
What we’re about
Safety and respect are at the heart of everything we do in Instant Affinity Assembly. We believe meaningful connections start with trust, so we maintain a zero tolerance policy for disrespectful behavior, ghosting, or pressure of any kind. All members are expected to treat each other with kindness and integrity, and our event hosts are trained to ensure everyone feels welcome and comfortable. It’s not just about finding a partner it’s about doing it in a space where you feel safe being yourself.
We’re looking for locals who are ready for something real people who value genuine conversation over small talk, who want more than a swipe, and who believe love grows best through shared experiences. If you’re someone who’s emotionally available, open minded, and excited to meet like minded singles who are also on the same page about building something serious, then you’re exactly who we want to meet.
After events, members often exchange numbers if there’s mutual interest, but we also encourage organic connection sometimes a quick text to say you had a great time is all it takes to keep the momentum going. While we don’t host private message boards or apps, many connections have grown naturally through follow up coffees or walks, sparked by the easy chemistry our events help create.
Our events are designed to feel natural and fun no awkward icebreakers or forced interactions. Think scenic hiking dates, cozy wine tastings, small group dinner exchanges, game nights with a twist, and creative workshops like cooking classes or pottery painting. Every activity is chosen to spark real conversation and shared laughter, so you can get to know someone without the pressure of a traditional date.
If you're tired of dating apps and ready to meet amazing people in real life through fun, low pressure experiences, Instant Affinity Assembly is your next step. This isn’t about collecting contacts it’s about finding the connection. Join us and be part of a community that believes love doesn’t have to be complicated, just authentic. Let’s build something meaningful, together.
Upcoming events
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Chicago Age Matched Online Speed Dating
2884 W 31st St, Chicago, IL, US💕 Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in Chicago!
🎯 Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet Chicago locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event → REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Chicago.
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✨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! ✨1 attendee
Madison Age Matched Online Speed Dating
7436 Sawmill Rd, Madison, WI, US💕 Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in Madison!
🎯 Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet Madison locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event → REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Madison.
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✨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! ✨1 attendee
Milwaukee Age Matched Online Speed Dating
34WQ+XQ Shorewood, Milwaukee, WI, US💕 Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in Milwaukee!
🎯 Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet Milwaukee locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event → REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Milwaukee.
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✨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! ✨1 attendee