Waitlist: Lesbian Matchmaking Mixer

This lesbian mixer is designed for women from all walks of life. It doesn't matter if you are single, in a relationship, exploring an open relationship, looking for friends, or seeking a partner — this is an opportunity to meet people, find someone compatible, and/or grow your capacity to accept otherness.

Event Date & Logistics
Date: January 3, 2026 @1:00pm
Location: Near Madison Square Garden (Exact address shared with confirmed attendees)
This event will take place once:

• 26 people join the waitlist, and
• At least 14 people reply “yes” to the confirmation email sent two days before the event.

If these requirements are not met, the event will automatically move to the first Saturday of the following month.

Safety Disclaimer
All events take place in public spaces such as cafés, food courts, malls, and other well-trafficked locations to ensure a safe and comfortable experience for everyone.

Event Timing & Flow
The event begins promptly at 1:00 PM.
I will personally be present for the first 15–30 minutes to welcome participants, answer questions, and provide a brief orientation.
After all the matchmaking work that went into organizing this event, I think I’ve earned the chance to enjoy the vicinity. However, my phone and email will remain open for any immediate questions or support throughout the event.

If you arrive after that time, self-guided instructions will be available on-site so you can easily follow along. Other singles who are already present are also encouraged to greet new arrivals warmly and be attentive and supportive in helping them get settled and understand how the activities work.

The structure is designed to be simple, welcoming, and easy to join at any time — ensuring that everyone, LGBT or not, feels included and comfortable.

Challenges & Guides
Each date includes optional challenges and guided questions designed to help you explore meaningful topics and discover multiple facets of your match. These activities promote authentic connection and personal growth.

Every participant receives a Dating Guide and Challenge Set for Dates 1 through 5.

Even if you’re completely new to dating or haven’t been on a date in a long time, these guides will help you ease in with confidence. The challenges bring you closer to your match, while the guide provides essential insights to help you navigate the modern dating scene. With consistent practice, you’ll naturally become more comfortable expressing yourself and building genuine connections.

Sample Date 1 Focus: Posture · Questions to Ask · Societal Standards vs. Personal Growth-Based Standards

Sample Date 2 Challenge: Discuss a light, thought-provoking topic or complete a simple shared task together.

All challenges are approachable, while the questions encourage meaningful conversations — an essential part of building compatibility.

Both saying yes to the same person for the 3rd date, you would finally get to explore your own creative activities at the location. Make it your own experience!

After Your First Date
After the first date, your match may or may not wish to continue to a second date — and that’s perfectly okay.
If rejection is failure, then what does that failure really mean? It means you can’t have something — a connection you never had to begin with. So how much of a failure can you truly be as of now?

What You’ll Learn
Each date guide teaches valuable relationship and communication skills.

For example:
You already know how to say “I love you” or “I like you,” but can you express it in a way that helps you feel loved in return?
Do you know how to show gratitude in a way that makes others naturally attuned to your needs and inspired to meet them?

The Matchmaking Process
Matches are made based on birthdate compatibility, pairing you with someone who shares natural chemistry.

If you prefer not to be matched, you dont have to provide birthdate information. You’re welcome to choose your own date during the event.

This event includes chemistry matchmaking process and five experience-based challenges designed for two styles of participants — and you get to choose your approach.

Path A: Experience-Focused / Live-in-the-Moment
For women who prefer to follow a natural flow and enjoy connection as it unfolds — with ease, fun, and presence. No pressure to go deep. Come as you are, enjoy the energy, and follow what feels good to you.

You prioritize:
• Comfort
• Authentic vibes
• Living in the moment
• Letting things unfold organically

Path B: Growth-Oriented / Intention-Driven
For women who enjoy exploring deeper emotional connection, vulnerability, and conscious love. These challenges allow one to learn love, see love, and to give and receive love.

You value:
• Personal growth
• Emotional openness
• Expanding your capacity to love and receive love
• Going beyond comfort zones when it feels right

The Five Challenges
• Do You See Me
• Open Mind x Heart
• Accept Us Across All Parallel Universes / Realities
• I Want It That Way (Trigger Happy)
• Extreme Love and Desire

Chemistry Matchmaking will be provided to help connect you with someone who has natural chemistry with you. You will be given 2–3 matches at the beginng of this event, and they will be listed on the attendance sheet for everyone to see. This is a rare opportunity to meet people and find someone compatible. (Birth month/date/year is required)

Recommendation
• Path A: Focus on Challenges 1–3 for connection, ease, and chemistry exploration.

• Path B: Explore all 5 challenges if you're excited about deeper connection and relational growth.

Reflection Questions After Each Date
After Date 1
Privately text your answer:
Do you feel strong enough chemistry to be curious and interested in getting to know your match more?

After Date 2
Privately text your answer:
Do you feel a strong enough connection to look beyond their façade?

After Date 3 (For Path B only)
Privately text your answer:
Do you feel more love than friendship and feel ready to look into your own wounds and release triggers?

After Date 4 (For Path B only)
Privately text your answer:
Do you feel ready to continue releasing and relieving wounds so you can receive love and see love more clearly?

After Date 5 (For Path B only)
Privately text your answer:
Do you feel in love with your match, and able to give love, grow, and be the best version of yourself together?

Bottom Line
Come for fun
Connect how you want
Go deep only if it feels right
No pressure — just possibility

***This event page serves as a waitlist for anyone interested in attending. The official attendance list will be created two days before the event.

Two days prior to the event, I will email everyone on the waitlist.
If you would like to attend, you must reply to that email with a “yes,” your name or alias, and your preference in order to be added to the official attendance list. Once confirmed, I will send the exact event address to attendees only.

Everyone’s preference will be listed on the attendance sheet, which all attendees will be able to see.

When you reply, please include:
• Your name or alias
• Your birth month, day, and year
• Your Energy (Masculine, Balanced, Feminine, or Doesnt Matter)
• The Energy preference you're seeking in a partner (Masculine, Balanced, Feminine, or Doesnt Matter)

Emails will be sent two days before the event. No information is required from you while on the waitlist.

Message my meetup inbox or
Email denimadoniasho@gmail.com
Call/text: 419-487-3413