About us
Our long term vision with Distantdrum Velvet Pulse Collective is to create a space where genuine connections grow into lasting relationships. We believe that meaningful love stories start with real interactions, not swipes or quick judgments. So we're building a community where people who are truly ready for something serious can meet in a relaxed, fun environment that encourages authentic conversation and shared experiences. Think of us as the antidote to the typical singles scene where everything feels rushed or superficial.
Between events, members stay in touch through our private network where you can chat, share stories, and even plan small meetups with people you connected with. It's not about constant texting or online performance it's about nurturing real momentum when a spark happens. Many of our couples started with a simple message after a hike or book swap, then met for coffee, and before they knew it they were planning weekends together. The connections grow naturally because the foundation is already there.
Our members are typically locals who've been through the dating grind and are done with games. They're professionals, creatives, caregivers, and adventurers in their 30s to 50s who value kindness, emotional maturity, and shared laughter. What brings them together isn't a checklist of traits but a shared mindset: they're ready to invest time and heart into finding someone real. You'll meet teachers who love live music, entrepreneurs who cook to relax, and travelers who actually enjoy long conversations over coffee. They're not perfect but they're present and looking for the same thing you are.
If you're tired of surface level dates and want to meet people who are genuinely seeking love, this is your invitation. Distantdrum Velvet Pulse Collective is more than just events it's a movement toward slower, deeper, more meaningful connection. We keep things fun with themed gatherings, outdoor adventures, and cozy nights in because love shouldn't feel like work. Come as you are, open your heart a little, and see where the pulse leads. You might just find your person in the most unexpected way.
Upcoming events
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Burnaby Online Speed Dating for introverts
73F8+7J Burnaby, Burnaby, BC, CA๐ Introvert-Friendly Speed Dating โ Hosted on Zoom, Zero Pressure!
๏ฟฝ Tired of loud, crowded dating scenes? We get it! Online speed dating is perfect for introverts. Meet like-minded locals from the comfort of your home โ no draining social situations, just genuine connections.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Thoughtful introverts looking for like-minded locals
- Singles who recharge alone but want genuine connections
- Anyone tired of forced small talk at loud events
- Those who believe the best conversations happen comfortably
Event Details
- Format: Hosted on Zoom โ cozy, intimate & perfect for introverts
- Location: Home sweet home โ no crowded venues required
- Host: Friendly host who understands introverts perfectly
- Vibe: Quality connections with introverted Burnaby singles โ zero social pressure
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event โ REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group - Find the session tailored to you.
- Complete Your Personality Assessment - We'll optimize your matches (introvert-friendly!).
- Join the Speed Dating Rounds - Meet Burnaby locals who value depth over small talk.
- Spark Something Real - All from the comfort of home on Zoom.
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โจ Online speed dating perfect for introverts โ meet like-minded locals from your comfort zone. Join us! ๐ โจ40 attendees
Richmond Online Speed Dating for introverts
7831 Vantage Wy, Richmond, BC, CA๐ Online Speed Dating Built for Introverts โ Real Connections, Comfortable Setting!
๏ฟฝ Tired of loud, crowded dating scenes? We get it! Online speed dating is perfect for introverts. Meet like-minded locals from the comfort of your home โ no draining social situations, just genuine connections.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Introverts who prefer meaningful conversations over crowded bars
- Singles who want to meet locals without leaving home
- Anyone who finds traditional dating draining
- Those who thrive in comfortable, low-pressure environments
Event Details
- Format: Hosted on Zoom โ cozy, intimate & perfect for introverts
- Location: Your comfort zone (anywhere you feel at ease!)
- Host: Experienced facilitator who gets the introvert experience
- Vibe: Meaningful chats with Richmond locals who get the introvert life
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event โ REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Select Your Age Range - Pick the session perfect for you.
- Take a Brief Compatibility Quiz - Help us find your ideal introvert match.
- Enjoy Speed Dating Conversations - Meet thoughtful Richmond singles in a low-pressure setting.
- Make a Real Connection - Discover someone amazing from Richmond who gets you.
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โจ Online speed dating perfect for introverts โ meet like-minded locals from your comfort zone. Join us! ๐ โจ41 attendees
Surrey Online Speed Dating for introverts
5399+X6 Delta, Surrey, BC, CA๐ Online Speed Dating Perfect for Introverts โ Connect from Your Comfort Zone!
๏ฟฝ Tired of loud, crowded dating scenes? We get it! Online speed dating is perfect for introverts. Meet like-minded locals from the comfort of your home โ no draining social situations, just genuine connections.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Thoughtful introverts looking for like-minded locals
- Singles who recharge alone but want genuine connections
- Anyone tired of forced small talk at loud events
- Those who believe the best conversations happen comfortably
Event Details
- Format: Online via Zoom โ comfortable, low-pressure from your space
- Location: Your comfort zone (anywhere you feel at ease!)
- Host: Compassionate guide creating a safe, comfortable space
- Vibe: Quality connections with introverted Surrey singles โ zero social pressure
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event โ REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Select Your Age Range - Pick the session perfect for you.
- Take a Brief Compatibility Quiz - Help us find your ideal introvert match.
- Enjoy Speed Dating Conversations - Meet thoughtful Surrey singles in a low-pressure setting.
- Make a Real Connection - Discover someone amazing from Surrey who gets you.
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โจ Online speed dating perfect for introverts โ meet like-minded locals from your comfort zone. Join us! ๐ โจ41 attendees
Vancouver Online Speed Dating for introverts
4886 Westlawn Dr, Vancouver, BC, CA๐ Introvert-Friendly Speed Dating โ Hosted on Zoom, Zero Pressure!
๏ฟฝ Tired of loud, crowded dating scenes? We get it! Online speed dating is perfect for introverts. Meet like-minded locals from the comfort of your home โ no draining social situations, just genuine connections.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Introverts who prefer meaningful conversations over crowded bars
- Singles who want to meet locals without leaving home
- Anyone who finds traditional dating draining
- Those who thrive in comfortable, low-pressure environments
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience โ connect from home (pajamas optional)
- Location: Home sweet home โ no crowded venues required
- Host: Experienced facilitator who gets the introvert experience
- Vibe: Genuine conversations with like-minded Vancouver locals from home
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event โ REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group - Find the session tailored to you.
- Complete Your Personality Assessment - We'll optimize your matches (introvert-friendly!).
- Join the Speed Dating Rounds - Meet Vancouver locals who value depth over small talk.
- Spark Something Real - All from the comfort of home on Zoom.
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โจ Who needs crowded bars when you can find real love from home? Your person is waiting! ๐ โจ40 attendees
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