
About us
You've found the right group if you're a gay man who's tired of small talk and just wants to meet others without the pressure. We started with a few guys grabbing drinks after work and have grown into something steady and low key. We do regular things like walking around the neighbourhood, grabbing coffee, playing board games, or checking out free museum days. Most of us are curious, pretty down to earth, and just figuring things out like anyone else. Events happen every week or two so there's no rush and no drama. People usually leave feeling like they were actually seen. You can come to one event or all of them and it's fine either way. Over time, some of us have started hanging out one on one, meeting each other's friends, or just having someone to text when you're bored. There's no forced bonding, just real moments that add up. New faces are always quietly welcomed into the circle. You can expect to walk into a relaxed space, grab a drink, and talk about whatever comes up, no expectations.
Upcoming events
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Burnaby Gay Pride Online Speed Dating
8X23+RW North Vancouver, Burnaby, BC, CA๐ชท Live Gay Date Rounds on Zoom for Burnaby Gay People Real Connection โ Real Rounds
When the rounds start, you'll cycle through short one-on-one Zoom rounds with Burnaby gay singles matched to you by age and personality, while the host handles all the logistics.
Before you join, a personality questionnaire is built into the sign-up โ the quiz results inform who you meet to organise compatible Burnaby gay locals for your session, ensuring your matches are intentional and not random.
Once it is wrapped up, match notifications go to both parties โ exclusively for mutual selections โ and from that point you call the shots.
Age-grouped registration โ select yours:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
โ ๏ธ Note: Rsvping here does not hold your place in the event, so click your age group link, complete the form, and take the short personality questionnaire โ attendance is capped so register as soon as possible, and RSVP plus full registration is what holds your seat.
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Ideal if you are:
- First-timers around Burnaby finished with swiping for months without meeting anyone worth meeting and prefer meeting people in person first.
- Gay residents locally in Burnaby ready to move past scrolling through profiles with no genuine connection and prefer meeting people in person first.
- Gay daters from the Burnaby area done with the exhausting loop of apps that waste evenings and prefer meeting people in person first.
- Members of the community in Burnaby who have had enough of swiping for months without meeting anyone worth meeting and prefer structure over ambiguity.
Event Overview
- Format: Real-time in a hosted Zoom session built around curated gay one-on-one dates, sorted to your age group and personality profile in advance.
- Where: One hundred percent virtual โ on phone or laptop โ your choice, a stable internet connection and a camera is enough, and whichever room suits you best is ideal.
- Host: A welcoming host keeps everything on track and stress-free throughout, giving the whole session a relaxed and easy feel โ all you bring is yourself โ they handle the rest.
- Vibe: Casual video date rounds with real Burnaby gay locals, and the conversation always feels more real than an app date.
- Duration: Roughly 75 to 90 minutes from start to wrap, and the pacing keeps it fresh throughout.
What you can expect
- Choose your bracket โ through your age range link above, then complete the short matching survey, as the quiz plus registration is what counts.
- Show up on Zoom โ at the event start by opening your Zoom link, phone tablet or laptop all work equally well, and everything runs on the host's schedule from that point.
- Go through the rounds โ focused private rounds with age-matched Burnaby gay locals paired by quiz, with a host keeping rounds moving at a comfortable pace, since the quiz results put the right people in your rounds.
- Check your results โ after the event you will receive any mutual match details, since no information is ever shared without mutual agreement from both sides, and everything from that point is on your schedule.
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โจ Done with gay apps โ start here โ use the link above to register and we sort the rest this week. Your matches are waiting to be found. ๐ โจ32 attendees
Richmond For Beginners Online Gay Dating
6Q4G+V5 Richmond, Richmond, BC, CA๐ Curated Gay Speed Dating on Zoom for Richmond Gay Singles No Apps Needed โ Host Guided
As a guest, you'll spend your time in host-managed one-on-one rounds with Richmond gay singles matched by age and personality, as an experienced host steers the pace.
Once you register, you take a quick personality and preferences survey โ that information feeds the matching to give you a personally matched Richmond gay lineup, giving every chat a better foundation than an app ever could.
When the session ends, match results are sent privately โ with privacy guaranteed for all non-mutual picks โ and everything that follows is on your schedule.
Click your age bracket to register:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
โ ๏ธ Quick note: This rsvp is not enough to hold your place in the rounds, so follow the age group link above, register, and complete the personality quiz to lock in your spot โ spots run out faster than you would expect so register now, and this is not optional โ both steps are required.
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Made for:
- Gay residents in the Richmond area who have given up on Grindr fatigue and empty match queues and want to talk to real gay people tonight.
- Gay men from Richmond fed up with shallow connections that never lead anywhere and want to meet real gay locals without the faff.
- Queer people throughout Richmond ready to move past unread messages and dead-end app conversations and are serious about meeting someone.
- LGBTQ+ professionals within Richmond who are tired of shallow connections that never lead anywhere and need a better way to meet gay people locally.
Here is how the evening goes
- Lock in your place โ through the age group link above, then take the personality survey, since this is how you are officially confirmed.
- Log in โ using the Zoom link sent to you before the event, no Zoom account is needed โ just click the link, and a host is live and will walk you through everything.
- Get into the rounds โ quick private video rounds with compatible Richmond gay singles in your bracket, with the host managing every round transition, knowing the matching already happened before you got on Zoom.
- Find out who matched you โ match results go out after โ mutual only, private always, with the system keeping all non-mutual selections entirely private, and you are in control of everything that happens next.
What to Know
- Format: Real-time in a live Zoom room featuring private gay video date rounds, quiz-and-age matched for every single round.
- Where: No commute needed โ on any laptop tablet or phone, all tech requirements are camera mic and Wi-Fi, and wherever you feel at ease is effectively your venue.
- Host: A focused host keeps it comfortable and on schedule throughout, so the focus stays entirely on the people you are meeting โ the format, timing, and transitions are all in their hands.
- Vibe: Friendly personal date rounds with Richmond gay people who wanted something genuine, and every round is more enjoyable than the last.
- Duration: Somewhere around 75 to 90 minutes all in, and it moves quickly.
๐ก Helpful hint: sit facing a window or lamp for better video, to avoid tech issues at the worst possible moment, and once it is done you are completely set for the whole session.
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โจ One Zoom call, real conversations, real matches โ grab your place above before it goes and everything from there is on us as soon as you are ready. First round nerves always fade fast. ๐๏ธ โจ31 attendees
Surrey Online Gay Pride Speed Dating
301 North Rd, Surrey, BC, CA๐ Live Gay Speed Dating for Surrey Gay Singles from Your Couch
On the night, you'll take part in private one-on-one video rounds with Surrey gay people in your age bracket who match your profile, with someone hosting live from start to finish.
As part of your registration, you submit a short personality questionnaire โ the matching data comes from to match you with Surrey gay singles who are likely to click with you, which means the rounds feel more natural and less forced.
After the final round, we send out mutual matches โ without any awkward one-way messages โ and you take over from there entirely.
Register under your age group:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
โ ๏ธ RSVP is not enough: An rsvp on this page is not a confirmed spot, so select your age range link above, fill in the registration, and answer the personality quiz โ spots fill quickly so do not leave it too long, and both are needed โ the RSVP alone counts for nothing.
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You will love this if:
- Anyone throughout Surrey looking beyond the exhausting loop of apps that waste evenings and are ready for something genuine instead.
- Gay singles across Surrey wanting to escape swiping for months without meeting anyone worth meeting and value real conversation over curated profiles.
- First-timers from around Surrey who are tired of profiles instead of real people and are looking for real connection.
Event Details
- Format: Fully hosted on a live Zoom call with short one-on-one gay video rounds, matched by quiz results and age at every round.
- Where: At-home โ from phone tablet or computer, the only requirement is a device with a camera and internet, and any location with good Wi-Fi and a camera works perfectly.
- Host: A capable host coordinates every round and every transition, which means nothing technical or logistical is on your plate โ from start to finish your only job is to have good conversations.
- Vibe: Comfortable video date rounds with Surrey gay people who actually turned up, and the whole format just works better than alternatives.
- Duration: Runs for roughly under 90 minutes end to end, and the evening has a natural momentum.
Your evening, step by step
- Grab your spot โ via the link for your age group above, then complete the short matching survey, because registration closes once spots fill.
- Join Zoom โ by opening the Zoom link at the event start, any device with a camera and mic is all you need, and the host takes over from that moment forward.
- Meet people โ short one-on-one rounds with Surrey gay singles sorted to your age and personality, as the host handles all transitions so conversations stay natural, and each person in your rounds was chosen for compatibility.
- See your mutual connections โ once the event closes we share mutual match results, with non-mutual picks remaining completely private, and once you have it you decide how and when to connect.
โญ "Did not think I would enjoy it but โ the personality matching really works" โ Surrey gay attendee
๐ก Quick tip: use headphones if you have them available, so you can be fully present from round one, as it is worth doing before you need it not during.
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โจ Short rounds with real Surrey gay locals โ register through your age group and we will handle the rest in this round. Your next chapter might start tonight. ๐ โจ29 attendees
Vancouver Verified Gay Singles Group Chat
8Q53+89 West Vancouver, Vancouver, BC, CA๐ Live Online Gay Speed Dating for Vancouver Gay Locals Age Grouped โ From Home
As a participant, you'll sit down for curated Zoom speed rounds with Vancouver gay singles paired for compatibility by age and quiz, while the host handles all the logistics.
When booking your spot, you answer a few quick personality questions โ those answers are used to organise compatible Vancouver gay locals for your session, so every round is informed by more than just looks.
After the session closes, match results are sent privately โ with nothing shared unless both parties agreed โ and you are in control of what happens next.
Your age group is your key โ pick it below:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
โ ๏ธ Action needed: Clicking rsvp is only the first step not the whole process, so follow the age group link above, register, and complete the personality quiz to lock in your spot โ spaces are purposely limited so move fast, and without both steps done your spot is not held.
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This works best for:
- Queer individuals in the Vancouver area who have had enough of matches that fade before you ever actually meet and are ready for a genuine first impression.
- Gay men in the Vancouver area who are tired of profiles instead of real people and are after something more than a swipe can offer.
- LGBTQ+ professionals living in Vancouver looking beyond profiles instead of real people and prefer structure over ambiguity.
- Queer individuals who live in Vancouver who have given up on shallow connections that never lead anywhere and are after something more than a swipe can offer.
- Gay women based in Vancouver moving beyond the exhausting loop of apps that waste evenings and are ready for something that feels natural.
The format
- Grab your spot โ via your age group registration link, then complete the matching quiz, because registration closes once spots fill.
- Hop on โ using the video link shared before the session, works anywhere with a camera and internet, and a friendly host manages everything once you are on.
- Rotate through dates โ back-to-back private Zoom rounds with Vancouver gay people matched to you by age and quiz, with the host keeping everything comfortable and on schedule, since personality and age shaped every pairing in advance.
- Get your mutual matches โ mutual connections are confirmed and sent after the session, since non-mutual choices are never shared with either party, and the conversation continues on your terms from that point.
๐ก Before the event: connect via wired internet if that is an option, and it sets you up for a better evening overall, and it is the one small thing that makes the most difference.
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โจ One Zoom call, real conversations, real matches โ secure your place via the link above and we will have you matched and ready and we will get you all set up. First round nerves always fade fast. ๐ป โจ34 attendees