Polyamory & ENM: Social + Discussion – Where do we find our people?

Thurs 4th Dec 2025: 7–8.15pm
Polyamory & ENM: Social + Discussion –
“Where do we find our people?”
(Free)

Here is the paradox of polyamory! You decide to embark on the path of ethical non-monogamy, hoping to find greater fulfilment via two or more loving, intimate relationships - only to find you're fishing in a very small pond!

We may be a growing community but we are still a tiny minority! So how do we even find ENM friends, let alone lovers or partners? Are dating apps our best option for making new connections, and if so, which ones have we had most luck with?

Do we prefer to meet people in person, and what options have we discovered that we might recommend to others? If we're already in more than one relationship, where did we meet our partners? What tips could we share with each other?

Whether you’re new to ethical non-monogamy and simply curious, or already experienced and looking to extend your social circle, you're very welcome. This is a space to connect with like-minded people, have engaging and hopefully helpful conversations, and to share tips, ideas, resources and stories.

We will take the question as a starting point for a deeper conversation and spend time in breakout rooms, if the group size is larger, to allow people to connect and chat with more people and hear more perspectives.

Cost: Free