A New Perspective
Most of what we learn about intimacy comes from guesswork, myths, or media that doesn't reflect reality. I founded this community group to bridge the gap through ongoing work workshops and discussions. The Art of Confidence Masterclass moves away from the idea of "service" and toward one of mutual pleasure, body language skills, communication mastery, and most importantly, psychological agency. I hope to share my views, but also facilitate a conversation between women on the topic, and answer any questions you bring my way!
What the pilot participants have said:
> "The class was truly eye opening, inclusive, felt safe and was also very fun! I enjoyed all of it."
> "Fun and safe way to engage on a topic women don’t always talk to one another about."
> "Sex positive, female-focused and frank discussion around the power of blow jobs."
> "Very detailed and instructive, whilst also being enjoyable - I felt comfortable enough to talk about it."
Our community focus
The barriers to confidence will vary by person - but by bringing a unique gay male perspective to the table, I provide a deep, appreciative, and "field-research" backed understanding of male anatomy that is often missing from traditional discourse. This isn't just about what to do; it’s about understanding the why and the how behind it. As a group, we focus on the psychological agency to shift the experience into an empowered and erotic choice.
What to Expect: This is a discreet, professional, fun, and educational environment (there is no nudity, or any 'performance' required). I'll break the evening into two sections:
- The Foundation: A deep dive into male anatomy through an erotic and vulnerable lens, coupled with a mindset shift to help you navigate your own agency
- The Playbook: Navigating skills, communication and thinking about how to make it pleasurable for both you and your partner
Who is this for?
Whether you are looking to move from "guessing" to "knowing," or to hear about new techniques or perspectives, our Meetups provide a supportive space & discussion to turn intimacy into a confident, empowered, and erotic choice. This group is specifically tailored for women aged 25-50. Bring a friend, an open mind and be ready to (hopefully) learn something new!
About the facilitator
Joseph is the organizer of Intimacy Insights, and a management consultant by day, and a golfer and baker in his free time. He is a strong believer in good discussion and education on topics surrounding sexuality, and is excited about the opportunity to share his perspectives and support empowerment and enjoyment on all things surrounding the topic!
How to attend
We meet in a private, comfortable setting in Canada Water (SE16). To keep our discussions intimate and safe, we limit every session to a small group of women.
Please get in touch to inquire about securing a spot at the 7th May event.