About us
Welcome to Fabulous Gay Super Men Over 40
Curated by organiser Chris P, with the support of a passionate and experienced team of assistant organisers.
🌈 About the Group
This group brings together like-minded, social, and forward-thinking gay or bisexual men — primarily over 40 — who want to connect, explore, and enjoy Sydney (and beyond) in great company.
Whether you’re new to the city, looking to expand your social circle, or simply want to make new friends in a relaxed, welcoming environment — you’re in the right place.
📅 What We OffeR
We host three or more events every month, designed to provide variety, fun, and connection:
- Mid-week dinners at Sydney’s best value and most exciting restaurants
- A regular lunch series for casual, daytime socialising
- Scenic walks on weekends or evenings — easygoing and social
- Drinks events at bars, rooftops, and other relaxed venues
- Cultural outings including theatre, cabaret, exhibitions, and live shows
- Day trips (e.g., Cabramatta food tours, wine tastings, beach escapes)
- Weekend getaways for deeper connection and shared experiences
Events are rotated across different suburbs, and venues are always accessible by train, ferry, bus or light rail.
✅ Event Etiquette & Waitlists
- If an event is full, always join the Waitlist — spots often become available closer to the date.
- We send reminders to help members keep their RSVPs up to date.
- Regular no-shows without notice may receive a follow-up from the organisers.
💳 Payments
Most events are managed through TryBooking, which is simple, secure, and avoids PayPal fees.
Some smaller events may require payment via PayID, so it’s useful to have that set up in your banking app.
Cash payments are generally avoided.
👥 Group Expectations
To help keep the group welcoming, enjoyable, and respectful for everyone, we ask members to:
- Be friendly, inclusive, and respectful
- Act with integrity and kindness
- Stay open to new people and experiences
- Avoid promotion of services, businesses, or events without prior approval
- Engage in constructive and positive communication
- Challenge ideas respectfully — never individuals
🌏 Acknowledgement of Country
We acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of the land on which we meet and pay our respects to Elders past and present. We recognise that we gather on Aboriginal land.
Thanks for being here — we look forward to welcoming you at an upcoming event.
Questions? Feel free to message Chris P directly.
Warmly,
Chris and the Organising Team
(The organising committee reserves the right to accept or decline membership requests.)
Upcoming events
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Lawn bowls @ Erskineville Bowlo!
aleksandria-erskinville bowling club, 1 Fox Ave, Erskineville, NSW 2043, Erskineville, AUHey gents,
We’re heading to Erskineville Bowling Club (Erko Bowls) — literally just down the road from The Imperial Erskineville — for a relaxed, slightly competitive, and possibly slightly silly afternoon on the greens.
📅 Saturday 28 March
⏰ 3:30pm – 5:30pm
👥 Limited to 20 guys
💰 $20 per person
Fox Avenue ErskinevilleWhether you’re a seasoned lawn bowls legend or have absolutely no idea what you’re doing (most of us 😄), this is all about laughs, light competition, and good company.
Afterwards, we’ll head somewhere nearby for dinner and/or drinks for those who’d like to keep the afternoon rolling 🍻🍽️ (totally optional, but highly encouraged).
These smaller activity-based events are a great way to mix regulars and newer members — so if you’ve been thinking about coming along, this is a perfect one to jump in.
RSVP early — spots are capped at 20 and this one will fill.
✨ Dress code: casual, colourful, and SPF‑friendly.
👣 Footwear: bare feet or flat‑soled shoes only — no heels allowed (sorry ladies!)With thanks to Craig and Mathew for organising!
20 attendees
Dirty Rotten Scoundrels at the Hayes
Hayes Theatre, 19 Greenknowe Avenue, Potts Point, AUA night at the theatre? Why not! Get ready to be seduced, swindled, and swept off your feet — Dirty Rotten Scoundrels hits the Hayes in a glittering new production that’s all charm, chaos, and con artistry at its most delicious.
Catch up in the lobby for a drink (7PM, for the 7:30PM show) and a chat before the show. And loiter around after. Let’s make it social!
Show details:
https://hayestheatre.com.au/event/dirty-rotten-scoundrels/Buy your own ticket via the above link, and RSVP to this meetup event so that we know that you are coming. See you there!
FYI: we are sitting in C11-C12.
Alex
6 attendees
Past events
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