Conscious Lesbian/Queer Dating & Lasting Love: A 12-Week Roadmap

This class, the Roadmap to Conscious Lesbian/Queer Dating & Lasting Love, has changed lesbian and queer lives in 25 countries around the globe since 2015. It sprung from the Amazon bestselling book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love, but goes far beyond the book.

The Roadmap gives you the world's best preparation for the arduous and essential work of smart-for-your-heart lesbian dating and love. Even if you've done tons of personal growth work, we money-back guarantee you'll learn much more here. The course was completely revised and updated in 2025. It incorporates neuroscience, attachment theory, relationship research, and decades of lived lesbian/queer life experience. And...

It starts this Saturday! >Learn more and sign up here (or keep reading :)

Dates: Saturday, January 24-Saturday, April 11, 12 weeks, 10 a.m.-12 p.m. Pacific Time. All sessions will be recorded, so it's fine if you can't come live. And you can still set up live online meetings with your buddy group, if you wish, to go through the material together.

Typically, each class includes over 100 participants from at least 8 countries, ages 20s-80s longtime lesbians and just-coming-out, bi and trans and queer and wlw and sapphic and everyone in between. (So don't pay attention to the # of RSVPs in your local group; the course is cross-posted on 27 Meetups around the world.)

We come together in intergenerational, conscious lesbian/queer community for an experience some participants have described as "like therapy on steroids." You might laugh, you might cry, you'll almost certainly make deep friendships, you might even meet someone special -- and you'll emerge far clearer and more ready for whatever truly serves you in your life of dating and love.

This is a paid offering, and an RSVP on Meetup won't get you in. You'll need to register and pay on our site. Scholarships are available, and so are free calls to chat with our outreach director and make sure the class is right for you. We are here to support you! Learn more here

Got patterns you need to break? Aware that you've ignored or just not spotted red flags in the past? Went too fast, ignored your gut, fell madly in love and dove in, only to have it crash and burn?

Join the club, and get ready to graduate from it. The Roadmap will teach you exactly why lesbians and queer women are so susceptible to this harmful life cycle, and how to create what you truly want and need, instead.

In a relationship now, and want to learn how to better work with your triggers, avoid attachment wound collisions, and make your love what you most want it to be? The Roadmap will meet you where you are, and help you go further. The sobering fact is that lesbian divorce rates are 3X higher than those for couples of other orientations, but you're not stuck. You can break that pattern, too. It just takes learning how, and getting the right support.

Want to date, but not sure how? Maybe it's been years or decades since you dated, or you've never dated women. Many longtime lesbians never dated women, either -- we just met and got involved! Whether you've been out for decades or are just coming out, what you'll learn here will change your life.

Not sure you ever want another relationship? Many women sign up for the Roadmap in that place. Whether you're still healing from heartbreak or a toxic relationship, or just don't trust your ability to create healthy love, the Roadmap will help you make peace with whatever your history has held, and also help you chart your best path forward.

An RSVP on Meetup won't get you in. This is a paid course. Learn more and sign up for the Roadmap here. And don't wait, because we start on Saturday, January 24! This course is only offered once per year.

Scholarships are available, but you'll need to request one. Learn about our scholarship policy here.

Not familiar with Conscious Girlfriend Academy? We're so glad you found us! We are the leading global resource helping lesbians and adjacent queer people to prevent heartbreak, date wisely, and love well. We've got a ton of free resources on our site, including the chance to download the first 4 chapters of Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love free, and this 25-minute free masterclass, What Single Lesbians Need To Know.

We hope to see you soon. We're here to support you. It gets better. We're all in this together -- and your heart is worth helping.