Free/$49.00 Straight Mixer for couples and singles

To those who come across my event page:

It is safe to discover, safe to love.

There are still so many parts of yourself that you have yet to meet. You can discover many of those parts through me, through our connection, and through other meaningful connections in your life — as long as you are willing to overcome whatever is holding you back.

There are many unfulfilled desires in your life that make you look at others and wonder, “Why can’t I have that too?” But your belief in yourself can help you overcome fear and step into uncharted territory.

You can have the things you think you cannot have, as long as you are willing to face your fears and obstacles. There is so much unexplored territory within yourself. There is tremendous potential for growth.

You can conquer any inner beast or inner demon that is keeping you from truly having what you want.

Whatever you are longing for, whatever you deeply desire — what is holding you back is within yourself.

You may take life or certain situations too seriously to the point where you hold yourself back because you are afraid of messing things up or looking foolish. Sometimes your mind overanalyzes everything, and you avoid certain relationships or connections altogether just to avoid pain or heartbreak.

But life is not black and white. Hurt, vulnerability, love, and disappointment are all part of the human experience. Sometimes we hurt others, and sometimes others hurt us too.

The message here is simple: go after what you want and desire regardless of fear or ego holding you back.

Dive fully into life. Explore the beautiful parts and the messy parts. Take off the mask and allow yourself to feel the full range of emotions that connection brings. It deepens the bond, but it also takes tremendous bravery.

Deep inside, part of you may believe you are not capable of having the love or life you truly want. But regardless of the outcome, every experience brings you closer to yourself — closer to who you truly are and what you are truly capable of.

Your true strength lies in having compassion for yourself and for others, and in learning from experience. Many times, ego gets in the way. Ego tells us we already know everything and should never look foolish. But when we see ourselves as students of life, we remain open to growth. Ego is often what keeps us from diving fully into connection.

Many people struggle to surrender because of past pain. But there is so much beauty and wisdom on the other side of that fear.

Be humble enough to allow yourself to experience life fully.

Follow your heart regardless of what fear, doubt, or outside voices try to tell you. Your heart is leading you somewhere, but you must be the one to choose.

You may feel undecided even when the answer feels clear deep down. There is often so much self-judgment and self-criticism. Have more faith in yourself. Have more faith in the universe.

If you feel drawn toward something, there is usually a reason. Attraction is not always something to fear. Sometimes avoiding what you desire comes from distrusting yourself and your own judgment.

Yes, you may have been hurt before. But you did not leave those experiences empty-handed. There was wisdom in them. There was growth in them. It does not mean your future will always repeat the past.

Have more faith in yourself, in what you want, and in the universe.

Sometimes you plant a seed and must allow it time to grow. You cannot constantly micromanage the process or check on it every few seconds. You need to trust that things are unfolding. Trust your intuition. If you want something better, you must be willing to embrace change.

Yes, you have experienced painful things before — sadness, anger, frustration, heartbreak. But you have also experienced love, joy, tenderness, and connection. Sometimes you become so focused on the painful side that you begin to lose faith and hold yourself back instead of embracing life and connection fully.

Allow yourself to experience the deepest parts of love. The universe is not simply here to hurt you or work against you. There is far more to life than suffering.

Challenge the old conditioning of your mind.

You already have the resources within yourself to live fearlessly and express yourself honestly. The best possible outcomes are available to you, and much of that comes through communication, truth, vulnerability, and trust.

There is a reason you are here. There is something you are meant to experience and explore.

Many people regret the things they never did more than the things they did. The “what ifs” stay with us.

You may be focusing too much on where you want things to be instead of allowing life to unfold naturally. Release control. Too much attachment and desperation can create a mindset of lack.

Focus on yourself, your life, and the changes you want to make. Desire alone is not enough — action matters too.

And if there is something you cannot control right now, then focus on creating the best life possible for yourself.

Stop comparing your journey to other people’s experiences. There is no single right or wrong way to live. We all come here for our own unique experiences. We are different for a reason, yet many people spend their lives believing something is wrong with them simply because they are different.

Create the life you deserve. Take action toward what your heart is calling you to do. And if you are already building that life, then practice gratitude for how far you have come.

This workshop and practice date are meant to help you become the best version of yourself, so that when the right person enters your life, you will be ready for the union you truly deserve.

It's free and safe environment to socialize and talk to others about love and dating experience in nyc.

It's optional, I also offer love workshop and practice dates for 49.00 USD per person, you can pair among yourself or I pair for you.

Address 859 9th Avenue @1:14pm on June 6, 2026

My contact info
Denimadoniasho@gmail.com
419-487-3413