Cougar Puberty Club

This is a social group for single women in the xennial micro-generation navigating perimenopause, midlife shifts, and that strange in-between season where nothing looks the way it used to… including us.

If any of this resonates, you’re probably in the right place:

• Your body feels unfamiliar and occasionally hostile
• You’re rethinking relationships, routines, or entire life chapters
• Most of your old friendships have quietly drifted away
• You don’t relate to twenty-somethings anymore, but you don’t quite fit “older” spaces either
• You’ve noticed your high-school classmates aging dramatically and it’s… disorienting

This group exists to create connection, humor, and community for women who are single and in the same general life stage. No fixing, no pressure, no pretending we’re fine when we’re not.

Who This Group Is For

Single women roughly ages 42–55

• Currently experiencing "perimenopause or midlife transition"
• Looking to make friends who “get it” without lengthy explanations
• Interested in low-pressure social connection (coffee, casual meals, conversation, shared experiences)

A Gentle Boundary

This group is intentionally age- and stage-specific so members can feel understood and comfortable. If you’re significantly outside this range or in a very different life phase, you may find other groups a better fit — and that’s okay. This space is about shared context, not exclusion.

Come as you are. Sarcasm welcome. Emotional honesty encouraged. Comfortable shoes will not be judged.