Transgender and Gender Diverse Support

This is a Supportive Place to practice EMDR and EFT Tools together for those identifying as Transgender or Gender Diverse.

There is a requirement to meet with Ly-Lan Lofgren for a quick screening interview.
This is to protect all of those who join the zoom group.
You do not need to sign up on the meetup page, you may simply call, text, or email Ly-Lan.
The dates and time of the group will likely be different from that posted for an added layer of protection. And there will be an option for monthly meetings, with or without moderator support.
After a group agreed-upon time and date are established, and after each person has been screened for safety and appropriateness, you will receive a Stripe link for payment before the group date.

Group Structure Suggestion:
We will have a brief check-in (we feel safer once we've been introduced to everyone in the room)
Then we will have guided EMDR and EFT tapping practices.
And the remainer of the time might be used to socialize, network, and discuss currently available safe resources.

This is not therapy. Trauma and Distress are real and deserve space for healing. They are acknowledged. However, this meetup group will not be a place to discuss details of trauma.

Please sign up by calling, texting or emailing Ly-Lan, or here on this event page, if that feels acceptable to you.
805-762-4598
Ly-Lan@LofgrenTherapy.com

Ly-Lan Lofgren, LCSW
I had served for Tranz Central Coast for 9 years as the therapist for transgender groups, partners of transgender people, and parents of transgender children. I provided trainings for therapists, schools and human service agencies on competency in serving transgender consumers. And I served as the director of youth services at our county's Pride and Diversity Center. Through the years, I have accepted many new terms, however my most affirming identity has always been "queer."

Return To Connect Groups Agreements:
By joining the zoom session, you agree:
1️⃣ No recording of any kind. This is a confidential space. For replay needs, use public videos.
2️⃣ Respect only. No advice, criticism, or suggestions. We practice gratitude and kindness.
3️⃣ No communication for sales, sex, recruiting or unsolicited help. Only peer support.
Any violation will be reported immediately—no exceptions.
Thank you for honoring this safe space.
Everyone is welcome with these group agreements.
Disclaimer: this is not therapy, participate within your own limits.

FAQ:
*What are EMDR and EFT?
Please review these videos for information.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAclBdj20ZU
https://flashtechnique.com/wp/

*Who is Ly-Lan?
Psychology Today Profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/862226
Insta: ReturnToConnect https://www.instagram.com/returntoconnect/
I have been a gender queer activist since I was a teen, initially, not by choice.

* Does Ly-Lan accept Insurance as a therapist?
No.

*How can I best support this community?
Thanks for showing up in any capacity. You have done enough.
...And sharing this practice with people in your life, to keep yourself and them in a healthy habit routine (like flossing teeth).
...And if you would like to leave typed feedback, with your own words, that is also very helpful.
...And if you would like to contribute, any amount, that is very much appreciated. Venmo information will be listed in the zoom chat. You are very welcome to participate without financial contribution.