
What weβre about
Once you're part of Instant Attraction Affair, staying connected is easy and natural. After events, members often exchange numbers if there's mutual interest, and we encourage heartfelt conversations that keep the spark alive between meetups. We also send out fun follow up messages and little check ins between events to keep everyone engaged and excited for the next gathering. It's not just about showing up it's about building real momentum toward something meaningful.
Everyone who's single and sincerely looking for a lasting relationship is welcome here. Whether you're new to the area, getting back into the dating scene, or just tired of swiping through endless profiles, this group is designed for locals who value authenticity over games. We believe that great connections start with shared values, so if you're openhearted, respectful, and ready to meet people face to face, you'll fit right in.
We're all about creating a warm, pressure free vibe where people can be themselves. No awkward icebreakers or forced interactions just genuinely fun activities that let connections unfold naturally. Think cozy wine tastings, group hikes, cooking classes, and game nights, all designed to spark real conversation and laughter. Our culture is rooted in kindness, inclusivity, and the shared goal of finding love the old fashioned way by actually getting to know someone.
Our events typically run about two to three hours, just enough time to relax, enjoy the activity, and have real conversations without feeling rushed or overwhelmed. We plan each event with pacing in mind, so there's a nice mix of structured fun and free time to mingle. It's the perfect amount of time to make a real connection without it taking over your whole day or night.
If you're done with superficial dates and ready to meet people who are just as serious about love as you are, this is your chance. Instant Attraction Affair is more than just a singles group it's a community of locals who believe that meaningful relationships are worth investing in. We create the setting, but you bring the heart. Come join us and see where a simple conversation might lead. You could meet someone special at the very next event.
Upcoming events
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York Online Virtual Speed Dating
Drum Mead, York, GBπ Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in York!
π― Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet York locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from York.
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β¨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! β¨1 attendee
Rotherham Online Virtual Speed Dating
CJ8G+3P Rotherham, Rotherham, GBπ Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in Rotherham!
π― Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet Rotherham locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Rotherham.
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β¨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! β¨1 attendee
Doncaster Online Virtual Speed Dating
61 Hall Villa Ln, Doncaster, GBπ Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in Doncaster!
π― Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet Doncaster locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Doncaster.
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β¨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! β¨1 attendee
Bradford Online Virtual Speed Dating
V763+5R Leeds, Bradford, GBπ Join Us for an Exciting Online Speed Dating Experience in Bradford!
π― Perfect for:- First-timers to speed dating
- Shy individuals who want to meet someone new
- Anyone looking to make meaningful connections
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom
- Location: Online (from the comfort of your home!)
- Host: Friendly & welcoming host to guide you through the event
- Pressure-free: Meet Bradford locals in a relaxed, judgment-free environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Bradford.
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β¨ Don't miss out! Sign up today and find your match! β¨1 attendee