Date Night: Passion & Intimacy in Committed Relationships

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San Francisco, CA, US

About us

You love your partner—but life gets busy, and date nights often turn into another TV show or dinner out. Deep down, you know you want more: more Spark, more Intimacy, and more Playfulness! That’s why we created Date Night: Passion & Intimacy in Committed Relationships

Led by Erwan & Alicia Davon, founders of The Davon Method and longtime Relationship Coaches & Tantra Teachers, this meetup blends fun with learning. In a relaxed, supportive environment, you’ll connect with other like-minded couples and explore activities designed to deepen emotional closeness, enhance sensual connection, and bring joy and spontaneity back into your partnership. Couples of all gender identities and sexual orientations are warmly welcome.

This group is for couples who care about:

Keeping spark and playfulness alive in their relationship
Cultivating deeper erotic and sensual connection
Communicating with ease, respect, and understanding

What you’ll experience:

Sensory-rich activities that awaken connection and pleasure
Fun partner exercises—from playful movement to mindful touch
Practical tools for communicating, connecting, and keeping intimacy alive

Can’t make it with your partner? No problem! Many activities can be enjoyed solo, and each month brings a fresh theme and new experiences to explore.

Meet Your Facilitators
Erwan & Alicia Davon, longtime Relationship Coaches & San Francisco's foremost Tantra Teachers, developed their signature process, the Davon Method, and have taught it to over 20,000 students in groups, retreats and individual sessions. As a married couple, they have been teaching singles to get into relationship & couples to thrive in relationship for the last 25 years. They have become the go-to place in the San Francisco Bay Area for all things romantic and sexual and are quickly becoming that worldwide through online learning.

Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors after a difficult childhood and an early introduction to therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen Monastery, direct a Yoga ashram, and teach personal development at one of the world’s largest personal growth organizations. Erwan’s passion for helping and teaching people led him to found The Davon Method in 1995, specifically to help people improve their romantic relationships.

Alicia holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sexual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfillment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 23 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.

They have spent years perfecting their curriculum and techniques and provide a safe place so you can improve chemistry, connection, communication, and passion in your love life! Get ready to have fun because working with them is a blast!

Upcoming events

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Tantra Demonstration ~ witness the heights of sensual practice
Wed, Mar 11 · 6:30 PM PDT
Harrison St & 19th St, San Francisco, CA 94110, San Francisco, Ca, US
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Are you ready for a mind bending, soul rocking evening that will fundamentally change your sensual life forever?

Step into a captivating evening where Tantra comes alive through a unique, intimate demonstration led by Alicia & Erwan Davon, San Francisco’s foremost Tantra Teachers. Alicia & Erwan have supported over 22,000 singles & couples in having extraordinary romantic and sensual lives since 1995.

You’ll observe as Alicia & Erwan bring you into the world of embodied connection and spiritual union, all central to the art of Tantra. This live demonstration offers a-ha moment after a-ha moment, and you will SEE & FEEL how sensuality and mindful touch can expand intimacy, ignite a sense of joy and vitality. Learn how this experience can be expanded in duration, intensity, and throughout the entire body!

Note: This is a Demonstration; there will be no physical/sensual interaction between participants. The evening includes a lecture, meditation, demonstration, Q&A + a party!

You will:
✨ Witness a step by step technique to increase intensity & duration of bodily pleasure that you can use in your own love life
✨ Learn why the human nervous system plays a huge role with regard to bodily pleasure
✨ Observe ways to communicate such that your partner can pleasure you sensually just the way you want

You will walk away with a profoundly embodied understanding of Tantra and practical ideas to enhance both your own and a partner's pleasure! Erwan and Alicia have cultivated an environment that fosters ease and comfort in exploring one of life's greatest pleasures—sensual connection—taken to new heights.

Whether you're curious about Tantra or looking to deepen your understanding, this experience is designed to open new doors of possibility. Singles and couples alike will gain inspiration and practical knowledge to bring into their own relationships and personal journeys.

After the event, continue the experience with drinks (alc and non) and socializing with the other participants, Alicia & Erwan.

We will see you there!

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Tantra Slow Dating - where singles can meet + couples deepen relationship!
Sun, Apr 26 · 5:00 PM PDT
1175 Folsom St, San Francisco, Ca, US
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A dating event for singles & a spark-building event for couples that will leave you feeling alive + deeply connected.

Join us for a transformational evening for singles and couples designed to leave you feeling alive, open, and deeply connected.

Alicia & Erwan Davon of The Davon Method on April 26th will be at Decentered Arts for Tantra SLOW Dating—a unique event where singles meet through intentional tantric practices and couples rekindle their spark in a guided, heart-centered environment.

Alicia & Erwan are longtime Relationship Coaches & have become San Francisco Bay Area's foremost modern Tantra teachers. Expect heart-opening exercises, guided meditations, and clothed sensual practices to awaken your senses and ignite real connection.

For singles, this goes far beyond speed dating. You’ll meet multiple like-minded people who value personal growth, conscious relating, and deep connection.

For couples, this is a playful yet profound space to step out of daily life and reconnect. You’re welcome to do all practices together unless you prefer otherwise.

Whether you’re new to Tantra or experienced, all curious and open-hearted humans are welcome. After the structured portion, enjoy social time with drinks, mingle, ask Erwan & Alicia questions, and connect with the community.

What Singles Will Get
✨ A safe, structured way to meet multiple like-minded people who are also interested in conscious dating and personal growth.
✨ Practices that help you feel more confident, grounded, and sensually alive while connecting with others.
✨ A rare opportunity to experience authentic chemistry through presence, breath, and real relational skills—not small talk.

What Couples Will Get
✨ A guided experience that dissolves day-to-day stress and brings you back into connection, play, and intimacy.
✨ Partner practices that deepen trust, emotional attunement, and sensual spark.
✨A meaningful and memorable “date night” that leaves you feeling closer, rejuvenated, and more bonded.

Spaces are limited—grab your ticket!

To RSVP here on Meet Up is not sufficient; you need to get your ticket through Eventbrite, here is the link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tantra-slow-dating-where-singles-can-meet-couples-deepen-relationship-tickets-1984487705147?aff=DN
1 attendee