Intentional Speed Dating Soiree

Purchase December 18th ticket here:
SOLD OUT

Purchase December 19th ticket here: (No longer available)

**If you prefer etransfer, send $45 to tareamisu@gmail.com with a note that says December 18th

What: Intentional Speed Dating. You can find the schedule and event updates on the facebook event page
https://www.facebook.com/events/723321683047562?ref=newsfeed
When: December 18th 6:30-9:30 pm
**No late arrivals**
Where: The Heart Sanctuary, Lekwungen Territory, Victoria BC, Cadboro Bay. Address will be emailed to all ticket holders.
Who: Wonderful, tender, & wild beings (aka. You), 19+
Why: To get some juicy in person relating & quality time
Come have fun and explore new connections in person. Take a break from screens, dating apps, and conventional dating to experience the delight of the human experience in all its beauty.

Sound scary? Sound exciting? Both? Amazing! All of you are welcome exactly as you are.

Tarea wants you to feel welcomed and safe in all of your excitement and nervousness. In fact, she welcomes your vulnerability hopes you will walk away feeling confident and loved as you are. If you leave with new dating possibilities, what a bonus!

This night is about sprinkling love on your dating desires, your sense of self, and on budding connections.

You are welcomed to step out into the unknown where you can confidently know what you desire and be yourself in dating and relating to humans.

This won't be your typical speed dating, in fact, you will be invited to let go of pressure, performance anxiety, and time (don't worry you can pick it back up when you leave it you want), with the intention of having fun and slowing down into honest and heart opening experiences while dating & relating.

Tarea will infuse energy into the space that feels slow, sultry, nervous system regulating, AS WELL AS, playful, exciting, and intimate.
You will be guided and inspired into thoughtful questions, playful connection practices, and intimacy evoking experiences.

Your host Tarea is a sex, love, and relationship coach who has trained with Layla Martin and specializes in creating safe and playful experiences for people to explore intimacy, connection, and love with deepest permission and authenticity.
She is a trauma-informed coach and will weave in nervous system regulation into the event.

Tarea is passionate about bringing safety and security to your intimate and dating lives.

She will bring her trauma-informed approach with a tantra lens, and her innate wisdom. She will be teaching you a yummy buffet of connecting practice that range from tantra, improv comedy, dance, energy play, eye gazing, and communication games.

This event is open to all orientations and dating preferences, monogamous, poly, straight, and queer. **There will be nametags and color coding stickers to help you know what everyone's dating desires are. You may be paired with someone you are not oriented to at times, remember you can always learn something and find new connections no matter who you are paired with**

Tarea is passionate about creating inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, and pleasure diverse humans as she recognizes there is still a massive lack of safety and belonging for these groups of beings and wants to continue to be humbled and learn how to step up into that role. This community and space is for everyone to feel welcome. Bring your kindness hat.

Your host Tarea: She/her, pan-sexual, burner (someone who goes to burning man), a nature lover, and is passionate about transmuting hate into love and wants you to know that. She feels very safe and comfortable expressing emotions, laughing loud, and being a weird, silly, sacred, badass. She is also a human (most of the time).

Dating & intentional relating is for everyone. There are a few low income tickets available, please reach out to secure one for yourself.

~There will be a tea break halfway to enjoy heart opening and nervous system regulating teas. At the end there will be an optional 20 minute social and movement time~

About this space:
~This is a scent sensitive event. Please don't wear any strong smells. I, as well as others, am highly reactive to scents. Thank you in advance :)
~There will be areas to fill your water.
~You will be sent a form to fill out and instructions to enter the building.

If you want to learn more about your host you can find her on IG @tareaselixir or her website at www.tareaselixir.com

We respectfully acknowledge that we are located on the traditional, unceded territories of the lək̓ʷəŋən peoples, also now known as the Songhees and Esquimalt Nations and W̱SÁNEĆ nations.