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Make new friends & authentic connections in Christchurch!

Making friends as an adult can be tricky. Life gets busy, people move away, and it’s not always easy to find those real, meaningful connections.

This group is for people seeking genuine connections. Whether you're new to the city or went to school here, we welcome you to join us at our events and participate in our community.

Let's start making meaningful connections in Christchurch!

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  • Roll for Romance (AGE 25-39) CHCH

    Roll for Romance (AGE 25-39) CHCH

    Cashmere Club, 50 Colombo St, Christchurch, NZ

    Speed dating…but make it actually fun.
    If you’ve ever sat through an awkward first date or cringed your way through small talk, this one’s for you.
    We’re swapping interview-style dating for games, laughter, and effortless connection. No board game experience needed, just show up, grab a drink (first one’s on us 😉), and let the games do the talking.

    Book Here

    What to Expect:

    🎲 Five fun, easy games - think Giant Jenga, party classics & quick rounds (no Monopoly marathons here!)

    💬 Rotating mixed-gender groups. You'll stick with your same-gendered group, and rotate around to meet everyone of the opposite gender.

    📩 Matchmaking follow-up—you tell us who you clicked with, and we’ll connect you afterwards.

    💡 90**% of attendees at our last event made a connection.** But worst case? You just had a great night out with fun people.

    We manage the gender ratio for these events. If your gender is showing as sold out, join the waitlist!
    You'll get a notification if there are cancellations or if additional tickets are released.

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    "Great location, the hosts were very nice, explained the games and made everything nice and easy. Very well organised so thank you for setting up a great evening."

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    "I just got out of a relationship and wasn’t sure I was ‘ready’ for dating. But this didn’t feel like a dating event, just a good time with a lovely group of humans. No regrets."

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    "Hosts were lovely and very welcoming approachable and helpful."

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    "Tbh I nearly bailed on this, wasn’t sure about the 'board games' part, but actually was really fun. def coming again.

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    "It was a terrific venue, a very fun time, great beer. Fun games. Awesome to meet new people "

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    "I was worried it’d be weird or forced, but nah. Chill as. easy convos and a really fun night. Just book the ticket, you won’t regret it."

    Recently featured on The Spinoff. Check out Comedians Bryn and Ku’s experience at one of our events here [Video]

    Recommended age 25-39

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    Not your vibe? Check out our other upcoming events on our website!
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  • Gen X (40-55) Speed Dating

    Gen X (40-55) Speed Dating

    The Cashmere Club, 50 Colombo Street, Christchurch, NZ

    *To manage the gender balance, we release tickets in batches. If tickets for your gender are sold out, join the waitlist and you'll get an email when more tickets for your gender are released!

    Speed Dating for Kiwis who remember when telephones had cords!

    Book Here.

    We're super excited to share this event with you. Here's what to expect:

    Arrive and get comfortable:
    Doors open 6.45 pm. Our friendly host will welcome you and check you in. We'll give you a number, and invite you in. The first drink from the bar is on us. Mingle, or relax by yourself for a short time before the event begins.

    Dive straight into the action:

    • Engaging One-on-one conversations: For this event, we've scrapped the usual icebreakers to instead give you a full 6 minutes with each date! You'll be given a scorecard, as well as a notepad and pen to take note of who you want to see again!
    • Stuck for words? Don't sweat it! Each table is equipped with a set of witty and thought-provoking cue cards, designed to ignite deeper conversations and a few laughs along the way. So, if conversation stalls or you just want to mix it up with a new topic, simply draw a card to get things moving smoothly again.

    As you go, take note of who you want to see again.
    After the event, you will select your matches, and we will let you know your mutual matches.

    Why Attend?

    • Expand Your Social Circle: This is a fantastic opportunity to meet and mingle with others in your age group who are also looking to expand their social networks.
    • Meet Your Match: Whether you’re looking for friendship, companionship, or something more, our event provides the perfect platform to meet like-minded individuals.
    • Not Just Romance: This event is designed to foster connections of all kinds. You might meet your future best friend, a business partner, or discover a new hobby.

    Tickets:

    • Limited Availability: Secure your spot early as tickets are limited!
    • Ticket Price: $50 – includes entry to the event, nibbles, a complimentary alcoholic/non-alcoholic drink on arrival, and a night full of laughter and connections.

    These events are always a blast, and tickets sell out fast, so do check how many are left & reserve your spot now to avoid disappointment!

    Book Here.

    Not your cup of tea? Check out our other upcoming events on our website!
    By purchasing a ticket you agree to our Privacy Policy & Terms & Conditions.

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