What we’re about
It's very hard to make friends as an adult. Never mind making good quality friends. So if you are being crippled with loneliness and boredom this is the group for you.
Although this group is primarily based in the actual city of Boston, I will be hosting events outside of the city as well, and all across the state of Massachusetts.
I was born, raised, and currently live In the city of Boston. I have explored much of Massachusetts, and I am always impressed with how much this state has to offer. Although Boston is what attracts most people, Massachusetts has some great beaches, nature reservations, amusement parks, bars/restaurants, concert venues, and overall entertainment places.
So that there is complete transparency here are the Rules of the group:
- This group is strictly for those between the ages of 21 to 49. Absolutely no exceptions. I say this because some events I host will involve alcohol 🍸 No one is required to drink at any of the events I host.
- This group is primarily for making new friends. It is not a matchmaking or hook up service. However, if chemistry happens naturally, I am more than okay with it. The official "asking people out policy," for lack of a better term, is the following: it's okay to ask people out. But if the person says no, please take no for an answer and do not ask again. Asking people more than once, after being told no is harassment. Anyone who experiences this and cannot solve it themselves needs to report this to me and I will gladly help you take care of it on an individual case by case basis.
- I take matters of consent very seriously. With that being said please respect mine, and other people's, physical/emotional boundaries. Even if it's done in a friendly way, do not touch people without their consent. If you are unsure if someone wants to be touched, ask. If you are experiencing unwanted touch and you are unsure about whether you're ok with it, here is a general rule to follow on the matter, "if it's a maybe, then it's a no." If you are experiencing unwanted touch and cannot resolve it yourself, please come to me and I will help you resolve it on an individual case by case basis.
- Although I expect everyone to solve whatever problems they have with another person by themselves, there is a zero tolerance policy for bullying and disrespectful behavior of any kind. If you cannot solve the problem by yourself, please reach out to me and I will be a mediator as needed. So once again everything will be dealt with on an individual case by case basis.
- Please keep your RSVPs up to date. 3 no-shows will result in removal/ban from this group. Last minute cancelations made after 7:00 A.M. the day of the event, without communication or a valid reason, will count as a no show. If you plan on attending, for mine and everyone else's safety, please actually RSVP if you are attending, even if it's last minute, but please communicate if it's last minute.
- Please have a clear photo of yourself and use your legal name (at least your first name). I understand the need for privacy. However, this is for mine and everyone else's safety. This is unnegotiable.
With all this being said I look forward to seeing everyone at the meetups.
Liability Waiver: I am a volunteer. You are responsible for your own safety and enjoyment.