About us
Benevuti a Cucina Rustica. Sono il vostro conduttore, Tom Cappy
Well, needless to say, I love cooking. Cooking for a group especially. But it's more than that. It's central to my culture as an Italian-American. Italian at my roots. Cooking represents family, identity, and la dolce vita (the sweet life) with cooking seen as an act of love, not a chore, using fresh, simple, regional ingredients to create social moments and traditions passed down generations, making meals a core part of daily life and connection.
My family's heritage hails from Sicily on my father's side, and from Naples on my mother's side. My mother was born Ida Louisa Cirignano. My papa, Angelo Luigi Cappuccio. I will explain the facts behind the name change and mofd as part of the introduction come dinnertime.
I presently organize three Meetup groups, the longest tenure one, the Adventures in Beer Food and Wine (social) group. It'll be 16 years next May. Previous to starting this groups, it's there that I've posted all my dinners. The other group is an outdoor adventure group (my other love).
This group, Cucina Rustica ~ "the rustic kitchen", a portal should you wish to sign up for a dinner. There are NO DUES associated with this group. Merely post a current mug shot of yourself, answer a few profile questions, and you're in. From there, take a peek at a dinner, and rsvp. DO add a +1 if you are bringing a guest. Oh, and please download the Meetup app to your phones. By doing so, you may "rsvp on the fly." It is that reason why many dinners fill so quickly. There, too, you may "remove" your guest should they not be able to attend.
Dinners are always for 8 sitting guests. I only join in and sit with you if I'm preparing an end of life meal ;)
Dinners are hosted by members in their homes all over Bend. And sometimes, my place! Come summer Redmond and Sisters are included. Dinners may include wine, or be listed as BYOB with suggested wines attached. A few dinners will feature the services of a sommelier (these of course will include a selection of paired wines as well as dessert wines). But as to the dinners, they all have one thing in common--Italian dishes made from scratch that are either family recipes or traditional/authentic recipes I've acquired via my varied regional trips to Italy.
*If you have a dietary restriction, please let me know as early on as possible. I "may" be able to accomodate you.
I've also hosted dinners for small family gatherings, book clubs, and girls night out.
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For those new to the Meetup platform this is how it works:
- Read the entire post, note the payment methods (PayPal and Venmo)
- RSVP, add a guest if applicable
- Hold your cursor over your profile picture in the top right of the screen, and click on Notifications, then (at the left) do it again, and scroll down and select "notify me when the organizer 'opens his mouth.' By doing that, I can reach out to all the attendees at one time should there be a change, or I need to send out a reminder.
- As I'm out the monies for the ingredients 5-7 days out, I ask you all to submit your monies within that time period.
- Should something come up, please "un-rsvp". When you do that, if someone were to be on the waitlist, they in turn would get to go.
- Here's the Refund Policy: If you have a confirmed seat and cancel at least 5 days before the event, I will give you a full refund. If you cancel within 5 days of the event, your reservation is not refundable. HOWEVER, I will attempt to sell your spot on the Bend Foodies page or on our Meetup site, and if I’m able to do so, I will issue you a full refund. Of course, you may want to try to sell or gift your spot to someone else, and if you do so, please let me know immediately so I don’t continue offering your spot. The exception is if there is a waitlist containing the number of seats that offset yours. If this happens, and your spots are filled and paid for, I will give you a full refund.
- No shows. :( No show 2 times and I'll remove you from the group. With that any RSVP's will be lost as well.
- NO TIPPING ALLOWED.
Upcoming events
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Cucina Povera: Osso Buco!
Tom's home, 61335 Robin Hood Lane, Bend, OR, USNew faces please. (if you've been to three or more, please hold off)
Ossobuco or osso buco is a specialty of Lombardi, specifically, Milan. It's a cross-cut of beef or veal shank braised with vegetables, aromatics, white or red wine, and broth. It is often garnished with gremolata, a finely diced mixture of parsley, lemon zest and garlic. Traditionally, it's served over a bed of risotto, polenta, or creamed potatoes, making it a perfect comfort food for winter. The marrow in the hole in the bone, a prized delicacy, is the defining feature of the dish.
Tonight's Menu:
Neopolitan Stuffed Artichokes
Osso Buco served over Gorgonzola Polenta
Carote Arrostite
Ciabatta rolls
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Nutella or Tiramisu Cheesecake
Chocolate-dipped Coconut MacaroonsInside skinny: bring Tupperware!!
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BYOB suggestions: Sangiovese, Primitivo, Chianti Classico. A cab in a pinch.
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$50pp Pre-Payable via Venmo (preferred) or PayPal "NOT for services"Venmo @Thomas-Cappy (6768 is the last four digits of my cell should you be asked to provide it)
PayPal: beerfoodandwine@gmail.com
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REFUND POLICY:
If you have a confirmed seat and cancel at least 7 days before the event, I will give you a full refund. If you cancel within 3 days of the event, your reservation is not refundable as I am likely out the cost of the dinner. HOWEVER, I will attempt to sell your spot on the Bend Foodies page or on our Meetup site, and if I’m able to do so, I will issue you a full refund. Of course, you may want to try to sell or gift your spot to someone else, and if you do so, please let me know immediately so I don’t continue offering your spot. The exception is if there is a waitlist containing the number of seats that offset yours (and those diners have not already made plans) AND when your spots are filled and paid for, I will give you a full refund.9 attendees
Cucina Rustica: Cicchetti!
Tom's home, 61335 Robin Hood Lane, Bend, OR, USTonight's dinner features cicchetti, Italy's version of tapas ~ basically small plates of what they refer to as bar (bacaro) food. More often it's finger foods such as bruschetta and crostini or small servings of polenta or trendy presentations of simple foods such as eggplant. Cicchetti originated in Venice. The dessert I selected is one of the more popular behind Tiramisu and Carrot cake.
Creamy Mushroom and Truffle Bruschetta
Involtini Melanzane
Fried Sage Leaves with Lemon Zest
Tomato Basil Shrimp and PolentaFocaccia
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Dessert:
Almond Ricotta Cake
Salami di Cioccolato
-or- SemifreddoBYOB wine suggestion: a medium-bodied red wine such as Primitivo, Valpolicella, and Sangiovese. White wines are actually more popular in the bacaros in Venice; it is served in small juice-sized glasses. A wine that would pair well would be Lugana D.O.P. (Trebbiano).
$40pp. Prepay only via Venmo (preferred) or PayPal "Do not pay for good or services"
via Venmo: @Thomas-Cappy
via PayPal: beerfoodandwine@gmail.com541-408-6768
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Past events
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