What we’re about
ABOUT US
Hello Ladies! I’m excited that our group is growing so rapidly and that so many of your are engaging in our events!!
Our common goal is to meet and build real relationships at and outside of our Meetup events. Set a goal to walk away from each event with a few new phone numbers, then actually CALL each other once in a while. Let's build each other up, check in on each other, lean on each other and provide support. Let's move beyond "Lucinda from Meetup" and get to know each other's last names, lives and passions. Are you with me?
I rely on you to recommend a variety of events so that the group becomes and remains interesting to everyone. Will you help me with that??
Join us and invite your girlfriends. Try something new. I can't wait to connect with you!
Your hostess, organizer and new girlfriend,
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040
NO SHOWS AND LAST MINUTE CANCELLATIONS
Our groups is rapidly growing, and most events are filling up quickly. With that in mind, I want to address our growing number of no-shows and last minute cancellations.
Last minute cancellations should be an exception (like your broke your leg and there's a bone sticking out), not a rule. Last minute vacancies often go unfilled, even when there’s a waitlist because ladies have already made other plans. Please only RSVP to events that you are sure you want to attend and keep your RSVPs up-to-date. Do not RSVP before checking your calendar. Do not RSVP if you're waiting to see if something better comes along.
No-shows and last minute cancellations are frustrating and, well...not so mannerly. I ask that you keep in mind the volume of time, energy AND COST (yes, your organizers pay an annual out-of-pocket fee to MeetUp) that goes into planning events for you, including visiting venues, researching events, coordinating reservations and fielding lots of questions from the group. So, trust me, when an event finally rolls around, I’m so ready to enjoy it!! But when you just don't show up, your hostess is most likely worried that you couldn’t find us, couldn’t find parking or you were too nervous to meet a group of strangers. Your hostess then spends time trying to reach you, looking for you on the street, apologizing to the restaurant for the unfilled seats, and checking the her phone to make sure you’re not lost. That makes it virtually impossible for your hostess to enjoy her own event. So please exercise basic common courtesy and etiquette - keep your RSVPs up to date and please CALL your hostess/organizer if you’re cancelling within 24 hours of the event. It's the decent thing to do. Thanks for your understanding and contributions to this amazing tribe of women. ❤️
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- #NoFascism PROTEST: Hands Across Santa Clara to Redwood City (READ DETAILS!!!)Needs location
Sisters...
It's time to take a stand. On September 1st, please join me and thousands of voices in a peaceful but bold, unified protest against fascism, linking hands and hearts along 17 miles of the El Camino, stretching from Santa Clara to Redwood City.
This is not just a protest - it's a statement of power, unity and hope. Together we will create a visible, undeniable force that says clearly: We will not be silent we will not be divided, and we will not allow fascism to take room in our communities.
Visit details here, but do not register. I've already registered for us.
Bring your flags, signs, lawn chairs, and most importantly bring your friends. Everybody matters, Every voice matters, and every mile matters.
In typical "Ladies" fashion, this event will not be without food, drinks and bevvies. Please bring a small food items to share. I'll bring plates, cups, silverware and bottled water, music and probably a table for our food items,
I'll also bring red bandanas for everyone in our group to wear as a scarf, a headband, a bracelet, or however it suits you. So, consider wearing something that'll look sassy with your red bandana. 😉😉
PLEASE CHECK BACK HERE BEFORE THE EVENT FOR OUR EXACT MEETING LOCATION.
EVENT DETAILS:
Where: We've been assigned a spot 0n the El Camino, between Bernardo and Mary in Sunnyvale. I'll get up there this week to scout a specific location for us - stay tuned.
Who: Everyone. PLEASE bring your friends and family, if you can.
When: We'll meet at 10:45AM and get settled in along the El Camino by 11:00AM.
Bring: A little snack or a few non-alcoholic drinks to share. Bring a sign or a flag, a lawn chair and a friendly smile.
Wear: Comfie shoes and something that'll go with a red bandana.
Refundable Reg Fee: There is a $10 refundable registration fee for this event. Show up by 11:15AM and you get your $10 back. If you cancel the day of, don't show up or are more than 15 minutes late, your $10 will be donated to whomever organizes this protest.
- Venmo: @lucindalayton
- Zelle: lucinda.layton1@gmail.com
- If you need them, the last 4 digits of my phone number are 4040.Thank you! Let's do this, girls!!
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040 - Volunteer Gig - Second Harvest Food Sorting -Second Harvest, San José, CA
Friends,
Did you know Second Harvest Silicon Valley feeds over 500,000 in Silicon Valley every month? Yep, that's whole lot of hungry people, and a whole lot of food.
Some folks tend to think about Second Harvest during the holiday season. But guess what? They need us all year round. Can you spare two hours to sort and pack food with me? I promise you, it's worth it!
This volunteer gig is fast paced with lots of movement and you'll be on your feet for the entire two hours. You might be packing food, sorting food, maybe moving 30 pound boxes, touching lots of veggies, labeling boxes, etc. We'll find a job that works for you, so join us if you can. Afterwards, you'll be a bit tired, but the work is rewarding!
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CLICK HERE TO REGISTER. As of tonight, 7/30/25, this shift needs 11 more volunteers. When the spots are gone, they're gone, so grab your spot tonight! Register as an individual.
Time: Arrive no later than 5:45PM. The shift is from 6pm - 8pm.
Location: Second Harvest Silicon Valley, 4001 N 1st St., San Jose, CA 95134
Gathering Spot: We'll collect in lobby or break room before the shift for a quick safety video. If you can't find me, call me at 408-748-4040! 😉
Attire: Jeans or leggings, closed-toed shoes (preferably athletic shoes), t-shirt and maybe a light jacket. Sometimes the werehouse is a little cool, but you'll definitely warm up as the work begins!
Parking: Out front of SHSV.Hey newbie - this callout is going straight to you (yes, you!!) - join us!!! This is so much fun!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hugs,
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040
