What we’re about
Hi, my name is Amanda and I'm currently in a pathway of men's decentralisation which can be a bit lonely sometimes, so I've decided to create this group for women's seeking to support at this moment.
What does decentralisation of men mean?
First of all, this will never be a HATE group.
“We live in a society that deems women’s worth in relation to their proximity to men.
This is uncontested.
Women’s worth and being considered a ‘good’ woman is placed on a woman’s ability to attract men, keep them, and be able to stick it out irrespective of a bad situation (this is still noticeable in many cultures even today).”
https://medium.com/modern-women/ladies-heres-why-we-should-decentralise-men-48f7f102e267
This group is aim to empower women to keep their high standards and enjoy life without making ''getting married'' a goal in life (and if it happens, making sure you will not sacrifice who you are)
I'm not a specialist in relationships and I have no interest in this group having a hierarchy, so everyone is more than welcome to share ideas, and we can make a democratic space.
My suggestion are:
1- Organise an initial group meeting online, so we can write down ideas about the group and talk more about the subject and how it affects our life as women.
2-Make a telegram or WhatsApp group to share contents about the subject.
3-Make social events like: book club, cinema, museum visits, dance class, or any other activities that will help us stay away from shit dates.
4-Help each other identify abusive behaviour and support without judgement, decentralisation can be also for people in a relationship that feels codependent and lost the sense of itself.
I'm open for feedback and corrections in case someone knows more about the subject. As I said, I don't want to feel like a leader.
Shall we make it work?
Links with more informations about what decentering men means:
https://floesie.substack.com/p/the-journey-of-decentralizing-men
https://womenthrivemagazine.com/heres-how-decentering-men-is-positively-changing-my-life/
https://www.tiktok.com/@talialichtstein/video/7197144719015660806?lang=en