What we’re about
Are you a gay man in London looking for deeper connections, meaningful conversations, and a supportive community?
Welcome to Gay Men’s Connection group, a space for men who want to explore authentic connection, self-discovery, and holistic well-being. Whether you’re seeking friendship, personal growth, or a space to be truly seen and heard, this group is for you.
Each meetup is designed to help you:
✅ Build real friendships beyond the apps
✅ Engage in open, heart-centered conversations
✅ Explore mindfulness, embodiment, and emotional well-being
✅ Feel supported in a non-judgmental, inclusive space
We host a mix of talking circles, guided meditations, movement practices (yoga, dance), and group discussions. No experience is needed—just an open heart and a willingness to connect!
Join us for our next event and become part of a growing community of gay men supporting each other on the journey of self-discovery.
📍 London | In-person & occasional online events
🎟️ All backgrounds & identities welcome
Upcoming events (2)
See all- The Erotic Gateway- workshops and Play PartyTanTemple , London£95.00
🔥 The Erotic Gateway: Workshop & Play Party
A day and evening of embodied liberation, conscious connection, and sex-positive celebration for men who love men
Ready to unlock epic intimacy, unapologetic pleasure, and next-level self-expression?
The Erotic Gateway is a powerful one-day immersion that blends therapeutic workshops with a curated erotic play party — designed for men who love men to connect deeply with their bodies, desires, and each other in a space of safety, respect, and radical freedom.This isn’t just a party. It’s preparation and celebration — a full-spectrum experience for those ready to step into their erotic power.
📅 This is a regular event, taking place on the last Saturday of each month. Come once — or make it part of your personal liberation journey.
⸻
🧭 What to Expect During the Day:
Through guided workshops and embodied exercises, you’ll be invited to:
✨ Embrace your body with confidence and compassion
✨ Practice consent and boundaries that feel empowering and clear
✨ Shred outdated labels and limiting beliefs
✨ Learn how to ask for what you truly want — without shame or apology
✨ Equip yourself with therapeutic tools for pleasure, nervous system regulation, and presenceYou’ll leave the workshop space tooled-up, tuned-in, and turned-on, ready to enter the evening’s play party with intention, clarity, and courage.
⸻
🌙 The Erotic Play Party
As day turns to night, we shift into a guided, sex-positive play space where all that you’ve awakened can be explored and embodied. Whether you’re seeking connection, craving intimacy, or ready to express your erotic self — this is your space.
Everything is invitational, inclusive, and held with integrity. Consent is our cornerstone. No experience necessary — just bring your truth.
Your Facilitators
Your facilitators, Armand and Firefly bring together their collective years of experience facilitating group sessions and providing one-to-one support, integrating trauma-informed therapy with tantra and other bodywork practices.
Armand Botha
ARMAND BOTHA is a trained Core Energetics Practitioner who graduated from the Core Energetics Institute in the Netherlands. He completed his post-graduate training at the same institute and has also received training in Neo-Tantra, Sexological Bodywork, Internal Family Systems and Body Poetry. In his London practice, Armand combines these different modalities to help individuals and groups achieve personal transformation, especially those in the gay community. Armand is passionate about the mind-body-spirit connection and uses this passion to restore natural movement and energy flow to his clients. He brings his love, heart, high energy, and passion to his work and guides and supports people on their journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Armand has previously taught dance, fitness and education.
Firefly
FIREFLY is a Tantric therapist and coach who brings a wealth of training and experience to his transformational work. He began his journey with Gay Love Spirit in Prague and later advanced his expertise with the Tantra4GayMen teacher training. Firefly’s training also includes qualifications in Tantra Yoga and Reiki, as well as an Embodied trauma therapist graduating from The Centre For Healing in Australia. His work emphasises the restoration of energy flow, sensuality, and connection, fostering spiritual growth and a renewed sense of freedom. Firefly’s approach is grounded in love, compassion, and a deep passion for Tantric wisdom. He has participated in and taught at Tantra events around the world, sharing his knowledge and guiding others on their paths of healing and self-discovery. Firefly is a proud member of the IAOTH.
⸻💬 FAQs
Is nudity or sexual interaction required?
No. Everything is optional. You are welcome to stay clothed, go at your own pace, and participate in ways that feel right for you.Do I have to partner with strangers?
Some exercises involve partnering, and you’ll be invited to rotate — but you can always stay with someone you know or choose to observe.What should I bring?
• Comfortable clothes
• A water bottle
• A towel or blanket
• A sense of curiosity and opennessWho is this for?
This event is specifically created for gay, bi, and trans men — of all backgrounds, ages, and experiences — who want to explore their erotic selves in a conscious and respectful way.⸻
✨ Come curious. Leave empowered.
Join us on the last Saturday of every month for an experience that invites more joy, connection, and pleasure into your life.
Spaces are limited to maintain intimacy and safety — early booking recommended.Book here
Not open - The Erotic Gateway- workshops and Play PartyTanTemple , London£95.00
🔥 The Erotic Gateway: Workshop & Play Party
A day and evening of embodied liberation, conscious connection, and sex-positive celebration for men who love men
Ready to unlock epic intimacy, unapologetic pleasure, and next-level self-expression?
The Erotic Gateway is a powerful one-day immersion that blends therapeutic workshops with a curated erotic play party — designed for men who love men to connect deeply with their bodies, desires, and each other in a space of safety, respect, and radical freedom.This isn’t just a party. It’s preparation and celebration — a full-spectrum experience for those ready to step into their erotic power.
📅 This is a regular event, taking place on the last Saturday of each month. Come once — or make it part of your personal liberation journey.
⸻
🧭 What to Expect During the Day:
Through guided workshops and embodied exercises, you’ll be invited to:
✨ Embrace your body with confidence and compassion
✨ Practice consent and boundaries that feel empowering and clear
✨ Shred outdated labels and limiting beliefs
✨ Learn how to ask for what you truly want — without shame or apology
✨ Equip yourself with therapeutic tools for pleasure, nervous system regulation, and presenceYou’ll leave the workshop space tooled-up, tuned-in, and turned-on, ready to enter the evening’s play party with intention, clarity, and courage.
⸻
🌙 The Erotic Play Party
As day turns to night, we shift into a guided, sex-positive play space where all that you’ve awakened can be explored and embodied. Whether you’re seeking connection, craving intimacy, or ready to express your erotic self — this is your space.
Everything is invitational, inclusive, and held with integrity. Consent is our cornerstone. No experience necessary — just bring your truth.
Your Facilitators
Your facilitators, Armand and Firefly bring together their collective years of experience facilitating group sessions and providing one-to-one support, integrating trauma-informed therapy with tantra and other bodywork practices.
Armand Botha
ARMAND BOTHA is a trained Core Energetics Practitioner who graduated from the Core Energetics Institute in the Netherlands. He completed his post-graduate training at the same institute and has also received training in Neo-Tantra, Sexological Bodywork, Internal Family Systems and Body Poetry. In his London practice, Armand combines these different modalities to help individuals and groups achieve personal transformation, especially those in the gay community. Armand is passionate about the mind-body-spirit connection and uses this passion to restore natural movement and energy flow to his clients. He brings his love, heart, high energy, and passion to his work and guides and supports people on their journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Armand has previously taught dance, fitness and education.
Firefly
FIREFLY is a Tantric therapist and coach who brings a wealth of training and experience to his transformational work. He began his journey with Gay Love Spirit in Prague and later advanced his expertise with the Tantra4GayMen teacher training. Firefly’s training also includes qualifications in Tantra Yoga and Reiki, as well as an Embodied trauma therapist graduating from The Centre For Healing in Australia. His work emphasises the restoration of energy flow, sensuality, and connection, fostering spiritual growth and a renewed sense of freedom. Firefly’s approach is grounded in love, compassion, and a deep passion for Tantric wisdom. He has participated in and taught at Tantra events around the world, sharing his knowledge and guiding others on their paths of healing and self-discovery. Firefly is a proud member of the IAOTH.
⸻💬 FAQs
Is nudity or sexual interaction required?
No. Everything is optional. You are welcome to stay clothed, go at your own pace, and participate in ways that feel right for you.Do I have to partner with strangers?
Some exercises involve partnering, and you’ll be invited to rotate — but you can always stay with someone you know or choose to observe.What should I bring?
• Comfortable clothes
• A water bottle
• A towel or blanket
• A sense of curiosity and opennessWho is this for?
This event is specifically created for gay, bi, and trans men — of all backgrounds, ages, and experiences — who want to explore their erotic selves in a conscious and respectful way.⸻
✨ Come curious. Leave empowered.
Join us on the last Saturday of every month for an experience that invites more joy, connection, and pleasure into your life.
Spaces are limited to maintain intimacy and safety — early booking recommended.Book here
