What we’re about
We’re a bunch of open-minded, curious humans who love bringing people together in fun and meaningful ways. 🎈
We create playful, out-of-the-box social experiences that spark curiosity, creativity, and authentic connection. 🚀
Our most popular event series, F*ck the Small Talk, has traveled the world—from Berlin, London, and Buenos Aires to Edinburgh, Malta, Iceland, and now Madrid! 🇪🇸
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The Circle: Cacao Ceremony
Location not specified yet🎟️ Purchase your ticket here.
An intimate circle as a modern ritual to slow down, speak our truth, and remember our shared humanity.
## What are Soul Salons?
Self Salons are soulful gatherings for curious minds, seekers, sensitives, and visionaries who long for depth and real connection. For those who believe more is possible. Who know that all real change begins within.
## 👉🏼 What is "The Circle"?
Since the beginning of time, humans have gathered in circles... around fires, under trees, in temples and living rooms... to speak, to listen, and to remember who we are.
Native American talking circles used the fire as witness, where each voice carried the same weight. In African palavers, resolved conflict and restore harmony through dialogue. Even in Ancient Greece, philosophers sat in circular forums to reflect, debate, and seek truth.
It is one of humanity’s oldest technologies. A space to share from the heart and to be witnessed without interruption or judgment. A place where listening becomes an act of love and being heard becomes medicine.
From there, we move through stories, silence, insights, and emotions, taking turns talking around the circle and allowing it to unfold.
Every edition explores a different theme, allowing new perspectives and emotions to emerge each time.## In This Edition: Cacao Ceremony
Samantha and Lis will be leading you into the heart. Cacao is a sacred plant that softens the mind and awakens the heart; an invitation to slow down, feel, and reconnect with yourself and each other.
This is a heart-opening gathering with pure ceremonial cacao. Guided by Samantha and Lis, we’ll drink cacao, share, and move honoring the ancient medicine of cacao and the timeless power of women coming together in circle.
## 👀 What's Included
- A 2.5-hour intimate gathering
- Ceremonial grade Cacao from Kaicao
- A talking-circle format inspired by ancient traditions
- Space to listen, share, and be witnessed in truth
- All ticket fees go toward hosting costs & keeping these experiences going
## Who is it for
For humans who crave these circles, who crave depth, sharing, and a different kind of human connection.
For those who believe that wisdom lives in community, and that healing begins when we listen... truly listen and come together intentionally.## 🚀 How to join
This gathering is approval-only to preserve the intimate and intentional vibe. Also - because this is approval-based. Even if you put your credit card details, if you are not a good fit for the class based on your answers, you will not be charged.
## 📍Where is it?
This gathering takes place in a cozy living room near Metro Colombia(Madrid), in a beautiful book-filled home with candles, cushions, and quiet magic.
## 🙇🏻♀️ Your Hosts: Samantha and Lis
Samantha is the founder of The Self Academy, a modern wisdom school dedicated to reimagining how we learn, lead, and connect. She has spent her life studying the human experience through philosophy, psychology, poetry, and the art of honest conversation. You can follow her here.
Lis Suppo is Medium and Spiritual Life Coach. Her gift in life is to help you connect to your higher self and life purpose so you can live the most beautiful, fulfilling life. You can follow her here.
🎟️ Purchase your ticket here.
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🍁 F*ck the Small Talk #3
Calle Goya , Calle Goya esquina calle Serrano, Madrid, ES🎟️ Sign up here to grab your ticket 🎟️
F*ck the Small Talk has traveled the world from Berlin, Melbourne, London, Lisbon, to Buenos Aires, and is now in Madrid for the first time! 😎
📦 WHAT'S THIS ABOUT?
FTST is an out-of-the-box social experience where strangers come together for an afternoon of meaningful, fun, and deep conversation. It’s also a different & cool way of meeting new people by getting a bit out of your comfort zone and skipping the small talk!
Join us for games, talks, and connections with friends you haven’t met yet. Join if you get annoyed after being asked what you do, where you are from, and how long you've been in Madrid every single time you meet someone. If you feel that there are better questions in life, this is the place for you. 🙌
📓 HOW DOES IT WORK?
We start with a short & sweet intro talk followed by a few light-hearted group games to warm up. After that, we split you up into small groups and start with the conversation rounds (with 3-4 people). We'll have awesome question cards that will guide the flow of the conversation. You'll be guided by an experienced host who'll make sure everything goes smoothly. 🍭
🕹 HOW TO JOIN?
Our events are limited to 30 handpicked guests to ensure a cozy atmosphere. Confirm your spot on the link above to make it happen! We prioritize a balance of gender and age. If you're invited you'll receive a confirmation within 48 hours via Luma (our ticketing platform)
NOTE: We won't validate your payment unless you've been accepted! (which you most likely will ❤️)
Sold out or can't make it? Drop us your email and we'll keep you in the loop for the next one! 😎
🧧 HOW MUCH IS IT?
The cost to attend is 18€ (early bird) or 22€ (general), and includes the following:
⏰ 2.5 hours of facilitated and curated activities
🧀 One drink to keep the energy going
🙌🏽 Access to the Llamas in Madrid WhatsApp community
👥 A space to meet new people in the least boring way possible
💛 Supporting our mission to spread human connection events around the world
(🎫 also includes those annoying ticket fees!)🌳 WHERE IS IT?
We host our events in awesome bars & parks across the city. We only reveal the location upon confirmation. This event will take place in Salamanca.
💛 WHAT THEY SAY
🗣 “This is the kind of activity humanity needs every weekend. Thank you for all.” - Sonya
🗣 “F*ck the Small Talk changes the narrative from "Where are you from?" to "When was the last time you laughed uncontrollably?" and I think that's beautiful.” - Monika
🗣 "It’s a wonderful experience, it’s like being a kid again, when you were at the park, playing with other kids, and just decided you were going to be best friends for the next hours. Maybe you’ll never see those kids again. But that hour was amazing because you both opened up and trusted each other." - Sara
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🤓 FAQ
• Can I come alone?
Of course, we encourage it :)• Can I be late?
Please don't! Late arrivals will disrupt the floooooooow.• I signed up but never got an invite. Why?
We usually get a high volume of sign-ups yet we like to keep it cozy & only invite around 30 people. Please try again next time if you do not receive an invite - no hard feelings 💛• Why do you charge?
We value our time and put a lot of love, planning, and effort into creating & designing these experiences. ♥️ This is our project/business and what we give to the world and we think everything should be a fair exchange! 🎈 However, money should never be the reason for people not to attend. If you can’t afford it send us a message!• Is this a networking or dating event?
Nope! Think of us as the anti-networking and anti-speed dating event. There’s no pressure, no pitches, and no cringy icebreakers. Instead, we create spaces where strangers can connect through fun & meaningful conversations. It’s all about authentic connection—no business cards or romantic expectations required. (doesn’t mean it can’t happen—it’s just not the intention!)𝘾𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨, 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙. ✨
* Location is only revealed to ticket holders!
🙅♀️📱This event is a no-phone experience. 🙅♀️📱We started in Berlin back in 2019 out of the frustration of being asked 'Where are you from?' multiple times at every single meetup! Now there are chapters in 20 cities, including Berlin, Lisbon, Buenos Aires, Zurich, and London! 🗺️
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