What we’re about
The short version: A cross between a discussion group on the philosophy of sex and a men's support group.
The long version: Many men struggle with some kind of issue relating to sex--compulsive or self-destructive habits, uncertainty about ethical issues, and confusion about sexual and gender identity, to name some examples.
But the nature of these issues make them very difficult to openly discuss, for a variety of reasons, with therapists or support groups, let alone friends or family. At least that's been my experience, and those are the stories I've heard from other men.
So instead of a typical support group in which we share personal stories and struggles, I have created this group to allow us to approach sexual issues the way cultured men traditionally have: from a philosophical perspective.
Stay anonymous, if you'd like. There's no need to expose yourself (so to speak). Personal sharing isn't allowed here. Instead, we will discuss broader issues in the philosophy of sex, gender, and love, like:
What ethical issues arise with watching porn?
What is the relationship between sex and love?
What does it mean to be 'a man' or 'masculine'?
Are sexual addictions real and how would I know if I had one?
What moral standards are relevant in sex?
What is the role of sexual pleasure in a fulfilled life?
What are our responsibilities in managing sexual desire?
What does it mean to have or know one's own sexual identity?
The point of these discussions is not necessarily to arrive at some ultimate truth, but to allow us to think about our own struggles in more objective, rational terms. In this way, we can apply our insights and discoveries to our own struggles and hopefully make some progress.
Every perspective is on the table here. There is no dogma. Just be gentlemen: give others the chance to speak, listen with an open mind, and critique the idea rather than the person.
All events will be hosted online, with video optional.
Upcoming events
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