back again when you let go? What you need to know about this pattern.
Free to all Academy members. Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up here for only $19.
The class will be recorded, and we will make the replay available (technology willing), but do come live for the best experience! Open to all self-identified woman and adjacent non-binary people.
Who are we, and how did we come to be offering this class? Based in the U.S., the Conscious Girlfriend Academy has become the leading global resource helping women and non-binary people create the lesbian love lives we want. Women from 25 countries have taken our classes! Visit our website to learn more and download the first four chapters of our Amazon bestselling book, Conscious Lesbian Dating and Love, free.
- Network event28 attendees from 26 groups hostingLesbian Heartbreak Healing - 4-Week CourseLink visible for attendees
Lesbian Heartbreak Healing: A 4-Week Course
Join us live for a 4-week course starting July 27, August 2, 10 & 17, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. PST
(That start time is 11:00 MT, 12:00 CT, 1:00 ET, 18:00 GMT, and 3:00 a.m. Sunday AEDT) Please convert to your local time, if needed.Learn the following:
"Why did it end?"
"Will I ever be able to get over her?"
"Why does it hurt so much?"
"Is there any chance we could get back together?"
"How can I ever trust someone else?"
"Is my 'picker' broken?"
"What if I'm attracted to the wrong women?"
Whether your breakup was recent or decades ago, the pain can linger and shut down your life. Learn how to finally heal.Class + Coaching Free to all Academy members. Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up for an ala carte class here.
Saturday, July 27, 10:00-12:00 (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Heartbreak Healing 1- Create Your Unique Breakup Healing Map
- Annihilating Breakup As Rocket Fuel For Transformation**
** a quote from Conscious Girlfriend Academy Coach Risa August
Saturday, August 3, 10:00-12:00 (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Heartbreak Healing 2- The Big Picture: How To Want Your Life Again, Even Without Her In It
- Five Steps To Gleaning Growth From Hurt
Saturday, August 10, 10:00-12:00 (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Heartbreak Healing 3- Three Steps To Breaking The Breakup/Makeup Cycles
- How To Create A Foundation For Healthy Love, Or Let Go For Good
Saturday, August 17, 10:00-12:00 (Deep Dive 12:00-1:30)
Lesbian Heartbreak Healing 4- Understand Why You Attracted, Or Chose, Ms. Wrong
- Break The Patterns That Broke Your Heart
- Fix Your Picker And Make A Whole New Love Life Possible
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Class + Coaching Free to all Academy members. Not yet an Academy member, but want to join this online event? Sign up for an ala carte class here.The class will be recorded, and we will make the replay available (technology willing), but do come live for the best experience! Open to all self-identified woman and adjacent non-binary people.
Who are we, and how did we come to be offering this class? Based in the U.S., the Conscious Girlfriend Academy has become the leading global resource helping women and non-binary people create the lesbian love lives we want. Women from 25 countries have taken our classes! Visit our website to learn more and download the first four chapters of our Amazon bestselling book, Conscious Lesbian Dating and Love, free.
Past events (215)
See all- Network event116 attendees from 26 groups hostingLesbian Attachment Healing - 4-Week CourseThis event has passed
