
What we’re about
Healing & Growth Circle – A Personal Growth Community
This is a free mastermind-style community for women who’ve been impacted by a loved one’s addiction and are ready to reclaim their peace, deepen their self-trust, and grow alongside others walking the same path.
I’m Barbie Haven—Certified Life Coach, Energy Leadership Practitioner, and woman in long-term recovery from codependency. I created this space because 20 years ago, I needed a group like this… and couldn’t find it.
Inside the Healing & Growth Circle, we focus on personal growth, mindset, and emotional well-being. You’ll find monthly mini challenges, reflection prompts, local meet-ups, and conversations that support your self-care, clarity, and courage.
You belong here if:
- You’re no longer trying to fix or save the addict in your life—and you’re ready to focus on YOU.
- You’ve done some inner work and crave a growth-focused space, not a venting circle.
- You value honest conversation, practical tools, and a community that feels supportive—not heavy.
- You’re done shrinking to make others comfortable and are ready to reclaim your voice, identity, and energy.
This isn’t a traditional support group. It’s a modern, holistic approach to healing, growth, and empowerment.
📲 Follow me on Instagram & Facebook: @desiredliveswellness
📩 Email: barbie@desiredlives.com
💛 Join the Facebook group (the group is free, and we use Growth Day as our anchor tool— ask me how you can start a free 7-day trial).
If you're walking this path and want a new kind of support, this is your next step.
With heart,
Barbie
Upcoming events
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Healing & Growth Circle – Real Conversations. Radical Growth.
the. Supper Club, 1908 W. Northwest Blvd. Unit B, Spokane, WA, USHealing & Growth Circle Monthly Meetup
We're a personal growth community for women who want:
- To focus on THEIR transformation (not fixing the addict)
- Real tools for boundaries and mindset work
- Growth-minded community beyond traditional support
Led by someone who spent 17 years in that cycle and is now 20+ years on the other side.
All monthly meetups are free. Come experience what proactive growth looks like. You'll leave feeling empowered and reconnected to yourself, with clarity on your next steps.
We also have a free Facebook Community. Join HERE. *Note - all entry questions must be answered before entry is approved.
📍 Location: The Supper Club – 1908 W. Northwest Blvd, Spokane
🕕 Time: 6:00 PM PST
📩 Questions? Message me or email barbie@desiredlives.com1 attendee
Past events
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