"Are Your Emotional Landmines Blowing Up Every Relationship?"

#### Mozambique: A Country Built on Hidden Explosions

Mozambique, a country in Southeast Africa, spent years fighting a war for independence against Portugal. In their fight, they placed landmines everywhere—scattered across fields, roads, and villages.
But here’s the problem.
There was no map. No clear record of where the landmines were placed. The war kept shifting, and by the time peace was negotiated, an estimated 170,000 landmines were still buried beneath the surface.
The war was over, but the damage wasn’t.
Because these landmines—once meant to protect—began blowing up their own people simply for stepping in the wrong place.

#### What Does This Have to Do with You?

During your own war with life, society, and past pain, you’ve done the same thing.
To survive, you’ve placed emotional landmines all over the country of ‘you.’

• A memory here.
• A wound there.
• A deeply buried belief about love, trust, or rejection—placed so long ago that you don’t even remember setting it.

And now?
When someone gets too close—when a relationship starts growing—they step on one of these landmines.
They weren’t trying to hurt you.
They weren’t even the enemy.
They just didn’t know where the danger was.
BOOM. Relationship over.

#### How Do You Stop the Explosions?

Mozambique had to create a massive demining initiative—sending out teams to carefully locate and disarm each landmine, one by one.
That’s what you have to do, too.
Not just avoid relationships.
Not just push people away before they get too close.
Not just hope the right person will magically never step on the wrong spot.
You have to uncover where your landmines are buried and disarm them.
Because real love isn’t about expecting people to avoid your wounds forever—it’s about healing them so they’re no longer a threat.

### Join me as we uncover the hidden landmines that keep shattering your relationships. I’ve helped people map out their past, and once they disarmed their triggers, everything changed. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same cycles, let’s talk."