Become Unmanipulable: Learn to Replace Fears with More Love

Is it too scary to talk about fear? If we can’t face our fears, then we’ll be easily manipulated by whatever promises to remove our fears. True promises actually work, like loving lifestyles and divine truths that eliminate fear by teaching us how to live successfully. We can discover that fortunately the real Universe is a very generous, loving, safe, helpful place. On the other hand, false promises to protect us from fear keep us in a perpetual state of ignorance and fear, as seen often in the world today. Many people give their powers of choice away to dominating parental god authority figures who perpetuate fear with lies, the biggest lie being that bad things can be simply eliminated. Making things we don’t like just disappear is the essence of negativity which promotes frightening separations, while positive energy builds reassuring connections. So which do we prefer: to be divided and conquered to death, or understand and connect for eternal life? Join us this Sunday July 6, 2025 for a liberating look at what is fear and how to make friends with fear to receive more love.

Yes, you can make friends with your fear. All emotions including fear are your own soul guidance that you’re free to use or ignore. Emotions highlight what’s important to your happiness and wellbeing. If you care about yourself and your world, then you’ll feel your emotions and self solutions to problems. When you fear that something bad will happen to you, the bad event doesn’t have to happen at all, heavens no! You don’t have react for or against feared bad events. You don’t have to stockpile money or supplies, get defensive and mean, give up in despair, or try to control anything. Instead, your friendly fear can point you to a false belief that says you’re alone and helpless when you’re really not. You’re a powerful creator being. You create reality experiences with belief systems which are the greatest tool of your mind. Don’t be afraid of your own life story, movie, simulation. If you don’t like how things are going, just change it!

But easier said than done, right? We can’t do what we don’t believe is possible for us. Allowing more love takes real shadow work, deep mindful self-inventorying with courage to face fears and learn better choices. The challenge is you are a dual being who exists on both sides of a line; you walk in the two worlds of spirit and human. As spirit you choose what to believe about yourself and pick goals to try next. As human you intensely experience your beliefs and choices as real, increasing either love or fear since they are functional opposites. Love is clearly preferrable, to thrive with friends and always know how to get positive outcomes in life. Love reduces fears to help human beings, starting with ourselves then including others. People who dehumanize others are dehumanized already inside, not feeling and caring like a healthy spiritual human being.

Down the path of fear are the lies that say you’re powerless to stop what’s against you, but if you work hard and fight then things may get better. That’s the bait and switch of false negative belief systems, promises to make things better while they get worse. People build their lives on using fear as a motivator to get things done – do this or else. That’s manipulation, which leads to either resentful rebellion or crippling obedience.

Love would heal fear and work better but requires vulnerability. With love you might get hurt, so you need to stay positive to heal as needed. With fear you’re in constant battle mode to survive so you’re already hurt, no risk there. People get used to negative living with pain-numbing fantasies, distractions, and addictions that neglect the real emotional human self. The truth may be uncomfortable but it won’t hurt. Learn to love a scared lonely human self and set yourself free!

For this meetup, think about what parts of your life scare you and due to your reactions control you. After check-in, I’ll share many views on what fear is, how it works, and how to turn negative experiences to positive. Your fear is used by negative belief systems and negative egos to manipulate you. Imagine what it’ll be like to never fear fear again, because you’ll just take charge and say aha, I see the lies that never work. I can change my beliefs and receive the solutions I need. We’ll conclude with a helpful guided meditation to work with more parts of the soul to take charge of a happier healthier life.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-1pm EDT. You can signup here for this meeting, check www.meetup.com/Inner-Selves-for-Outer-Mastery for all events, and visit www.signupism.com for newsletter, YouTube channel, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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