What we’re about
This is a fun, relaxed group for making new 'GayMates.' All are welcome, to join, regardless of sexuality etc. all you need is a sense of fun! Members currently organise social meetups: nights out, museum visits, cinema trips and a whole host of other activities. Some events are hosted others are not.
We welcome your input and suggestions in developing this group! To post events click on 'Suggest a new meetup'. To attend events click on 'YES'. If you wish to make new friends and try new things, then this is definitely the place to be.
We look forward to meeting you!
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GayMates Meetup Group is open for all members to post events, simply message Serge with your idea.
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Upcoming events (4+)
See all- JULY 19th - EXPLORING EROS - Pt2THE SPACE , London£50.00
Please before you book visit the Creating A Safer Space page and you can find more general info about MiT workshops at the FAQs section.
*Bookings Now Open*
£50 First 10 tickets Early Bird price
£60 next 10 tickets Regular price
£32 Consession Tickets – 3 Available
Free Scholarship Ticket – 1 Available* Please contact Serge if you need a concession or a scholarship
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Back due to a popular demand! We’re going to revisit and establish a deeper connection with the sequence but also learn a few more techniques to enrich the experience.This workshop is an invitation in exploring deeper, more sensual qualities of touch. This naturist event will start with setting intent with meditation and breathwork, moving into working in pairs using simple but effective massage techniques to discover the full potential of our touch and the dynamics of connection. This workshop involves consensual genital touch, through instruction and demonstration and it's not a sex party.
When: 19:00-22:00 SATURDAY 19th JULY 2025, doors open 18:45
Where: THE SPACE, Clapham Common
Unit 3B, 9 Park Hill Clapham SW4 9NS
Who: GBTQ men
You’ll need: comfortable clothes, a note book and pen, a small comfy blanket or towel.
Experience: all levels – This workshop is open to new men and those with all levels of experience. It’s not a prerequisite to have attended part1.
You’ll be invited to participate both in solo work and in explorations in pairs. During these guided exercises we’ll incorporate some genital work, but it’s not the sole purpose of the workshop.For a full description, more info and terms please visit Men in Touch
Photo Credit Photo by Ketut Subiyanto at Pexels.com - London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
- Massage workshop for men - exploring intimacyBrixton Station, London£59.00
Join us for an afternoon of sensual exploration, connection, and joy through touch with a friendly and diverse group of men. This month we introduce the microcosmic orbit from Taoist Tantra. This tantric energy Meditaton moves Prana (life force energy) through your body and intensifies the experince of sexual pleasure.
N.B. the venue is air conditioned so a pleasant temperature on a warm day!✨ Experience playful, erotic, and nourishing connection with other men in a safe, sober and shame-free space.
✨Learn massage and intimacy skills to use with lovers and partners.
✨Feel relaxed and at ease with other men in this caring and heart centred space.“Nick creates such a beautiful and welcoming space — I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam
👉 Click HERE to reserve your spot
What to Expect:
✨Slow, sensual and erotic touch exchanges
✨Breathwork and energy circulation for genital massage
✨Tantric visualisation & Prana flow techniques
✨Gentle paired and group activities (nudity and genital touch included)“Nick holds a safe, affirming space for deep connection. I highly recommend his workshops.” – Paul
✨ Open to men of all ages and backgrounds.
✨ Newcomers warmly welcome.
✨ We meet regardless of Meetup RSVPs.Led by Nick Kientsch, a trauma-informed practitioner with 20+ years of massage experience and a background in Tibetan Buddhist Tantra and Neo-Tantra. Formerly a Buddhist monk, Nick brings depth, safety, and warmth to every session.
📅 Event Details
Date: Saturday 26th July
Time: 2–7 PM (doors open 1:45 PM)
Location: Brixton (full address sent on booking)
Nearest tube: Brixton🎟️ Tickets
Full price: £59
Reduced rate: £29 (for students/unwaged)👉 Click HERE to reserve your spot
Can’t make this one? Join us next time – we meet the last Saturday of each month.
- London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation GroupWestminster Meeting House, London£10.00
Every Monday since 2009 between 15 - 40 men have come into this oasis of calm in the heart of London to meditate, relax and make new friends.
- We're a diverse and constantly evolving group with a broad age range and many nationalities.
- There's a great balance between long-time regulars and new faces.
- No prior meditation experience is necessary as full instructions are provided.
- Experienced meditators are also welcome if you are looking for a group to meditate with.
- We sit on chairs but if you prefer to sit on the floor there are mats and cushions available.
What You’ll Learn
- Breathwork for stress reduction
- Gratitude practices to enhance your enjoyment of life
- Mindfulness tools for focus and clarity
- Meditations that boost emotional intelligence
- Self-care practices to cultivate kindness in areas where you struggle
- Compassion techniques for processing difficult emotions
- Resilience-building to overcome challenges and adapt to change
- Social skills development through interaction with fellow participants
Meeting Details
- When: Every Monday (the event proceeds regardless of RSVPs)
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, London, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square or Charing Cross Tube Station)
- Time: Doors open at 6:45 PM; meditation starts at 7 PM and concludes at 9 PM.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the evening
The evening is a combination of meditation, inner exploration and relaxation done in connection with others.- We start with a grounding practice and some movement to release tension from your body, followed by a guided meditation to calm your mind.
- Mid evening there's a 20 minute refreshment break, giving time to chat with others at the class.
- The second half explores a different theme each week which leads into a second guided meditation.
- The room is heated and warm.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
About the Teacher
The sessions are led by Nick, who has over 30 years of meditation experience and lived for 7 years as a Buddhist monk. Central to this monastic training was the principle that our freedom lies in our ability to choose our response to life rather than react to external situations.Fees
- First-Time Attendees: £10 (for newcomers or those returning after a year)
- Standard Rate: £16 per session (book online or pay at the door)
- Silver Membership: £55 for 4 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £13.75/session)
- Gold Membership: £95 for 8 sessions within 3 months (average cost: £11.87/session)
Additional sessions within the 3-month period are also discounted. Memberships are auto-renewed unless canceled.
Concessions for students, retired on a low pension, low income, Universal Credit, refugees and disability support
Concession rates are available for those needing financial support and are available at the door only. If you think you might qualify, just speak to us when you arrive.
CLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
Member Testimonials:
"The connection I found at the London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group has been truly transformative. Not only have I learned valuable skills for managing stress, but I’ve also formed meaningful friendships that support my overall well-being. I highly recommend this group to anyone looking for a welcoming and inclusive space."
— A"Meditation has freed me from negative thoughts through increased self-awareness. Nick is an inspiring teacher who has helped me find happiness within myself."
— Daniele"These thoughtful sessions have been invaluable in helping me focus and unwind. Nick has created a friendly space to sort one’s thoughts."
— NeilCLICK HERE TO BOOK - or buy on the door
