About us
IRL is where Bay Area singles meet in real life.
Created for singles who are ready for something beyond dating apps, IRL brings people together through curated social experiences designed for genuine, face-to-face connection.
No swiping. No endless profiles. Just thoughtfully chosen venues, intentional experiences, and the opportunity to meet someone naturally — in real life.
IRL hosts elevated singles events throughout the Bay Area and Wine Country, from Napa, Sonoma and St. Helena to Walnut Creek, Danville, Alamo, Orinda and beyond.
Expect beautiful wineries, country clubs, boutique hotels, standout restaurants, cocktail bars and distinctive venues selected to create the right atmosphere for conversation and connection.
Whether you meet someone special, make a new connection, or simply have an incredible evening out, IRL is about putting down the phone and showing up for what can happen in person.
Meet people, not profiles.
See you IRL.
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