
What we’re about
YOU are an LA woman over 40! And WE are adventurous, imaginative, enthusiastic women over 40 who are insatiably curious about the people and places that make up our magical mosaic called Los Angeles. We want to go where we haven’t gone and do what we haven’t done. And we’re as diverse as this city we love! You are welcome as you are, and no one is judged.
Together, we’ll deep-dive into arts, music, dance, comedy, history, architecture, variety arts, craft fairs, antique districts, wineries, local festivals, and the occasional day trip Adventure. Of course, we’ll find fun and fabulous places to eat and drink along our way. We want our activities to be as varied as our membership.
We're also extremely proud of our three signature event series:
- Cocktails in Unique Places (CUP)— our signature event, 2) A historical based event, and 3) our casual Neighborhood Nights where we can relax, connect, and build great friendships.
Your ideas are always welcome! YOU can be an event organizer! We're always happy to help you make your event sparkle!
Some events will be free. But for others, we may ask for a small fee to cover Meetup expenses. (And of course, if you like our group vibe, you’re always welcome to make a donation on your own!) Some events may have limits on the number of people the venue will allow. But we’ll always try to have a waitlist.
Just a few rules to remember:
For the safety of all our members, we require a clear profile photo OF YOU ALONE, OF YOUR FACE (facing the camera!) NO HATS OR SUNGLASSES! -- SORRY, BUT NO EXCEPTIONS!
If you RSVP and then don’t cancel more than 24-hours before at 3 events, we’ll have to show you out of the group for 3-months. But that won’t happen because you’ll update your RSVPs and cancel with at least 24-hours notice! Right?
If you fail to make your payment on designated fee events within 24-hours or as stated we will remove you from the event. Three failures to pay and we will remove you from the group for 6-months.
If you RSVP and we never see you that’s a NO SHOW even if you were there and did your own thing. 2 no-shows and we will remove you from the group for one year.
No-shows and Last-minute cancellations put our ability to book terrific venues at risk! Your event organizers and fellow members will appreciate your courtesy especially when there's a wait list and they hope to join!
Be kind and welcoming to everyone you meet here. We ask that you never contact group members you haven’t met in person. Don’t send group emails for any reason. Be respectful in the comments.
So come join us! There’s a world of new friends here that can’t wait to meet you!
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DETAILED INFO & HELP FOR PHOTOS & SETTINGS:
Once again, we require a clear profile photo OF YOU -- ALONE -- OF YOUR FACE (shoulders-up facing the camera!)
NO HATS OR SUNGLASSES! -- SORRY, BUT NO EXCEPTIONS!
CHANGING OR REMOVING A PROFILE PHOTO:
You can change your ACCOUNT profile photo OR your GROUP profile photos.
Your ACCOUNT profile photo will be used by DEFAULT for your GROUP profiles. After a GROUP profile photo is set, changing your ACCOUNT profile photo will not update your GROUP profile. You can update each of your GROUP profile photos individually.
Profile photo requirements: The recommended ratio is 1:1. For example, a square 200 pixels high by 200 pixels wide photo. Photos must be in JPEG or PNG format and under 10MB.
TO CHANGE YOUR ACCOUNT PROFILE PHOTO:
Desktop web
1. Click on your circular profile button.
2. Select Profile from the drop-down menu.
3. Click Change your photo.
4. Upload a new photo or pick from your existing profile photos.
5. Select Done to confirm.
Android & iOS Apps
1. From the Home tab, tap your circular Profile button.
2. Tap edit profile or the Pencil.
3. Select Change or the Camera beneath your current profile picture.
4. Select one of the following options:
*Take a photo
*Select photo from your device
*Delete photo
5. Tap the checkmark or Save to confirm.
TO CHANGE YOUR GROUP PROFILE PHOTO:
Desktop web
1. Navigate to the group homepage.
2. Select Manage group or You’re a member.
3. Select Your member profile.
4. Select change your photo.
5. Upload a new photo or pick from your existing profile photos.
6. Select Done to confirm.
NOTIFICATIONS:
For the ability to communicate with you your EMAIL UPDATES and NOTIFICATIONS must be turned on in SETTINGS both on your computer and phone app. Without notifications you will miss out on newly posted events, but more importantly you will miss out on schedule changes. Important updates can include, time and meetup location changes, a rescheduled event date, and in some remote cases an event cancellation.
For instructions on how to change your settings, go to the Friendship & Fabulous Places HOME page. Click on MORE (under the portal photo), then click on MESSAGE BOARD. Select "Email and notification settings." Make certain you've checked all the boxes and allow us to email and notify you.
Please note: the Message Board is available on the Web Application, but not on the Mobile App.
To edit settings on the Mobile App, go to your profile icon (bottom right corner), then go to the 3 dots icon (upper right corner). Select "Push notifications", then select "Change email updates." Make certain all options are GREEN.
If you have any questions please don’t hesitate to ask. Send me a private message.
Upcoming events (2)
See all- “The Most Epic Rooftop in L.A.” DINE LA (or Full Menu) at Spire 73 DTLASpire 73, Los Angeles, CA$5.00
Get ready to ascend to the 73rd floor for the most dazzling view of the LA skyline.
6:30 PM (or earlier) Please meet at the bar. You can order and pay for your drink(s) before we are seated for dinner.
7:00 PM Dinner Seating
You must RSVP to attend. See Meetup Policy below. You will be replaced if your $5 Admin fee confirmation is not made within 24-hours. Thank you!
🔺CHOICE OF DINE LA PRIX FIXE MENU (SEE MENU BELOW) $65 + tax & 20% gratuity -OR- FULL MENU.
BRINGING YOU THE VERY B-E-S-T OF L.A.
LA’s Most Epic Rooftop Spire 73Take a look👁️
https://youtu.be/RFTxojSTFos?si=_h6aIg4ssgYqMVYchttps://youtu.be/j9QiiV98ePA?si=0GY64srgbqE0UQSb
SUMMER FUN UNDER THE SUN & STARS!!
Come join us for the 2nd rooftop in our mini-series “Epic Rooftops in L.A.” Most will be at stunning hotels. They will vary~ brunch, dinner and some only for cocktails. Take advantage of Spire 73 DINE LA prix fixe menu or choose from the full menu.For those unfamiliar… DINE LA Restaurant Week is a consecutive 14 day event that usually takes place twice a year. Hundreds of fine dining TOP LA restaurants participate with prix fixe menus for reduced prices. For “foodies” who love fine dining “Dine LA” is the most anticipated time of year to try new places and indulge in culinary excellence.
EXPERIENCE THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS
Arrive at daylight and ready for sunset at 7:58 PM. You will experience the most DAZZLING ROOFTOP VIEW in LA as close to the stars as you can get!! 💫✨🌙Elevated Luxury in Downtown L.A. at The Inter Continental Hotel
The tallest building on the West Coast is also the most remarkable luxury hotel in Los Angeles. A high-speed elevator will whisk you to the 70th-floor lobby where you'll be welcomed by the city's most spectacular 360-degree views of LA.
Serving acclaimed farm-to-fork California dining and a menu of mixologist-inspired cocktails, spirit-free cocktails, world-class wines, and celebratory bubbles on the 73rd floor. There are countless fire features, big mod chairs to sit in, and 360-degree views of LA.
$5 RSVP to guarantee your spot
To assure us you are committed to joining our exclusive dining events and not taking up a spot someone else could enjoy we kindly request a $5 NON-refundable RSVP deposit. Your reservation commitment also helps defray the cost to share these “Fabulous places.”$5 PayPal, Venmo or Zelle (NOT if waitlisted) to reserve your dining spot. NOTE: Fee is NOT refundable and NOT eligible for re-sale/transfer. If you need to cancel immediately update to “not going”.
Payment contact provided upon RSVP made within 24-hrs or immediate removal. This gives everyone a fair opportunity to join events.
AT TIME OF PAYMENT INDICATE: Spire 73
NOTIFICATIONS-ON ARE REQUIRED
It is YOUR responsibility to be aware if you were moved off the waitlist. If there is a cancellation and you are moved-up you will be given 24-hrs for payment.FULL MENU
https://digital.ihg.com/is/content/ihg/Spring_Summer_Spire_Menu_June_2025DINE LA MENU
v - vegetarian | gf - gluten free | df - diary freeAPPETIZER
Cali “Strawberry Fields Forever” Salad (v, gf)
Arugula, Aged White Cheddar, Pistacho, Avocado Cabernet VinaigretteENTRÉE
Choice of one
Spire Burger
10 oz. Angus Short Rib & Brisket Beef Patty, Aged Cheddar, Smoked Bacon Slaw, Red Pickle Relish, Salt & Pepper Brioche Bun, FriesOR
Cardamon Citron Salmon Filet (gf, df)
Coconut Jasmin Rice, Green CurryDESSERT
Choice of one
Pineapple Upside-Down Cake (v)
Crème Cherry AnglaiseOR
Tres Leches Cake (v)
PARKING
Valet $16.50 for 2-1/2 hours
Will update with other optionsMEETUP POLICY 🔺 No drop-ins. RSVP Meetup members only 🔺 3 under 24-hr cancellations/3-months out 🔺 3 failures to pay (fee events)/6-months out 🔺 2 no-shows/1-year out 🔺Excessive cancelations perm. removed