Waitlist: Gay Matchmaking Mixer

This gay mixer is designed for gay men from all walks of life. It doesn't matter if you are single, in a relationship, exploring an open relationship, looking for friends, or seeking a partner — this is an opportunity to meet people, find someone compatible, and/or grow your capacity to accept otherness. Three personalized Love lessons is included for each individual. (Birth day month and year is required.)

Event Date & Logistics

Date: April 12, 2026 @12:00pm

Location: Near Union Square (Exact address shared with confirmed attendees)

This event will take place once:

• 30 people join the waitlist, and

• At least 10 Masculine vibe and 10 Feminine vibe reply “yes” to the confirmation email sent one week before the event.

If these requirements are not met, the event will automatically move to the another date of the following month.

Safety Disclaimer

All events take place in public spaces such as cafés, food courts, malls, and other well-trafficked locations to ensure a safe and comfortable experience for everyone.

Event Timing & Flow

The event begins promptly at 12:00 PM.

I will personally be present for the first 15 min to welcome participants, answer questions, give name tag and provide a brief orientation.

If you arrive after that time, self-guided instructions will be available on-site so you can easily follow along. Other singles who are already present are also encouraged to greet new arrivals warmly and be attentive and supportive in helping them get settled and understand how the activities work.

The structure is designed to be simple, welcoming, and easy to join at any time — ensuring that everyone, lgbt or not, feels included and comfortable.

Challenges & Guides

Each date includes optional challenges and guided questions designed to help you explore meaningful topics and discover multiple facets of your match. These activities promote authentic connection and personal growth.

Every participant receives a Dating Guide and Challenge Set for Dates 1 through 3.

Event Guidelines:

• Masculine vibe and Feminine vibe will receive separate guidelines, 1 - 4 min read.

• Masculine vibe: Optional challenges will be provided. You can simply engage and talk to people, or invite feminine vibe to participate in challenges, which may increase attraction. You decide whether to continue with a Date 1, Date 2, or Date 3 challenge with a specific partner.

• Feminine Vibe: You can choose to accept or reject any date invitations.

If I have time, I will also provide extra insights about everyone’s dating pet peeves to keep the vibe aflow. For example, some people are turned off by anxious or panicky behaviors, some prefer someone who seems competent/successful. Some prefer hinting over directness. Some prefer no competition, any sign of competition they would yield. I gather this information for you from birthdate.

Even if you’re completely new to dating or haven’t been on a date in a long time, these guides will help you ease in with confidence. The challenges bring you closer to your match, while the guide provides essential insights to help you navigate the modern dating scene. With consistent practice, you’ll naturally become more comfortable expressing yourself and building genuine connections.

After completed Date 1 and Date 2 with the same person.

Date 3: Accept Us Across All Parallel Realities

During the third date, you will ask your partner about your personalized love lessons in life. You will not be allowed to look at your own personalized love lessons during the event. You will only learn about them by asking your third date partner (a smartphone is required).

Your third date will also ask you about their three personalized love lessons, and you will share what you see about them.

You can both discuss and share your stories, be vulnerable, and learn about each other's weaknesses, struggles, and best potential in love across all parallel realities.

You will explore:

• The three major love lessons in your life, personalized to you, everyone has unique lessons.

• Your immature version and your best version in love across all parallel realities

You will learn and honestly discuss where each of you is right now.

Accept where each other is at.

Shifting realities can come later.

Assuming the best in each other often supports the other person in becoming their best version. At the same time, it is important to see clearly, be honest, and truly accept where each person is right now.

Finally, you may talk about the future together—whether that future includes each other or whether you will continue to grow separately.

At the end, you may exchange contact information—you don’t have to.

All challenges are approachable, while the questions encourage meaningful conversations — an essential part of building compatibility.

After Your First Date

After the first date, your match may or may not wish to continue to a second date — and that’s perfectly okay.

If rejection is failure, then what does that failure really mean? It means you can’t have something — a connection you never had to begin with. So how much of a failure can you truly be as of now?

What You’ll Learn

Each date guide teaches valuable relationship and communication skills.

For example:

You already know how to say “I love you” or “I like you,” but can you express it in a way that helps you feel loved in return?

Do you know how to show gratitude in a way that makes others naturally attuned to your needs and inspired to meet them?

The Matchmaking Process

Matches are made based on birthdate compatibility, pairing you with someone who shares natural chemistry.

This event includes chemistry matchmaking process and three challenges at the moment.

So Path A only.

Path A: Experience-Focused / Live-in-the-Moment

For singles who prefer to follow a natural flow and enjoy connection as it unfolds — with ease, fun, and presence. No pressure to go deep. Come as you are, enjoy the energy, and follow what feels good to you.

You prioritize:

• Comfort

• Authentic vibes

• Living in the moment

• Letting things unfold organically

Path B: Growth-Oriented / Intention-Driven (work in progres)

For singles who enjoy exploring deeper emotional connection, vulnerability, and conscious love. These challenges allow one to learn love, see love, and to give and receive love. (Work in progress)

You value:

• Personal growth

• Emotional openness

• Expanding your capacity to love and receive love

• Going beyond comfort zones when it feels right

The Five Challenges

• Do You See Me

• Open Mind x Heart

• Accept Us Across All Parallel Universes / Realities

• I Want It That Way (Trigger Happy)

• Extreme Love and Desire

Chemistry Matchmaking will be provided to help connect you with someone who has natural chemistry with you. You will be given 2–3 matches at the beginng of this event, and they will be listed on the attendance sheet for everyone to see. This is a rare opportunity to meet people and find someone compatible. (Birth month/date/year is required)

Recommendation

• Path A: Focus on Challenges 1–3 for connection, ease, and chemistry exploration.

• Path B: Explore all 5 challenges if you're excited about deeper connection and relational growth.

Reflection Questions After Each Date

After Date 1

Do you feel strong enough chemistry to be curious and interested in getting to know your match more?

After Date 2

Do you feel a strong enough connection to look beyond their façade?

After Date 3 (For Path B only)

Do you feel more love than friendship and feel ready to look into your own wounds and release triggers?

After Date 4 (For Path B only)

Do you feel ready to continue releasing and relieving wounds so you can receive love and see love more clearly?

After Date 5 (For Path B only)

Do you feel in love with your match, and able to give love, grow, and be the best version of yourself together?

***This event page serves as a waitlist for anyone interested in attending. The official attendance list will be created one week before the event.

One week prior to the event, I will email everyone on the waitlist.

If you would like to attend, you must reply to that email with a “yes,” your name or alias, birthdaye and your gender in order to be added to the official attendance list. Once confirmed, I will send the exact event address to attendees only.

When you reply, please include:

• Your name or alias
• Your Vibe: Masculine vibe or Feminine vibe.
Masculine Vibe gets Challenge and Feminine Vibe gets Dating guide.
• Your birth month, day, and year
• Your bedroom preference (Top, Bottom, Vers, or Side)
• The preference you're seeking in a partner (Top, Bottom, Vers, or Side)

Emails will be sent one week before the event. No information is required from you while on the waitlist.

Message my meetup inbox or

Email denimadoniasho@gmail.com

Call/text: 419-487-3413

Any event location suggestion or event ideas, assistance or collaboration, you can get in contact with me.