**A modern, no-cringe experience for straight singles 30–45. No swiping. No awkwardness. Just real matches, curated for you.**

***NOTE: You must buy a ticket on EventBrite and arrive before 7:45 PM to participate!***
Tickets include a complimentary drink! Grab one here:
[https://www.eventbrite.com/e/speed-dating-for-people-who-hate-speed-dating-tickets-1587999151209?aff=oddtdtcreator](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/speed-dating-for-people-who-hate-speed-dating-tickets-1587999151209?aff=oddtdtcreator)

Tired of swiping and wasting time on people who don’t align with you? This isn’t a bar crawl or a cringe speed dating night. You’ll meet 4 real matches based on what matters — your values, goals, and vibe.
Follow [@findfiredating](instagram.com/findfiredating) to learn about upcoming events!

**Who the first event is for:**

* Straight singles
* Ages 30–45 (suggested)

**What Makes This Different:**

* Smart Matching: You’re paired with 4 people based on values, goals, and dealbreakers – not random seat assignments.
* Real Chemistry: You meet in person – no swiping, no ghosting, just face-to-face conversations.
* Just Enough Structure: It’s not stiff or awkward. We’ve built in icebreakers and enough time to get to know each other.

**What you'll get:**

* A 90 minute event mixing casual mingling and curated 1‑on‑1 chats
* A drink on us – yep, it’s included with your ticket
* Smart, profile-based matchmaking + icebreakers tailored just for you
* A trendy venue with a full bar and good vibes
* Change of plans? Full refund up to 3 days before

**How it works:**

1. We ask you a few fun questions before the event
2. We use your answers to pick your top 4 matches
3. You meet them face-to-face – plus a chance to mingle with everyone before and after

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