Divorcee Cafe - Community for divorced/separated individuals

We will meet in Study Room 1 near the back of the library

Feeling isolated or navigating the tender terrain after a relationship ends? You are not alone. Join us for Quiet Conversations: Our Haven for Connection, a warm and welcoming space designed for genuine support and understanding.

We gather bi-weekly at the Glendale Branch Library. This isn't just a meetup; it's a place to find your footing, share your journey, and build meaningful connections with others who truly understand.

Whether you're newly separated, years post-divorce, or simply looking to expand your supportive circle, this peer-led group offers a haven to feel seen, heard, and deeply supported. Please note: This is a peer-led community, not a therapy or coaching group. It's a space for shared experience and mutual encouragement, not professional mental health support.

Your Contribution to Our Haven: This community thrives on the spirit of mutual support. Many members have expressed how invaluable these gatherings are, and some have even offered to contribute financially. To help us continue providing this vital space and cover Meetup fees and other community resources, we welcome your support.

Suggested Donation: $10 - $20 per session (or whatever feels right for you). Your generosity helps us keep things going and the conversations flowing.

You can contribute via Venmo: @michaelleavitthwb

Beyond the Book Club is a small, in-person, weekly gathering for people who want slower, more genuine conversation.

We read a little, then talk about what the reading stirred up—personally, emotionally, honestly. There’s no pressure to finish the book, no debating for sport, and no need to sound impressive.

This is a space where we move at a human pace. You won’t be pushed to speak, and you won’t be talked over. Listening matters here just as much as sharing, and it’s always okay to pass.

If you’re craving depth, presence, and connection that feels grounded and real, you may find this to be a place where you can exhale.

The book is just the starting point.

This Week’s Starting Point: Atomic Habits by James Clear
Since it’s near the beginning of the year, we’re using habits as a lens—not hustle culture or optimization, but the small, human ways we shape our days and lives.

Location
We’ll meet at The Pie Pizzeria. Food and drink are optional. Look for the Beyond the Book Club sign on the table.

No time to read? No problem. If you haven't picked up the book, here are a few ways to get the gist of what we’ll be chatting about:

An Apprentice Training experience

This is a beginner-friendly guitar group for adults navigating life after separation or divorce who want a creative, grounding way to reconnect with themselves. No experience required. If you’ve never played guitar—or if life interrupted your creativity—this space is designed to be gentle, supportive, and human.

Bring your guitar and we’ll start with basic chords, simple strumming, and learn one approachable song together each month. This isn’t about performance or perfection. It’s about:

• Rebuilding confidence
• Giving your nervous system something steady to hold onto
• Remembering that you’re allowed to learn, try, and enjoy things again

I’ll be teaching the class myself, and we’ll always end with a relaxed group jam where everyone can participate at their own level.

This experience is part of what I call Apprentice Training—the first step in a larger creative journey. Some people keep this as a gentle, standalone practice. Others discover they want to go deeper later on. Both paths are welcome.

Beyond the Book Club is a small, in-person, weekly gathering for people who want slower, more genuine conversation.

We read a little, then talk about what the reading stirred up—personally, emotionally, honestly. There’s no pressure to finish the book, no debating for sport, and no need to sound impressive.

This is a space where we move at a human pace. You won’t be pushed to speak, and you won’t be talked over. Listening matters here just as much as sharing, and it’s always okay to pass.

If you’re craving depth, presence, and connection that feels grounded and real, you may find this to be a place where you can exhale.

The book is just the starting point.

This Week’s Starting Point: Atomic Habits by James Clear
Since it’s near the beginning of the year, we’re using habits as a lens—not hustle culture or optimization, but the small, human ways we shape our days and lives.

Location
We’ll meet at The Pie Pizzeria. Food and drink are optional. Look for the Beyond the Book Club sign on the table.

No time to read? No problem. If you haven't picked up the book, here are a few ways to get the gist of what we’ll be chatting about: