Save Your Marriage

Something's not right in your relationship.

Maybe it's reached crisis level - your spouse is emotionally distant, communication has broken down, and divorce feels terrifyingly possible.

Or maybe you're earlier in the struggle - but you can feel the connection slipping. The little irritations are becoming big triggers. You're starting to wonder if this relationship can actually work long-term...

Here's what you need to know: This isn't all your fault.

Both of you contributed to where things are now. Both of you have patterns. Both of you get triggered. Both of you have pulled away at times.

But here's the reality - you're carrying most of the weight.

You're the one reading the marriage books. Researching solutions. Suggesting therapy. Actually doing the work.

You're trying everything while your partner is... doing the bare minimum. Or maybe they're trying in their own way but lack the emotional skills to really engage. Going through the motions at best.

You've tried therapy (where they give one-word answers). You've worked on communication (that they won't really engage with). You've tried being more patient, more understanding, doing more of everything.

And it's exhausting.

You're left holding the bag - doing the heavy lifting to save something that takes two people to build.

It's not fair. But it's where you are.

This group exists to teach you something powerful: When you transform yourself, the entire dynamic shifts - even when they're not matching your effort.

When you heal your own subconscious patterns and triggers - the ones driving YOUR reactivity - something surprising happens. Your partner often starts showing up differently.

Not because you did more work or tried harder, but because you changed the emotional field between you.

My workshops cover:

• What's really driving your relationship struggles (and why it's not about blame)
• Why both of you are stuck in patterns neither of you consciously chose
• How your individual transformation shifts the dynamic - even when they won't match your effort
• Why you keep getting reactive and what actually stops it
• What needs to shift for real reconnection to happen

Whether you're married for 15 years or in a serious relationship heading toward commitment - if you're doing most of the heavy lifting, these workshops will show you what's actually possible when you focus on what you can control: your own healing.

All events are virtual, so you can attend from anywhere.

I'd love to have you join our group and learn what's actually possible when you focus on your own transformation.

If you're facing a crisis and need help right away, visit: https://www.riveroflifehealings.com/how-to-change-myself-to-save-my-marriage

Amunet :)

P.S. I've been married for 31 years - which might not sound impressive until you know we beat some brutal odds. Two adult disabled children (87% of couples with even one disabled child end up divorced). My chronic health condition. Severe abuse in my past. Both of us from shattered families. My father's suicide when I was four. The kind of background that usually destroys marriages.

The reality is, I shouldn't still be married. But I am. And not just married - actually happy.

That's what happens when you stop trying to communicate your way out of subconscious patterns and actually heal them.

After 11,000+ hours working with clients as a Master Hypnotherapist - specializing in trauma and complicated situations - I've learned something the therapy industry doesn't want you to know: when you're triggered and reactive, no amount of communication skills will save you. Your brain literally goes offline. You need to heal what's driving the triggers - not manage them better.

I know what it's like to watch your spouse emotionally check out. I know the 2 AM terror. I know what it feels like when you've tried everything and nothing's changed.

I created the 90-Day Marriage Miracle™ program because women don't have years to spend in therapy while their spouse researches divorce attorneys. These workshops will show you what actually works when you're running out of time.

Based in Arizona and California, working with clients virtually worldwide.