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Speed dating for people who hate speed dating! Ages 30-45

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Speed dating for people who hate speed dating! Ages 30-45

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A modern, no-cringe experience for straight singles 30–45. No swiping. No awkwardness. Just real matches, curated for you.

NOTE: You must buy a ticket on EventBrite and arrive before 7:45 PM to participate!
Tickets include a complimentary drink! Grab one here:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/speed-dating-for-people-who-hate-speed-dating-tickets-1587999151209?aff=oddtdtcreator

Tired of swiping and wasting time on people who don’t align with you? This isn’t a bar crawl or a cringe speed dating night. You’ll meet 4 real matches based on what matters — your values, goals, and vibe.
Follow @findfiredating to learn about upcoming events!

Who the first event is for:

  • Straight singles
  • Ages 30–45 (suggested)

What Makes This Different:

  • Smart Matching: You’re paired with 4 people based on values, goals, and dealbreakers – not random seat assignments.
  • Real Chemistry: You meet in person – no swiping, no ghosting, just face-to-face conversations.
  • Just Enough Structure: It’s not stiff or awkward. We’ve built in icebreakers and enough time to get to know each other.

What you'll get:

  • A 90 minute event mixing casual mingling and curated 1‑on‑1 chats
  • A drink on us – yep, it’s included with your ticket
  • Smart, profile-based matchmaking + icebreakers tailored just for you
  • A trendy venue with a full bar and good vibes
  • Change of plans? Full refund up to 3 days before

How it works:

  1. We ask you a few fun questions before the event
  2. We use your answers to pick your top 4 matches
  3. You meet them face-to-face – plus a chance to mingle with everyone before and after
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