About us
This is a fun, relaxed group for making new 'GayMates.' All are welcome, to join, regardless of sexuality etc. all you need is a sense of fun! Members currently organise social meetups: nights out, museum visits, cinema trips and a whole host of other activities. Some events are hosted others are not.
We welcome your input and suggestions in developing this group! To post events click on 'Suggest a new meetup'. To attend events click on 'YES'. If you wish to make new friends and try new things, then this is definitely the place to be.
We look forward to meeting you!
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GayMates Meetup Group is open for all members to post events, simply message Serge with your idea.
GayMates is supported by
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Upcoming events
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- £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £60.00
18th APRIL – SKIN MEMORIES – A ROMANCE WITH YOURSELF
Evoke, Unit A Rowan Apartments, Seven Sisters Road, London, England, N4 1FS,, London, GBPlease before you book visit the Creating A Safer Space page and you can find more general info about MiT workshops at the FAQs section.
* Only 14 spaces available *
~~£50 first 5 tickets~~ ~~Early Bird price SOLD OUT~~
£60 next 7 tickets Regular Price
£32 – 2 Available – Concession*****
~~Free – 1 Available -~~ ~~Scholarship*****~~
*Please contact Serge if you need a concession or a scholarship***
Payment is proof your place is reserved. Please note that numbers of RSVPs in social media don’t represent the actual confirmed numbers of participants as we advertise in various groups and websites. Book early to avoid disappointment.
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Our skin defines the psychical limits of our bodies but expands our sensations beyond boundaries. Our skin nurtures our emotional world and can become the gate between the inner and outer world.
Join us for a journey into sensations, using textures, fingertips, and your own skin to map a new landscape of pleasure.
In this session, some genital work is incorporated (brushing, passing over, holding and basic lingam techniques) as it’s not the sole focus of the workshop. Join us in beauty.
Where: EVOKE Fitness Studio, Unit A Rowan Apartments, Seven Sisters Road, Manor House, N4 1FS.
Who: GBTQ men
You’ll need: comfortable clothes, a note book and pen, a small comfy blanket or towel.
Experience: all levels – This workshop is open to new men and those with all levels of experience.You’ll be invited to participate both in solo work and in explorations in pairs. During these guided exercises we’ll incorporate some genital work, but it’s not the sole purpose of the workshop.
More info about the event, bookings and cancelation policy here
3 attendees - £10.00
London Gay, Bi, Trans Men's Mindfulness Meditation Group
Westminster Meeting House, 52 St Martin's Ln, London WC2N 4EA, London, GBSince 2009, 15‑40 men meet in a warm, inclusive space near Leicester Square to meditate, relax and make friends. No experience needed – we guide you step‑by‑step, and seasoned meditators are welcome.
Why gay‑men choose this space
- Safety & belonging – a private, affirming environment where you can be yourself without judgment, the core need identified by LGBTQ‑focused mindfulness programmes .
- Minority‑stress relief – mindfulness reduces the chronic stress that many gay, bi and queer men face, boosting self‑acceptance and emotional regulation .
- Community‑driven growth – connecting with others who share similar experiences lowers isolation and fosters resilience.
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.
What you’ll get
- Breath‑work & gratitude tools – instant stress relief and mood lift.
- Guided meditations that develop emotional intelligence, self‑compassion and resilience.
- Trauma‑informed compassion practices – self‑compassion exercises and body‑scan work to ease reactivity and promote safety.
- A supportive peer community – improve social skills and build lasting friendships.
Evening flow (7 pm‑9 pm)
1️⃣ Grounding movement & body‑scan
2️⃣ First guided meditation (focused attention or self‑compassion)
3️⃣ 20‑minute tea break for informal chat
4️⃣ The second meditation changes week by week and follows a rotating weekly theme (loving‑kindness, self‑compassion, gratitude, etc.)Practical details
- When: Every Monday (doors 6:45 pm, meditation 7 pm) – we run the session even if there are no Meetup RSVP. No booking required - just turn up.
- Where: 52 Saint Martins Lane, WC2N 4EA (near Leicester Square/Charing Cross)
- Seating: Chairs provided; mats & cushions available for floor sitting.
Teacher
Nick – 30 years of practice and 7 years as a Buddhist monk, teaching from a non‑reactive, freedom‑focused perspective.Fees
- First‑timer: £10
- Regular: £16 per session
- Concessions: £13 (students, low‑income, refugees, disability support – ask on arrival)
Join us
Click here to book or simply turn up and pay at the door.“The connection here is transformative – stress‑free, supportive, genuinely inclusive.” – member testimonial.
1 attendee - £69.00
Erotic Touch and sensual play - massage and Tantra for men
East India DLR station, Blackwall Way, London, E14 8GB, GBA safe, supportive space to explore touch, connection and sensuality with peers.
What you’ll get
- Playful, erotic, shame‑free bonding in a heart‑centered, sober environment.
- Hands‑on massage & intimacy skills you can bring to partners, lovers, and the wider gay community.
- Paired & group activities (including nudity and genital touch) that teach consent, touch negotiation and clear communication.
- Erotic mindfulness – slow foreplay, breathwork and energy practices that revitalize sexual energy without rushing to orgasm.
- Confidence to ask for and set boundaries with ease, building presence‑based intimacy rather than performance‑based pressure.
Who’s welcome
- Single gay men or couples open to working with a diverse group.
- No prior massage or Tantra experience required – beginners are warmly invited.
Event details
- Date & time: Saturday 25th April, 2:00 – 7:30 pm (doors 1:45 pm)
- Location: Canary Wharf, London (nearest tube: Jubilee/Elizabeth line, 15‑min walk; DLR East India, 8‑min walk)
- Facilitator: Nick Kientsch – trauma‑informed practitioner, 20+ years massage, former Buddhist monk with Tibetan & Neo‑Tantra training.
- Tickets: £69 (full price) | £39 (students/unwaged) – reserve now
Why attend?
- Learn practical, embodied techniques to deepen connection with other men.
- Join a caring, queer‑affirming community where you can be nervous, curious or “stuck” without judgment.
- Walk away with a toolkit for sensual foreplay, breath‑based energy work and confident consent‑talk.
What past participants say
- “Nick creates a safe and positive space for exploring human connection through touch. I felt uplifted, seen, and valued.”
- “A glorious affirmation of our bodies and sexuality – gentle, open, and encouraging.” – Chris
- “I left feeling blissful and connected to myself and others.” – Sam
We usually host 10‑14 men per workshop. To secure your place please click the link below - a Meetup RSVP does not book you on.
👉 Reserve your spot – click here
📹 Watch a short video overview – click here1 attendee
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