What we’re about
ABOUT US
Hello Ladies! I’m excited that our group is growing so rapidly and that so many of your are engaging in our events!!
Our common goal is to meet and build real relationships at and outside of our Meetup events. Set a goal to walk away from each event with a few new phone numbers, then actually CALL each other once in a while. Let's build each other up, check in on each other, lean on each other and provide support. Let's move beyond "Lucinda from Meetup" and get to know each other's last names, lives and passions. Are you with me?
I rely on you to recommend a variety of events so that the group becomes and remains interesting to everyone. Will you help me with that??
Join us and invite your girlfriends. Try something new. I can't wait to connect with you!
Your hostess, organizer and new girlfriend,
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040
NO SHOWS AND LAST MINUTE CANCELLATIONS
Our groups is rapidly growing, and most events are filling up quickly. With that in mind, I want to address our growing number of no-shows and last minute cancellations.
Last minute cancellations should be an exception (like your broke your leg and there's a bone sticking out), not a rule. Last minute vacancies often go unfilled, even when there’s a waitlist because ladies have already made other plans. Please only RSVP to events that you are sure you want to attend and keep your RSVPs up-to-date. Do not RSVP before checking your calendar. Do not RSVP if you're waiting to see if something better comes along.
No-shows and last minute cancellations are frustrating and, well...not so mannerly. I ask that you keep in mind the volume of time, energy AND COST (yes, your organizers pay an annual out-of-pocket fee to MeetUp) that goes into planning events for you, including visiting venues, researching events, coordinating reservations and fielding lots of questions from the group. So, trust me, when an event finally rolls around, I’m so ready to enjoy it!! But when you just don't show up, your hostess is most likely worried that you couldn’t find us, couldn’t find parking or you were too nervous to meet a group of strangers. Your hostess then spends time trying to reach you, looking for you on the street, apologizing to the restaurant for the unfilled seats, and checking the her phone to make sure you’re not lost. That makes it virtually impossible for your hostess to enjoy her own event. So please exercise basic common courtesy and etiquette - keep your RSVPs up to date and please CALL your hostess/organizer if you’re cancelling within 24 hours of the event. It's the decent thing to do. Thanks for your understanding and contributions to this amazing tribe of women. ❤️
Upcoming events (4)
See all- Kayaking in Elkhorn Slough in Monterey (Read details - $10 deposit required)Monterey Bay Kayaks, Moss Landing, CA
Ladies,
Please join me for a day of kayaking in Elkhorn Slough! I kayak here a few times each summer and it's a unique and exciting experience every time. I know you're going to love it!About kayaking in Elkhorn Slough:
Elkhorn Slough is generally shallow water and full of sea life. We'll see plenty of sea otters (and maybe some babies), lots of birds and sometimes lots of jelly fish. The water in the slough is relatively calm - more like a slow moving river. We'll be on the water by 9:30ish and come back in around 1 - 1:30pm. Coming back in, we'll likely be paddling against a bit of wind, and it can sometimes be a workout, so be ready for that. In total, we'll be on the water between 3-4 hours.EVENT DETAILS
Who: Us gals...and you're welcome to bring guests, male or female, age 14+.
When: Saturday, july 12th
Where: Monterey Bay Kayaks, 2390 SR-1, Moss Landing, CA (about 32 miles from San Jose)
Departure and Carpooling: For anyone who would like to carpool or follow me down, we'll leave my house at 7:45AM. My house is 3212 Woodmont Drive, SJ. If carpooling, please be prepared to help cover gas and parking for the trip.
Arrival: We need to arrive at Monterey Bay Kayaks at 8:45AM to get in line, complete safety waivers, get our kayaks rented, fitted for life jackets, get through a quick kayaking tuetc. The earlier we get on the water the better.
Parking: I believe parking is $10 per vehicle.
Attire: A life jacket will be provided for you. I usually wear a lightweight jacket and shorts, with a tank top underneath. Wear some sort of water shoes or flip flops. You will get wet and sandy, so bring a towel and dry clothing for the drive home.
Kayaks: There are multiple options but I recommend the following:- Singles: Single sit-on-top kayak which costs $53 per person.
- Doubles: If you're bringing a friend or have arranged to buddy up with another gal, I suggest a sit-on-top double kayak, which costs $45 per person.
What to bring: Hat, sunglasses, sunscreen, bottled water, a snack, towel and dry clothing for the drive home. Bring a Ziplock bag or "dry bag" for your keys, cell phone, snacks, AND bring lunch!!
Food: You'll need water and a snack while we're on the water. After kayaking, we'll change into dry clothing. Restaurants in the area usually have a very long wait on Saturdays, so please bring your own lunch and we'll picnic in the parking lot before we all head home.
Learn more about kayaking in Elkhorn Slough
Cost: $45-$53 for kayak rental and $10 for parking. Yoy’ll pay for you kayak when you arrive.
**Refundable Deposit: there is a refundable $10 reservation fee fir this event. Your $10 will be refunded if and when you arrive before 9 AM for the event. Late arrivals, last-minute cancellations or no-shows forfeit your $10. Please make payment to Lucinda Layton via Venmo:@lucindadalaytonThis will be one the of best adventures you'll have all summer!!
Looking forward to see you on the water,
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040 - Girls Just Wanna Have...Pizza!! Jake's Pizza in Willow Glen (Reg Deposit Req'd)Jake's of Willow Glen, San Jose, CA
Ladies,
Who can say no to a fantastic slice of pizza? (Certainly not me!). Well, August is my birthday month and I plan to kick it off with pizza and friends - and that means you!
Please join me for a night a girlfriends and pizza (or whatever else you'd like to order) at Jake's Pizza in Willow Glen on Tuesday, August 5th. This isn't one of our fancy nights out, girls. Jakes is pretty much a sports bar with really tasty pizza. Read about Jake's here, and see details below.
EVENT DETAILS:
Date: Tuesday, August 5, 2025
Time: 5:30 - 7:30
Location: 1074 Lincoln Ave., San Jose, CA 95125
Who's Invited: Us ladies, and our female guests
Attire: Casual. Very, very casual.
Parking: Parking lot in front of the restaurant or park on the street.
Paying for Dinner: We'll organize ourselves (like 3-4 of us may want to share a pizza) and order/pay at the counter.
Reservation Fee: As with all of our sit down dinners, this event requires a $10 refundable reservation deposit. Your $10 will be refunded to you if you arrive between 5:30 - 5:45pm. If you arrive later than that, cancel the day of the event or don't show up, your $10 will be forfeited. Please send your $10 when you RSVP for this event/
Venmo: @lucindalayton
Zelle: lucinda.layton1@gmail.com
If you need the last 4 digits of my phone: 4040If you're new to the group, it can be tough attending for the first time. But just come - you won't regret it. I'll be sure to introduce you around and we will take great care of you! We LOVE, LOVE, LOVE welcoming new friends to the group!
Warmest regards, your hostess...
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040 - "Table for Eight, Please".....at Cascal, in Mt. ViewCascal, Mountain View, CA
Hola Senioras!
Please join me for a fabulous dinner at one of Mountain View's mainstay restaurants - Cascal. Having just celebrated it's 20 year anniversary, Cascal is where old world meets New World appeal. This vibrant restaurant fusions the savory flavors of Spain with the exotic culture of Latin America. The result is a land of lush cocktails, music and epicurean delights. Did I mention tapas?? What's not to love?
This cozy event is for 8 women only. The first eight women to who RSVP and send the $10 reservation deposit will secure their spot.
EVENT DETAILS
Who: Group members only
What: Cocktails and dinner at Cascal
When: Tuesday, August 19th at 6:30PM
Where: Cascal, 400 Castro St, Mountain View, CA 94041-2008
Attire: Business casual
Parking: Look for street parking or one of the parking structures nearby. Allow 15 minutes for parking.
Payment for dinner: One check. Please bring cash or be prepared to pay your hostess via Venmo/Zelle.
Deposit: As with all of our sitdown dinners, a $10 refundable deposit is required to reserve your spot. If you arrive at this event on time, (before 6:45PM), your $10 will be returned to you. If you arrive after 6:45, cancel within 24 hours before the event or are a "no show", your $10 will be forfeited. Payment is due when you RSVP to this event.
Venmo: @lucindalayton
Zelle: lucinda.layton1@gmail.com
Last 4 digits of my phone number: 4040With just eight friends joining us, this will be a great opportunity for great conversation and learning more about our old and new friends. I hope you'll join us for this fun evening in Mt. View!
Hugs to you...
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040
