Hacking Dating: Finding Our Person

Hello TED-heads,

Dating is hard. The apps don't seem to help all that much. In this sea of people, where's my person?

This topic can bring up many conflicting emotions. I'm grateful we have a space to have conversations about real things and learn from one another. Come with your questions and your stories and we can explore dating together. Whether you've had good experiences or not so good your story matters and is valuable for us all.

These TED talks on dating are so engaging and insightful, you'll be glad you watched them.

See you on Wednesday!

Please watch the following talk on your own device BEFORE the event. Have a watch, compare the videos, and bring insights and questions along to the conversation.

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# ★ Video #1: How I Hacked Online Dating

Amy Webb was having no luck with online dating. The dates she liked didn't write her back, and her own profile attracted crickets (and worse). So, as any fan of data would do: she started making a spreadsheet. Hear the story of how she went on to hack her online dating life -- with frustrating, funny and life-changing results.
https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_webb_how_i_hacked_online_dating

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# ★ Video #2: How to Unlock Your Flirting Superpowers

What's the right way to flirt? According to love coach Francesca Hogi, it doesn't have to be shallow or creepy — it can be a genuine chance for human connection. In this smart, playful talk, she gives a much-needed rethink on flirting that will help you feel confident, spark chemistry and maybe even find love. (Recorded at TEDNext 2025 on November 10, 2025)

Please note the following:

We want to provide a space for those who are curious about life, enjoy TED Talks, and want to share their findings with others. Please join us as we consider this topic, Wednesday, Sept. 2 at 7:15pm.

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