Curiosity as a Superpower: The Questions That Create Thriving Partnerships

During this Intelligent Love Office Hours, we’ll dive into the cultivating and refining a skill and a personality trait that can shape the trajectory of every relationship you’ll ever have: the ability to be curious and to ask great questions.

When you become better at asking questions, you automatically become more interesting—because you’re showing genuine curiosity. At the same time, you also become more interested—because thoughtful questions allow you to become truly invested in the person across from you, whether it’s a first date or a lifelong partner.

But the true magic of this superpower extends beyond conversations with others. When you learn to ask good questions of yourself, you begin to guide your own growth with mindfulness and grace. The right self-directed questions help you keep a glass-more-than-half-full perspective, stay focused on what matters, and gently redirect yourself toward positivity and possibility. In doing so, you not only evolve into a better version of yourself—you also become a stronger, more loving partner.

As a lifetime relationship mentor and elite international matchmaker for more than 20 years, I’ve seen how this single trait can change everything. Curiosity as a superpower; it draws people in, builds trust, and creates the kind of emotional intimacy that divorce-proof marriages are built upon. Whether you’re single and seeking your Forever One, or you’re already in a relationship and want to strengthen the foundation, mastering this skill will give you an edge for the rest of your life.

You’ll Walk Away With:
~ The “Curiosity Superpower Framework”—how to ask questions that build trust, spark attraction, and deepen intimacy.
~ “When to ask what” dating and long-term love: the kinds of questions that uncover compatibility early on versus the kinds that reignite connection and playfulness after years together.
~ How to become instantly more interesting by showing genuine curiosity, and more invested by drawing out what matters most to your partner.
~ The art of self-directed curiosity: the questions you can ask yourself to stay mindful, positive, and growth-oriented—so you keep your glass more than half full and follow through on your goals.
~ A personal toolkit of ready-to-use questions for first dates, tough conversations, and sustaining love over the long haul.

Curiosity isn’t just a skill—it’s a trait that makes you a more attractive and attentive partner. You could say, “It’s the secret ingredient that is the superglue of relationships that thrive over the years.” Join me tonight to discover how to harness it as one of your most impactful superpowers as a partner who is steering your new relationship to its happily-ever-after.

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Whether you are single or currently in a relationship, if becoming your best self as a partner is something that interests you then join your host for the evening Joy Nordenstrom, Relationship Mentor, Private Investigator for Her Clients' Hearts, and Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc. and Intelligent Love LLC, as she guides you through some of her secrets for finding and attracting your most perfect life-partner and then co-creating the best partnership of your life. Near the end of the Office Hours, Joy will field questions from the attendees.

A Note from Joy: After twenty years of studying the psychology, practical wisdom and science of what makes us tick when we're in an interpersonal relationship and through my experience in my own life and by working one-on-one with my clients, I have discovered many impactful steps to making intelligent decisions in the realm of love and dating. By tuning into the Intelligent Love Office Hours, you’ll gain a new lens on who you are as a partner and, if you’re single, how to wisely choose someone who’s a true long-term fit—not just relying on initial chemistry, but guided by a clear vision of how their qualities align with your unique relationship patterns.

And if you're coupled already, you'll discover strategies to spike your "love drugs" and create more ease, harmony and magic memories as you continue to construct new levels of connection in your relationship.

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Thank you in advance for helping make our calls a big success by attending and bringing your good questions and by sharing your “ah-ha’s”!

What to expect?
Informal, informative, fun and interactive time together.

Who is it for?
Anyone who wants to be their personal best as a partner and gain clarity on how to co-create a thriving relationship together.

Feel free to submit questions or topic ideas via a DM that you'd like Joy to cover during future events.

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